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About a month ago I met this stripper. Knowing that being a stripper she probably was crazy I was just planning on smashing and dashing so I wasn't planning on putting much effort into her unless she came to me. I don't recommend going for strippers they usually have BPD but if you go in mentally armed the sex can be worth it. You need to have a few BPD under your belt to do this so I don't recommend it in most cases but lets be real no guy is turning down a 10. I don't want to hear don't get involved with a BPD, obviously I was just trying to bang her..

We ended up working out together at the gym one time..I felt the attraction and we were flirting etc. We made plans for breakfast that weekend and she bails last minute. I delete her number. To my surprise, a Few days later she hits me up...

her "hey"
me "whatsup? so when am I seeing you"
her "next week after Christmas when I get some free time"
me "thats too long. I like to go for chicks when they are fresh in my head"
her "lol well we can get together soon"



We had plans to hang out today and she finally breaks down...
her "I have to tell you something "
me "what?"
her "I know you like me...but I can't keep doing this. I have a boyfriend. Im sorry but thats why Ive been giving you the run around. I can't workout with you or hang with you because I don't want to lead anyone on or be unfaithful to him. Things are serious between us"
me "You've had a boyfriend for two weeks? Why not be straight up"
her "I was talking to him way before I met you. We got together before you and I worked out together that time"

So it turns out this chick contacted me three days after she was "official" with this dude. So much for being loyal lol. I could tell she was fighting the attraction with me when we hung out too.

Based on the above how long do you think it will take before I can get this broad to cheat on him with me?
 
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Do you know anything about her boyfriend? Is he better than you?
No I don't bro. I do know she was super interested in me when I first got her number and we talked that night...she actually called me and we talked for an hour but mysteriously she wouldn't let me come over. Thats when I suspected something was up. She was foaming at the mouth to hang out the next day at the beach but I blew her off because I suspected something was up. We ended up working out together a week later....I went ghost...she hit me up

The guy could be better than me but my spicy senses tell me based on her initial interest level she is not getting ****ed down by an alpha. Girls involved with a true alpha don't pursue you initially.

I really think if I could of gotten this chick one on one for a second time I could of banged her. But I don't work with her..and Im not in her social circle....and we only hung out once...so its tough. If we would of met up for drinks it would of been game over. I think she knew this too..which is why she always bailed every time we had plans. I think she knew she was gonna cheat. Why would she say 'I don't wanna be unfaithful" if being unfaithful wasn't on her mind right?
 
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No I don't bro. I do know she was super interested in me when I first got her number and we talked that night...she actually called me and we talked for an hour but mysteriously she wouldn't let me come over. Thats when I suspected something was up. She was foaming at the mouth to hang out the next day at the beach but I blew her off because I suspected something was up. We ended up working out together a week later....I went ghost...she hit me up

The guy could be better than me but my spicy senses tell me based on her initial interest level she is not getting ****ed down by an alpha. Girls involved with a true alpha don't pursue you initially.

I really think if I could of gotten this chick one on one for a second time I could of banged her. But I don't work with her..and Im not in her social circle....and we only hung out once...so its tough. If we would of met up for drinks it would of been game over. I think she knew this too..which is why she always bailed every time we had plans. I think she knew she was gonna cheat. Why would she say 'I don't wanna be unfaithful" if being unfaithful wasn't on her mind right?
Does she have kids with the guy?

If she wanted to cheat, she knows she could just ask you to come over at any time. Going out for drinks is just social pleasantries. Maybe she does want to, just won't do it because she doesn't want to THAT bad.

Question: Could YOU be her boyfriend? Then you could get it all the time. If not, why not? What is the difference between you and her boyfriend that she wouldn't want to be in a relationship with you?
 

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Does she have kids with the guy?

If she wanted to cheat, she knows she could just ask you to come over at any time. Going out for drinks is just social pleasantries. Maybe she does want to, just won't do it because she doesn't want to THAT bad.

Question: Could YOU be her boyfriend? Then you could get it all the time. If not, why not? What is the difference between you and her boyfriend that she wouldn't want to be in a relationship with you?
Even if I do have higher SMV than her bf, I don't think Ive had enough time with her in person to escalate or game her. We literally only hung out for an hour and it was at the gym. And even then I had her hitting me up days after she was official with her new man.

If I could get this girl one on one, for even a few hours, or was somehow in her social circle,I know I would get in her pants. How am I supposed to compete with a guy she has known way before me and was probably banging her for months when I haven't had any real time with her? If that were the case, a girl would cheat on a guy she was in a LTR with the moment a better looking man asked for her number.

I guess the question is....was hanging out with her one time for a casual workout enough to make her remember me in her head to hit me up when the relationship goes south with her new man which it probably will. Not a doubt in my mind if she would of gone through with seeing me she would of put out
 

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...The rabbit hole gets deeper... I decided to check on when she hit me up... it was when she was ovulating. I know so because I know exactly when she had her last period. (I asked why she was taking off work and sleeping so much and she told me when her period came. said she was concerned she gained too much weight and sleeping too much etc)

Its crazy how you can literally pinpoint when women will cheat.. I suspected the text was roughly 14 days before she started her period Sunday and I was on the ****ing money. For anyone unaware women are more likely to cheat when ovulating to secure the alpha's seed while returning to the beta provider.

