should I reply to her message?

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I like how you started to speak in broken english towards the end.
Lol maybe he can do like KRS One said and invite her over for chicken and watermelon and do some drug sellin' too...
 

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Where to start? She took 4 hours to reply? Holy fuk someone call the cops!

Dude this is NEEDY behaviour on your part.. Sometimes life gets in the way, so texting back immediately cannot happen..

Also this chick has indicated she does not like your body? She takes ages to reply.. Sound like High interest level to you?

I would just salvage some dignity and walk from this one..

If some chick indicated to me, she didn't like my body, I would drop her in a heart beat.

Find a chick who actually fancies you!
Yes she has indicated she didn't like my body I think. She didn't look at my body, only at my face, didn't touch my body much, and that thing I talked about in the OP where she said "I feel nothing". But then again of the 5 women I had sex with before only 2 made any signs at all of liking my body even a little and I don't think those two really liked my body either.

You say she is super annoying, why not dump her? Problem solved, annoyance gone for good.
Yeah but I don't have any other women right now except one that keeps messaging me that I don't want to talk to. So I would be back to 0 women then but yeah that's ok I guess. But she seemed to like me a lot during the date before she came to my home.

Me personally? I would let things ride for several days then send her a greeting, ask her what her schedule is like and suggest getting together for a drink at your place on a day she says she's free.

If she beats around the bush, declines without a counter, or states anything else other than her availability, then just go cold on her and let her do any of the pursuing from that point on.
But the thing is we only have the rest of this week, and maybe a weekend, but I'll probably be tired in that weekend and sleep all day due to my night shift work, so we only have the rest of this week. As I said earlier I will work and then she will go back to her country. And she's free every day because she's here on vacation.

From the text messages,it's looks like misunderstanding and miscommunication due to culture and language barrier. Maybe try to be much more clearer in your messages, and if she'll still continue play dumb game with you, then you have your answer.
Looks to me lIke sme issue with her english. All she appears to be is a lay. Act accordingly.
Maybe she genuinely didn't understand we were going to meet today. I doubt it though. Plus when she was in my home I think she told a lie about what she meant when she said "I feel nothing" so she might have a habit of lying.

All she appears to be is a lay. Act accordingly.
We were going to be hanging out all this week, so yeah not much more than a one night stand. A one week stand I guess. What is acting accordingly in this case?
 

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I like how you started to speak in broken english towards the end.
Lol maybe he can do like KRS One said and invite her over for chicken and watermelon and do some drug sellin' too...
Lol, yeah. I'm not a native English speaker but I find that when I'm talking to someone whose English is worse than mine I often intentionally make my English worse.
 

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Lol, yeah. I'm not a native English speaker but I find that when I'm talking to someone whose English is worse than mine I often intentionally make my English worse.
You know that's funny you bring that up because I work in a place where there are a substantial number of foreigners and I have noticed that when two foreigners start talking their English becomes almost incomprehensible but then when any of them talk with me or another native English speaker I have no issues understanding them...

Must be something that just happens without knowing it...
 

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You know that's funny you bring that up because I work in a place where there are a substantial number of foreigners and I have noticed that when two foreigners start talking their English becomes almost incomprehensible but then when any of them talk with me or another native English speaker I have no issues understanding them...

Must be something that just happens without knowing it...
Don't know why BOTH would get worse. For me I will simplify and say sleep in past tense instead of slept for example if I suspect the person I'm talking to doesn't know what slept means but knows what sleep means. And I might intentionally use worse pronunciation, I guess so they won't think I think I'm better than them or something.

Anyway she messaged me an hour later, see image above. What should I do?

edit: Now that I think about it it might be that when you're speaking with a native speaker you're trying your best to speak like a native speaker whereas when speaking with another non-native speaker you might think that would sound pretentious, both might be thinking that. I really don't know...
 
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Lmaoo she texts like a cheap hooker....

Why are you having these complicated exchanges. There’s no language barrier. You just talk too much

“Y u no invite me todaii!!!!?”

“My place tomorrw, 8 pm, dress sexy”
We had planned to meet yesterday, I have already explained that. Talk too much? I waited in vain for her reply and then when she finally did reply she changed the plan to the next day and acted like it was nothing.
 

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We had planned to meet yesterday, I have already explained that. Talk too much? I waited in vain for her reply and then when she finally did reply she changed the plan to the next day and acted like it was nothing.
She is wanting to see how much control you will allow her to exert. Standing your grpund was good although you seemed like you were going to go with it at first...I probablybwouldnt have gotten into that lomg exchange in the middle about why...it really doesn't do anything for you, Most times a woman wont tell you the truth anyway.
 

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What should I do now?
You let her reach out to you and then you tell her she needs to figure out a way to make it up to you. Maybe suggest her cooking you dinner. Dont be a d!ck aboit it, but just be very calm and non chalant. If this works out for you it will be the best sex of your life, she will fvck the life out of you trying to impress you.

