Why does it seem to be so many damaged women or women with so many issues out there? Any of the good women are taken what's left is the bottom of the barrel. Makes a guy want to stay single I really don't need to be with a woman with issues been there done that, was enough to make me not do it again.
So many damaged women out there
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I went on a date with an HB 9 last night. Her life is so fvcked up. She kept talking about her abusive ex bf. And she has no future cause she made a lot of bad decisions earlier in life.
Makes me glad I’m single. I may not have looks or status. But my life isn’t fvcked up at all. I have 0 emotional baggage from gf drama and I have an excellent career that I love. I haven’t had reached my peak yet.
It made me realize that my date was bottom of the barrel even though she was mega hot.
Makes me glad I’m single. I may not have looks or status. But my life isn’t fvcked up at all. I have 0 emotional baggage from gf drama and I have an excellent career that I love. I haven’t had reached my peak yet.
It made me realize that my date was bottom of the barrel even though she was mega hot.
Well basically you get pvssy and a bit of female company. That's the minimum that is worth your time anything else is a bonus. That's why you have to plate and work the Pipeline so that better girls take their place
They all drink too much that's why!!, every woman I know under 40 yrs old polishes off a bottle of wine most nights,
My ex used to like a drink, it literally magnified 10x the attention *****/ proffessional victim in her
And I'm on about sober the day after not just changes on the night time when drinking
My ex used to like a drink, it literally magnified 10x the attention *****/ proffessional victim in her
And I'm on about sober the day after not just changes on the night time when drinking
Masculinity
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The American culture bombards women with a plethora of messages and privileges, which has effects on family and dating dynamics. In short, a lot of women feel entitled to things or wish to be "free women."
devilkingx2
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Look for a woman who is successful in her personal life, popular people with good jobs and educations are less likely to have major issues (hard to get your degree while addicted to meth and being abused by your baby daddy)
I find woman who drinks a big turn off.
It's been my experience that those that do drink regularly r those damage ones. It's not even worth the effort to bang them.
It's been my policy 2 never date a girl who drinks and those that goes to club/bars.
Majority of woman don't drink, if they do then it's a social thingy like a wedding.
Plenty of girls in bookstores, nature clubs, shopping centers. Go get 1 there.
All woman has issues, one way or the other they do.
The difference is the severity of it
...I guess it boils down to which side of the month they r in, with all the chemicals flowing inside them and constantly changing doses.
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We need to be better to women and they won't be so fvcked up.
not in the west midlands of the UK, Majority of women under 40 drink excessively and sniff coke
over 40 then i agree there much more stable
I used to own a bar/club in an area that is basically a tourist nightlife spot.
My observation;
Woman who drinks/goes bar hopping r just plainly going there to hook up. I think abt 80% r there to get drunk and if an opportunity arises they'll go for it, 10% r there purely to hunt males, 7% r there purely to get drunk only, that leaves the 3% who r too ugly/fat/old to get any man.
Of course there's substance abuse too.
My conclusion;
It's like a gold fish entering a pool full of piranhas, either u become a piranha or get eaten.
My advice;
Move out. That's what I did. It's hard and risky to move but the consequences of not moving is certain; sooner or later u will become someone you hate.
Same down here. I don't know a single girl that doesn't drink, some dabble in coke too.
I'm seriously looking to save money this year and focus on making more money at work so no more mid week drink/drug sessions.
I'm going on a date with a girl next Thursday to a film honours event (don't ask me what that is got no idea) there will be champagne, canapes and celebrities (her words). Only problem she's an hb 6/7 but a lovely girl. She's really posh and will prob keep me on the straight and narrow as I know she's anti drugs - she's from Leceistershire up near you derby1.
I need to do more sophisticated sh1t as I'm 29 now.
RangerMIke
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Many chicks are nuts because they have been sold a lie by a feminist narrative that goes against biology. They have been told they can have it all, that they are just as smart, and strong, and capable as men which is compete bvllsh!t on all counts. Most of these women were not raised in traditional families and many did not grow up with a positive influence with a strong man. They never fvcking learn the difference between a GOOD strong man, which is what they want, and a BAD strong man.
So they spend their youth, when they have the highest SMV) trying to compete with men and they get beat out, because men are more driven. You show me a successful CEO of a company and I will show you a person that works 80 hour weeks. Sure there are women that will do this, I know a couple that are great CEOs, but I know 100 men like this. A vast majority of chicks just can not compete, this has a serious determental effect on them. And since chicks have lost the ability to effectively filter out men that are bad for them, they find themselves in relationships that screw up their heads.