Should be interesting to see if she hits me up around the same time this month.
 

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Dude, she is a stripper. Strike one.
She has a bf. Strike two.
She flaked on you. Strike three. Shes out.

Why are you tracking her periods and trying to put this all together? You are being creepy by putting so much thought and investigation into this. For whatever reason she thought about hanging out with you, something changed her mind and she REJECTED your offer. Next.

I would have said:
Her: I want to be honest. I have a bf.
Me: I am not stingy. He can see you when we arent hanging out once every week or two. You keep him and I will still show you a good time.

OR

Her: I have a bf
Me: Thats cool. I dont kiss and tell. Or just hit me up when you get singled up. No worries. (Then silence.....business as usual with other chicks).

You are white knighting a wh0re. Not only is she a stripper, but she obviously likes to entertain the thought of being with other guys while in a relationship. You should treat her as such. Walk away and if she hits you up she is no more than someone who comes over to fvck occasionally.

Does she have kids with the guy?

If she wanted to cheat, she knows she could just ask you to come over at any time. Going out for drinks is just social pleasantries. Maybe she does want to, just won't do it because she doesn't want to THAT bad.

Question: Could YOU be her boyfriend? Then you could get it all the time. If not, why not? What is the difference between you and her boyfriend that she wouldn't want to be in a relationship with you?
Stop giving advice. You have no clue and no game. If its not going on SA and pulling out $300 and paying for it, you couldnt get laid if you were a rug in a carpet outlet.
Your advise is like Helen Keller trying to read someone a book that isnt in braille.
 
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Dude, she is a stripper. Strike one.
She has a bf. Strike two.
She flaked on you. Strike three. Shes out.

Why are you tracking her periods and trying to put this all together? You are being creepy by putting so much thought and investigation into this. For whatever reason she thought about hanging out with you, something changed her mind and she REJECTED your offer. Next.

I would have said:
Her: I want to be honest. I have a bf.
Me: I am not stingy. He can see you when we arent hanging out once every week or two. You keep him and I will still show you a good time.

OR

Her: I have a bf
Me: Thats cool. I dont kiss and tell. Or just hit me up when you get singled up. No worries. (Then silence.....business as usual with other chicks).

You are white knighting a wh0re. Not only is she a stripper, but she obviously likes to entertain the thought of being with other guys while in a relationship. You should treat her as such. Walk away and if she hits you up she is no more than someone who comes over to fvck occasionally.



Stop giving advice. You have no clue and no game. If its not going on SA and pulling out $300 and paying for it, you couldnt get laid if you were a rug in a carpet outlet.
Your advise is like Helen Keller trying to read someone a book that isnt in braille.
So how do you get laid and I don't?

But I also remember the pictures you posted and they weren't supermodels.

And also what people on this site are missing is that I attract girls almost every time I go out. Maybe 65% of the time.

Having small talk is routine and boring to me.
 

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So how do you get laid and I don't?

But I also remember the pictures you posted and they weren't supermodels.

And also what people on this site are missing is that I attract girls almost every time I go out. Maybe 65% of the time.

Having small talk is routine and boring to me.
Stop hijacking peoples threads to turn them into your own.

All of the pics I posted earlier last year were even 8s and 9s according to Big Neil's photofeeler ratings. And I dont even agree with most of what Big Neil was about.

They were all highly attractive, fit, healthy, well educated, financially successful and fun. Just like the current 4 plates that I am spinning and banging two of them (2 veterinarians, one RN and one city administrator). All have bachelor degrees to doctorates. All make good money and are successful. All are very attractive (I would rate the lowest one a 7.5 just because she is a little thick but is currently working with a personal trainer and sucks a mean d!ck).

I dont date supermodels. Could I? Maybe. Most are superficial, high maintenance, uneducated and dumb as sh!t and thats not my style. Attraction runs deeper than looks. I am equally attracted to their intelligence and personality. Why? Because if we go out for drinks, dinner, or just talking after I fvck them, I dont like talking to stupid or boring chicks. Its called higher standards. I could bang 5s and 6s until my d!ck fell off but I am better than that. Once you lower your standards it takes a very long time to bring them back up. I am 40 and I date 25-35 year olds that fall into the categories that I am attracted to. I am sure that if I had lowered my standards at some point I could have fvcked well over 500 chicks. But I didnt, and I havent.

You dont like small talk because you are unsocial. My ability to talk to anyone I want and not be scared to is the reason I get laid a lot. My personality is very out going, I am intelligent so I can get into a conversation and keep a conversation with anyone on just about anything and conversation leads to number closing, which leads to setting up dates, which leads to getting laid. Getting laid leads to one of the several plates standing out above the rest and being a potential LTR candidate. It is not that hard.

You fail to improve on the very first step because you "dont like it" so the rest of it doesnt matter.

You still want the muscle gain without hitting the gym. There are no shortcuts to being successful in any area of life. The path to success is up the stairs, not down. If it were easy everyone would be millionaires and pulling wool everytime they went out for a drink.

