should I reply to her message?

[edegoge]

I was chatting with this woman I'm dating earlier today. All of a sudden no reply. Then 4 hours later she replies, with no explanation why it took so long, no sorry, nothing. Should I reply or should I dump this b1tch? How much of being treated this way should be tolerated? We were going to have sex today, but all fücking day she didn't reply and now it's 7 p.m. I think this is unacceptable, she wants to treat me like sh1t and expects me to treat her like a princess. I made the mistake of opening the message and started typing a reply immediately. She most likely saw that I read it and started typing. But I haven't replied.

A somewhat separate issue but she also didn't seem to like my body when she was here. Refused to take off her pants and said "I feel nothing" which I think meant she wasn't turned on by my body. But for some reason she still said she wanted to come here and have sex today. Not sure if I want it, because of her messaging behavior and because I don't like having sex with a woman who doesn't like my body. But she seemed to like me a lot during the date before we got to my apartment.

edit: And I think she also lied about what she meant by "I feel nothing" when I commented on it. She said it meant she felt nothing when I touched her püssy through her pants. Seemed like a lie from the context.

 

[soulforge]

I was chatting with this woman I'm dating earlier today. All of a sudden no reply. Then 4 hours later she replies, with no explanation why it took so long, no sorry, nothing. Should I reply or should I dump this b1tch? How much of being treated this way should be tolerated? We were going to have sex today, but all fücking day she didn't reply and now it's 7 p.m. I think this is unacceptable, she wants to treat me like sh1t and expects me to treat her like a princess. I made the mistake of opening the message and started typing a reply immediately. She most likely saw that I read it and started typing. But I haven't replied.

A somewhat separate issue but she also didn't seem to like my body when she was here. Refused to take off her pants and said "I feel nothing" which I think meant she wasn't turned on by my body. But for some reason she still said she wanted to come here and have sex today. Not sure if I want it, because of her messaging behavior and because I don't like having sex with a woman who doesn't like my body. But she seemed to like me a lot during the date before we got to my apartment.

edit: And I think she also lied about what she meant by "I feel nothing" when I commented on it. She said it meant she felt nothing when I touched her püssy through her pants. Seemed like a lie from the context.

Where to start? She took 4 hours to reply? Holy fuk someone call the cops!

Dude this is NEEDY behaviour on your part.. Sometimes life gets in the way, so texting back immediately cannot happen..

Also this chick has indicated she does not like your body? She takes ages to reply.. Sound like High interest level to you?

I would just salvage some dignity and walk from this one..

If some chick indicated to me, she didn't like my body, I would drop her in a heart beat.

Find a chick who actually fancies you!

 

[edegoge]

Where to start? She took 4 hours to reply? Holy fuk someone call the cops!

Dude this is NEEDY behaviour on your part.. Sometimes life gets in the way, so texting back immediately cannot happen..

Also this chick has indicated she does not like your body? She takes ages to reply.. Sound like High interest level to you?

I would just salvage some dignity and walk from this one..

If some chick indicated to me, she didn't like my body, I would drop her in a heart beat.

Find a chick who actually fancies you!

Well I asked her what she was doing. Clearly when she replied 4 hours later she wasn't doing the same thing. Maybe I should take 4 hours to reply to her too? Then we will probably not meet today unless she wants to come here at midnight or later. She said yesterday she wanted to come here today and have sex.

 

[edegoge]

If it makes any difference I met this woman on badoo, then we met next day, she came to my home, gave me a handjob and a blöwjob and took off her sweater but not pants, said we'd have sex next time. She is in my country for a month and she will be my "girlfriend" during this time but I work night shift all the time except this week and one additional weekend, I'm free all this week. So I'll only be with her this week and maybe that additional weekend. She was talking about how I should pay for her dinner every day of this week and I should let her sleep in my apartment every day, then she would have sex with me. But later it seemed she didn't have this demand and wanted to have sex anyway.

