Your premise is a complete straw man (or an attempt to set up a straw man.) Any intelligent mind here can observe this through your statements and assertions.
My curiosity really is this:
Why is @Urbanyst so heavily invested in this video?
I could care less what the video says or doesn't say...it doesn't affect me personally just as it doesn't affect anybody else here personally who has sufficient self assurance to understand that such a video has no bearing on their personal reality.
For a man with a theory is never at the mercy of a man with experience.
You spout theories. Those here with experience don't see things the same way because of personal experience...and you find this maddening because failure of people on the board to agree with your theory...your belief system by proxy...is intolerable to you.
So while you cling to your theories (belief system), others are out having success that is not consistent with what you believe & clang on about...
And you fail to recognize how shrill and inexperienced this makes you appear.
Holy smokes !
OP got owned by a women....
Muahahahahaha