And more importantly you start working to go out with other women so you dont have a desperation mindset where you play not to lose the one woman you have versus playing to win and not caring because you have several others.

To truly win with women you must not be afraid to risk losing and walk away from any one woman.
 

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Bro fvck all that ****. Like Midnight said, you tell her your place tomorrow at Xpm.

Who cares if she bailed today, are you trying to be some tyrannical overlord who condemns subordinates to death if they step out of line, because I thought you were trying to get your d!ck wet?

I think you're from the UK and this girl is some sex starved EE from Romania, Lithuania or Poland. One of the rare ones that didn't turn to Adultwork. Do you live near London?
 

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Bro fvck all that ****. Like Midnight said, you tell her your place tomorrow at Xpm.

Who cares if she bailed today, are you trying to be some tyrannical overlord who condemns subordinates to death if they step out of line, because I thought you were trying to get your d!ck wet?

I think you're from the UK and this girl is some sex starved EE from Romania, Lithuania or Poland. One of the rare ones that didn't turn to Adultwork. Do you live near London?
Swedish, she's Colombian.

Also, she messaged me today. What do? I'm asking everyone. conversation.png
 

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Well I asked her what she was doing. Clearly when she replied 4 hours later she wasn't doing the same thing. Maybe I should take 4 hours to reply to her too? Then we will probably not meet today unless she wants to come here at midnight or later. She said yesterday she wanted to come here today and have sex.
Welcome to the game

The whole point is to make it seem (if you are not actually engaged in something) like you're busy. Women want a guy that's high value and you over texting doesn't show that .literally wait 4 or or more before texting her or do other stuff
 

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Swedish, she's Colombian.

Also, she messaged me today. What do? I'm asking everyone. View attachment 1263
It's not rocket science.

"Hey, can you come round at XYZ?"

It's so bloody easy, the language barrier means you be more direct with these broads. Colombian huh, bet she's sexy AF. Who cares if she doesn't like your body, it's not a catwalk bro.

This is an easy lay.
 

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She's asking again if she can sleep here. I hardly know her. Just met her once. Should I let her? Better hide the money in a secure place. In the 10 years I've lived in this apartment no one has ever slept over here. Maybe she will dig in my browsing history, or dig in my drawers and find embarrassing sh1t.
 

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She's asking again if she can sleep here. I hardly know her. Just met her once. Should I let her? Better hide the money in a secure place. In the 10 years I've lived in this apartment no one has ever slept over here. Maybe she will dig in my browsing history, or dig in my drawers and find embarrassing sh1t.
I wouldnt let her...I'd tell her to come over and then bang her back out and send her packing
 

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She's asking again if she can sleep here. I hardly know her. Just met her once. Should I let her? Better hide the money in a secure place. In the 10 years I've lived in this apartment no one has ever slept over here. Maybe she will dig in my browsing history, or dig in my drawers and find embarrassing sh1t.
Dude how are you making this so difficult? Hellen Keller would be fvcking this chick by now. She’s begging for d1ck and you’re asking us what to do. The answer is to lay it down.
 

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In the 10 years I've lived in this apartment no one has ever slept over here.
Then you have more pressing issues to deal with rather than if Annamaria is setting you up to be robbed by hector and Gustavo... wait your more worried about browsing history, this can’t be life.

All you need to worry about is if it’s a setup. I would say don’t let her stay, but you have to break that decade long cycle and she could be perfect practice. Let her stay and report back this is a game changer for your life.
 

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Her whöre nature shows all the time. I'm telling her about my previous girlfriend (because she asked) who's 43 which is ten years older than me and that she wants to have children with me but I don't want children. This whöre says I can't have a child, then lies about how she meant I'm too young and 45 is a good age to become a father. I later ask her about the age of the father of her son, and it becomes obvious how she's struggling to construct a believable lie. Then when I ask her what she does for a living she tells me her job, and tells me she has a car, laughs a little as she's telling me that, most probably because her car is better than mine. I have a feeling she won't call or text me again even though she said we will meet tomorrow, and even if she does I probably won't reply. She was also talking about how she's free to get a new boyfriend next week. She was lying naked in my bed while talking on the phone to her son. When we were in a mall and she had lunch I felt so fücking angry at the two women that work in the restaurant because they were hotter than my date, one of them looked like her arms might be stronger than mine and that also makes me fücking angry to see, women who look stronger than me. After I dropped her off I took a walk, and then I see a b1tch that rejected me in a bar a few weeks ago. Sex was sh1t too due to some problem, pain in my d1ck and it was a little red, sperm was a little red too, I have to go to a doctor, although I went not long ago and then they said everything was fine, they always say that the useless pieces of sh1t.
 

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This might be the best troll post yet...
 
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