 

[Murk]

You Europeans

 

[soulforge]

If it makes any difference I met this woman on badoo, then we met next day, she came to my home, gave me a handjob and a blöwjob and took off her sweater but not pants, said we'd have sex next time. She is in my country for a month and she will be my "girlfriend" during this time but I work night shift all the time except this week and one additional weekend, I'm free all this week. So I'll only be with her this week and maybe that additional weekend. She was talking about how I should pay for her dinner every day of this week and I should let her sleep in my apartment every day, then she would have sex with me. But later it seemed she didn't have this demand and wanted to have sex anyway.

She sounds like a hoe, who wants feeding and a place to live... on the promise of possible sex!

She also does not like your body.. What do you wants us to say? She is a skank.. And your standards are very LOW

 

[marmel75]

This is a dude who is beyond clueless with women. I'm shocked at how you actually haven't got dumped yet.

 

[edegoge]

This is a dude who is beyond clueless with women. I'm shocked at how you actually haven't got dumped yet.

Why don't you give advice instead? Do you think your reply is helpful in any way?

 

[QuadDeuces]

You find a new woman because this one is no good.

 

[edegoge]

This woman is super annoying. Now we're texting. She's asking to come here tomorrow. She pulled this lie about how I didn't invite her today, presumably to make it seem she did nothing wrong. I say we had planned to meet today, I ask why she didn't reply. She said she was with her sister. I say she didn't tell me. Now she's asking if I have time tomorrow. I replied "maybe". What do? Unacceptable behavior I think.

 

[soulforge]

Why don't you give advice instead? Do you think your reply is helpful in any way?

Yes it is helpful.. Hopefully you will see how fukin stupid this is.. She is a skank, who took 4 hours to message you.

You hamster is spinning over a scrag like this?

 

[soulforge]

This woman is super annoying. Now we're texting. She's asking to come here tomorrow. She pulled this lie about how I didn't invite her today, presumably to make it seem she did nothing wrong. I say we had planned to meet today, I ask why she didn't reply. She said she was with her sister. I say she didn't tell me. Now she's asking if I have time tomorrow. I replied "maybe". What do? Unacceptable behavior I think.

You say she is super annoying, why not dump her? Problem solved, annoyance gone for good.

 

[edegoge]

Acting bossy and laughing at me: (I'm green, she's white)

 

[icantgetlaid]

Acting bossy and laughing at me: View attachment 1261 (I'm green, she's white)

I don't know if it's because of the translation, but it's an entertaining text string to read. I normally would just not reply to a girl who is demonstrating bad behavior, but i liked how you maintained frame, and now she's begging for your attention/time. Well played.

 

[marmel75]

Why don't you give advice instead? Do you think your reply is helpful in any way?

Yes it is actually. You should start at the beginning. Go read the DJ Bible like 5 times

 

[edegoge]

I don't know if it's because of the translation, but it's an entertaining text string to read. I normally would just not reply to a girl who is demonstrating bad behavior, but i liked how you maintained frame, and now she's begging for your attention/time. Well played.

I haven't sent her a message after that, nor has she. Don't know what to do now.

 

[icantgetlaid]

I haven't sent her a message after that, nor has she. Don't know what to do now.

Me personally? I would let things ride for several days then send her a greeting, ask her what her schedule is like and suggest getting together for a drink at your place on a day she says she's free.

If she beats around the bush, declines without a counter, or states anything else other than her availability, then just go cold on her and let her do any of the pursuing from that point on.

 

[The Diver]

Acting bossy and laughing at me: View attachment 1261 (I'm green, she's white)

From the text messages,it's looks like misunderstanding and miscommunication due to culture and language barrier. Maybe try to be much more clearer in your messages, and if she'll still continue play dumb game with you, then you have your answer.

 

[Thatfeel21]

Looks to me lIke sme issue with her english. All she appears to be is a lay. Act accordingly.

 

[fanatic22]

Acting bossy and laughing at me: View attachment 1261 (I'm green, she's white)

I like how you started to speak in broken english towards the end.