You have established yourself as a jerk within that social circle at this point. Your behavior is now a known quantity. Surely you understand that. So now your reputation (as a jerk) precedes you.
Firstly, no. I’d be known to be funny before ANYTHING else with these peeps, so that’s just wrong. Part of the reason why I’m funny is because I tease. There just so happens to be some crossover.
So now your reputation (as a jerk) precedes you. The women in that social circle talk to each other.
They don’t. This I know for a fact lol. I’m not explaining how, but I know almost for certain that they don’t really talk to each other all that much aside from when me or the other guys are there haha.
Other girls in that group are telling her what an ass hat you are. She doesn't want to be seen in her social group as the idiot who gives the ass hole the time of day. Find a new group of girls to hit on. You're baked in this one.
So I mean, she already DID give me the time of day with all that clear playful hitting and stuff we did last week in front of the others. And I’ve had the same thing happen to me from other girls here too. Like I see that it bothers you how I can kinda be a guy towards a girl and have her fall for me and **** it up, but that doesn’t make me an ass. I know she probably does, because age has to have that cognitive dissonance, but it’s just not true. Everyone I talk to still really likes me so yeah.
The example that
@MidnightCity gave you about the rookie QB who has early success but then is stymied by the opposing defensive coordinator once there's a little film is rather accurate here. The scouting reports the girls are giving each other are not favorable. That's why the change.
That’s not why the change, and marmel’s advice wasn’t really good tbh because it didn’t say anything. He just stated he problem in a different way. Didn’t provide any solutions. Even though me and MidnightCity went at it in this thread, I still really liked his first post because it explained it a whole lot better as well as what to actually do. LessThanSmooth’s was probably the best though so far.
Nice women who are worth actually dating aren't going to put up with petty put downs.
Lol yes they will. This is just false. ‘Nice’ women are still women at their core.
You likely have, but don’t rationalize it that way. That’s why all guys that girls have fallen for are jerks. Most of the time they’re actually pretty cool guys, but the chick was just sad that it didn’t work out so she has to blame him as being a jerk. You likely have down the same thing when it happened to you and you can’t realize it.
Women are smarter than you give them credit for and pick up on the insult (which you admit that what you said came across as an insult.)
Well no, it was a compliment actually. But she just took it as an insult. That’s how I know that I gave her too much credit actually....
Nice women worth dating NEXT!! over ugly behavior like that. They have too many other options so of course you have to play it better.
Oh please, not even you fully believe this. Here’s the thing, the girl in question is *ACTUALLY* a b!tch. Like seriously, you wouldn’t like her and would probably say that she needs to be ‘disciplined’. She just has a great ass and doesn’t look ugly without makeup. But she’s a real b!tch.
Secondly, let’s NOT forget the number of times you’ve stated on here that if we want sweet and nicer women that we are gonna have to settle for someone who IS uglier. I mean the fact is, ugly women DO tend to be nicer BECAUSE they need to have something to make up for it.
Three: of the women who this has worked on before, they actually *WERE* nicer than this chick. Do you know why? It’s called AGREEABLENESS. These nicer chicks were more willing to joke around in much the same way that I was. If they make fun of me and roast my ****ing life hard, and see me laugh about it with them (or even tell them ‘damn alright that was pretty good, you got me’), then they’re also more willing to let the same happen to them. Why? Because they’re NICER. In other words, they’re a lot more chill. They’re just cooler people to be around. Someone can do the same to me, it’s no big deal. The fact is, your whole claim about nice women is just wrong, and even contrasts to what you have said in the past.
If you don't learn to play it better (more calibrated) you'll inadvertently filter for the trashier, lower self esteem women who do put up with jerk behavior...and then you'll be like any number of other dudes here wondering why the market is crap.
Ummm, no. Again, this is just wrong. Why? Because
attraction is universal. The social plays that work on one woman will work on them all, if they give you the time of day. The traits needed to attract women are pretty much the same everywhere, be it high self-esteem, low self-esteem, feminazi, satanist, ‘good’ girl Christian chick, whatever. But yeah I do have to say that the market genuinely is crap. It’s not as bad for me because girls just treat me better since they know that I take care of myself and (contrary to your belief) I actually DO know how to socialize. But I still remember the days before all that. And even the sweetest women would show me some rudeness or slight cruelty unless they pitied me, which is still insulting me. This is woman. This is you. It’s female nature. I’ve accepted it. Have you?
Look in the mirror. Water seeks its own level.
And when I do, I always believe that I deserve better. A woman who is my female equivalent in looks would literally have tens of thousands of followers on Instagram. One who’s actually as chill as me and as knowledgeable on actual topics like history or electronics or anything other than superficial crap? I have yet to meet even a fictional character like that. Water does NOT deep at its own level for women. But me on the other hand have been drowning for decades. Take a look beneath you on the head of the man you are standing on. You just might be able to see what I’m talking about
