dead fish in bed

[Glassguy]

i appreciate the advice....ive stated further up the thread i airborn 69 women the lot

i think my point is when i bang a woman i take everything ive learnt into the next FCK

so youd think how open things are in 2018 youd think they had a bit of artillery in between the sck

The ALL do. You are just not getting it out of them.

 

[Macaframalama]

perhaps ive worded my Original Post not so perfect here men....
i know exactly what im doing...
i am just stating that i find women in general selfish and unimaginative considering its 2018 and half of them reckon they ride the carousel full time, they aint very good at it

I understand where you are coming from. Command them. For example, us guys are highly into visual. If you've been punching away doggy, stop and tell her to back it up, work that ass, while you get to enjoy and watch the penetration. Here is the perfect opportunity to compliment her skills and body. The wiring of her circuitry to associate sexual favors, techniques for a verbal reward. She can work her pvssy from the bottom and especially on her side and find her spot. If you want to be teased, tell her to just ride the tip. She will get what's going on usually play along and pull you out a few times, before you are about to cvm. If not, command her and tell her that the pvssy just feels to good to end it. Same with chics always stopping sucking or jacking in the middle of a nut. We all hate that, but she don't know that my D is still super sensitive and pleasure to be had. Make me twitch b!tch. Crack the whip and command it, then reward.

 

[derby1]

The ALL do. You are just not getting it out of them.

well agree to disagree on this one, whether ive explained myself properly i dont know...

I notice some posters have agreed so they perhaps got my drift

I just dont think some women have got any imagination and it is a complete erection killer to me when i have to lead them over menial tasks, when there sitting there cumming

 

[Macaframalama]

well agree to disagree on this one, whether ive explained myself properly i dont know...

I notice some posters have agreed so they perhaps got my drift

I just dont think some women have got any imagination and it is a complete erection killer to me when i have to lead them over menial tasks, when there sitting there cumming

Glassguy is on the money bro. I know it would be nice to run into the assertive freaks more, but I don't see it happening any time soon. Males dominate and lead, females submit and follow.

 

[ubercat]

I can give you a leg up I'm finding crazier. I went for a period of 10 years dating arts cricks they are all bat**** crazy. I think it's because they broke ass but believe the world owed them a living because of their amazing talent which is just misunderstood.

And yeah i have I have had a couple of starfish over the years but they both had psych issues. If you're getting 80 percent something seems off

 

[Roober]

well agree to disagree on this one, whether ive explained myself properly i dont know...

I notice some posters have agreed so they perhaps got my drift

I just dont think some women have got any imagination and it is a complete erection killer to me when i have to lead them over menial tasks, when there sitting there cumming

I think we all get it.

You are like every dude that thinks he's a sexual god and afraid to admit that you are actually quite the opposite. If she is being lazy or not doing things during the act, you are failing to stimulate her, regardless of what you may believe.

Your solution will continue to elude you until you do a real root cause analysis.

 

[derby1]

apparently i shouldnt have used term "dead fish"
these women are having a whale of a time off my efforts

my point is purely... it would be good if they put some effort into the mix, there not stupid are they

 

[Macaframalama]

I don't think it's as much about being bad at sex or the inability to stimulate them as it is breaking down a barrier in Derby's case. Social conditioning has been going on since probably the dawn of man to get ppl to do and act the way others want them to and slut shaming is a real thing they have to deal with. You have a simple fix, that can be fixed immediately with the previous posts. Make sure your comfort is as Glass mentioned and be vocal about it and you will have your freak.

 

[Alvafe]

matters little, one thing you need to read is what will turn the crazy switch up and don't let it go down, I ahd this on both ends, one was more willing to do my bidding, and pushed and grabbed her its was all nice and ok, with another I was not feeling it (not really that atractive to me but hey was easy pulling) then well the bed was not so good, she was not that much into it because I was not too much into it, I could see she was willing and hot when we was starting but in the middle of it her switch was down so I did notice she was not so much on it then I just wraped it up and move on,

I guess the problem here is you reading what she feel like doing and keep her up to it, its happens time to time something like you feel the obligation in doing it, in the end in bed or in the all things you lead she follows, if you are tired make her work but you still need to lead

 

[Glassguy]

apparently i shouldnt have used term "dead fish"
these women are having a whale of a time off my efforts

my point is purely... it would be good if they put some effort into the mix, there not stupid are they

By doing what I suggested earlier, you are bringing out what has already been put in them.

Every. Single. One.

By making them comfortable enough with you to be freaky/dirty/nastier, you are also training her on what turns you on in bed. And when she opens up sexually, you'll find more stimulation for her too.

 

[The Duke]

@derby1 - you mentioned that one of the girls you were with you weren't very attracted to. Women are pretty sharp at picking up on those things. Could it be that this had an effect? A chic that isn't comfortable with what you think of her(even if you don't say) isn't going to be open and adventurous in bed.

The other chic you mentioned was a prostitute......do you really expect to have topshelf sechs with a prostitute? I've had sex with a few prostitutes and they certainly aren't on my list of memorable experiences.

You also mentioned having to instruct these girls on what you want. Verbal instruction is about the worst mood killer there is. Instruct by leading, not telling them like you are providing driving instructions.

What vibe are you giving off in the bedroom? How confident/relaxed/open minded are you? If you have ever spent much time around horses and dogs, you will understand that the vibe you give off determines how comfortable/friendly that animal is around you. Women will mirror your attitudes in the bedroom almost always. Lead by example.

I've always thought it was hot when my chic played with herself in my presence. So to get her to do this for me, I started to play with myself making her the object of my desire. Doing so opened the door for her to mirror my actions. I didn't have to say a thing, I didn't have to move her hand, and from that point on she pleasured herself without any action on my part. I'd remind her from time to time how hot I found it and that's all it took.

 

[derby1]

i shall take everyones advice on board , and adjust my strategy accordingly if i feel it suites

@Howiestern the girl i sadly didnt find that attractive went like a barn door in a storm.......its usually the Hot bods who are boring i feel

 

[Murk]

My ex was super freaky, which is why I kept going back, most liberating free sex I've ever had. But now I know what is the best I can just train a new *****. It's about being a bedroom bully and being vocal about what you want and not being afraid, there is no wrong, only master.