I am raising my girls to understand reality, I am teaching them drinking a doing drugs does nothing but screw up their lives, and to stay away from people like this. I am also teaching them to focus on careers that make them happy and try not to force them into anything, BUT I make sure they understand the ramifications of their choices. I also teach them that they should be looking for a good strong man and teach them what one looks like. Absent college, I have told them I do not expect them to live on their own until they are married. Women NEED a man in their lives, either a father or husband, and when they do not have this, their emotions pull them in self-destructive directions.
So they spend their youth, when they have the highest SMV) trying to compete with men and they get beat out, because men are more driven. You show me a successful CEO of a company and I will show you a person that works 80 hour weeks. Sure there are women that will do this, I know a couple that are great CEOs, but I know 100 men like this. A vast majority of chicks just can not compete, this has a serious determental effect on them. And since chicks have lost the ability to effectively filter out men that are bad for them, they find themselves in relationships that screw up their heads.
I am raising my girls to understand reality, I am teaching them drinking a doing drugs does nothing but screw up their lives, and to stay away from people like this. I am also teaching them to focus on careers that make them happy and try not to force them into anything, BUT I make sure they understand the ramifications of their choices. I also teach them that they should be looking for a good strong man and teach them what one looks like. Absent college, I have told them I do not expect them to live on their own until they are married. Women NEED a man in their lives, either a father or husband, and when they do not have this, their emotions pull them in self-destructive directions.
RangerMIke
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You can give chicks all the advantages in the world and they will still never be able to compete with men. It's like socialism, socialism is great... until you run out of other people's money. Women will do well in business... as long as you can convince men that they should continue to make up for the chicks short coming. The reason we have this 'Me Too" movement in the US is happening is because the feminist society is looking for other reasons absent that men are just better in every objective measurable, except having babies, as the reason chicks can not keep up.
This whole wage gap myth is absolute and complete BS. I run companies... I will tell you that if chicks were really just as good as men, AND I can hire them for 70% of what I pay men... I would fvcking have a company of nothing but chicks. If it did not matter why in the FVCK would I pay someone more for the same work.
Anyway... sorry for the rant. But until women just accept reality they will continue to be pains int he @ss and emotional basket cases.
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I'm to the point in life that I have better things to do than women. I've had 3 girls show plenty of interest the past 2months but I just don't have the desire. Unless they look and act damn near perfect, I'd rather not get involved with any of them. Too many beta's have let them get away with bad behavior that has led to their entitlement.
Far too many mentally defective women out there. Most of them are medicated with some type of drug or alcohol.
Far too many women can't regulate their emotions properly.
I'm not looking for a liability, I'm looking for something that brings me value. If I get horny I will look at p0rn or rent some pu$$y. Less headaches that way and no woman trying to steer the ship.
Far too many mentally defective women out there. Most of them are medicated with some type of drug or alcohol.
Far too many women can't regulate their emotions properly.
I'm not looking for a liability, I'm looking for something that brings me value. If I get horny I will look at p0rn or rent some pu$$y. Less headaches that way and no woman trying to steer the ship.
wifehunter
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Society is overrun with crazies.
Remember guys, we need to stay vigilant. The authorities are mostly white knights, who fail to lock these girls up.
The insane asylum is dead.
Welcome to planet crazy!
Now, run for the hills!
Remember guys, we need to stay vigilant. The authorities are mostly white knights, who fail to lock these girls up.
The insane asylum is dead.
Welcome to planet crazy!
Now, run for the hills!
Its not just booze its the ones that smoke pot on a daily basis plus the fact they are cigarette smokers. A girl I was talking to checking her out she's cute, higher education girl, she pulls out her cigarettes, uh there goes any attraction I had for her. I later found out she's pretty much raised by her mom, didn't sound like she's had the easiest up bringing.
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I would also argue that it is an abundance of weak men that create this as well; an abundance of men that follow or believe the feminist narrative. I mean, I struggle with this at times, because when I think about it, my father was not what I would now consider a "strong man", nor did he model a healthy relationship in front of me. My mom is a whole different story, whom I spent only summers with when I was growing up.
My main point is that both sexes are to blame. Both sexes are not filling their roles how they need to be filled, and this is likely due to the feminist narrative as you suggested. Many men do not grow with strong father figures, therefore they have trouble modeling that for their kids. Men "think" their fathers are strong, but are likely wrong... 90% (debatable) of the time. It is then a vicious cycle which heads downhill until some poor oaf finds the redpill. In a family of men though, this may end up being 1 of 20 males, the other 19 are following their women, the media, and what society says they should be doing.
By the time women reach their 30's, they have encountered so many weak dudes, tail-chasers, perpetual cheaters, liars, etc., they have no idea what is good for them. They often screw up a good thing before it even had a chance...
I understand what it takes to be a "strong" man, but it can be very difficult to consistently employ behaviors that are not natural to me. For some reason, and many others like feel this way, men are at such a disadvantage that submission often seems like the only answer, or at least the path of least resistance.