BTW, I am 5'9 and 180lbs. Hitting the gym hard, eating super clean and destroying protein. I am toning up quite nicely and I look like I am at least 10 years younger than I actually am. Blonde hair and blue eyes and dimples that chicks want to kiss. I would consider myself an 8-8.5 but my fun, outgoing, dont give a sh!t attitude is what gets me laid and that is how I separate myself from the other guys hitting these chicks up.

You should try it sometime.
 
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Stop hijacking peoples threads to turn them into your own.

All of the pics I posted earlier last year were even 8s and 9s according to Big Neil's photofeeler ratings. And I dont even agree with most of what Big Neil was about.

They were all highly attractive, fit, healthy, well educated, financially successful and fun. Just like the current 4 plates that I am spinning and banging two of them (2 veterinarians, one RN and one city administrator). All have bachelor degrees to doctorates. All make good money and are successful. All are very attractive (I would rate the lowest one a 7.5 just because she is a little thick but is currently working with a personal trainer and sucks a mean d!ck).

I dont date supermodels. Could I? Maybe. Most are superficial, high maintenance, uneducated and dumb as sh!t and thats not my style. Attraction runs deeper than looks. I am equally attracted to their intelligence and personality. Why? Because if we go out for drinks, dinner, or just talking after I fvck them, I dont like talking to stupid or boring chicks. Its called higher standards. I could bang 5s and 6s until my d!ck fell off but I am better than that. Once you lower your standards it takes a very long time to bring them back up. I am 40 and I date 25-35 year olds that fall into the categories that I am attracted to. I am sure that if I had lowered my standards at some point I could have fvcked well over 500 chicks. But I didnt, and I havent.

You dont like small talk because you are unsocial. My ability to talk to anyone I want and not be scared to is the reason I get laid a lot. My personality is very out going, I am intelligent so I can get into a conversation and keep a conversation with anyone on just about anything and conversation leads to number closing, which leads to setting up dates, which leads to getting laid. Getting laid leads to one of the several plates standing out above the rest and being a potential LTR candidate. It is not that hard.

You fail to improve on the very first step because you "dont like it" so the rest of it doesnt matter.

You still want the muscle gain without hitting the gym. There are no shortcuts to being successful in any area of life. The path to success is up the stairs, not down. If it were easy everyone would be millionaires and pulling wool everytime they went out for a drink.

BTW, I am 5'9 and 180lbs. Hitting the gym hard, eating super clean and destroying protein. I am toning up quite nicely and I look like I am at least 10 years younger than I actually am. Blonde hair and blue eyes and dimples that chicks want to kiss. I would consider myself an 8-8.5 but my fun, outgoing, dont give a sh!t attitude is what gets me laid and that is how I separate myself from the other guys hitting these chicks up.

You should try it sometime.
I work HARD at becoming a millionaire every day. I barely even go out.

I don't ever take a single day off. I would feel like I'm cheating myself.
 
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I work HARD at becoming a millionaire every day. I barely even go out.

I don't ever take a single day off. I would feel like I'm cheating myself.
Thats your decision. But you are not putting forth any effort to be better with women.

Maybe that is a good thing for you. You can just make adequate money in order to pay for sex. Probably a better option for you at this point in time.
 
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Thats your decision. But you are not putting forth any effort to be better with women.

Maybe that is a good thing for you. You can just make adequate money in order to pay for sex. Probably a better option for you at this point in time.
I don't know where to put the effort in to get better with women.
 

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I don't know where to put the effort in to get better with women.
The same thing everyone else on here that probably does well with women have told you. Social skills.

Do you think Michael Jordan handled a basketball like the greatest basketball player of all time the first time he picked one up? NO he worked his @ss of at it. He was even cut from his Jr High basketball team.

If you arent willing to go out and talk to people, you will always remain exactly where you are with your social skills.
 
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The same thing everyone else on here that probably does well with women have told you. Social skills.

Do you think Michael Jordan handled a basketball like the greatest basketball player of all time the first time he picked one up? NO he worked his @ss of at it. He was even cut from his Jr High basketball team.

If you arent willing to go out and talk to people, you will always remain exactly where you are with your social skills.
When I was younger, I used to have my phone ringing 30 times/day of people wanting acid. I used to be able to rely on friends or even strangers to give me a place to stay for the night or even a week. Maybe trade them a hit or two, but they mostly just got along with my personality. Girls used to be attracted to my personality and the word "money" never crossed my mind. This is of course all before I got arrested. I can never get those days back and now I am just angry all the time and there's nothing that will ever change that.

I have lots of experience socializing. I feel like I've seen the whole world already.

If the people on this forum think that I am some shut in who has never left his house, then they have the wrong impression of me.
 

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As someone who works in a strip club I'd accept nothing but a same night f*ck from a stripper..
They aren't worthy of multiple dates
 

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About a month ago I met this stripper. Knowing that being a stripper she probably was crazy I was just planning on smashing and dashing so I wasn't planning on putting much effort into her unless she came to me. I don't recommend going for strippers they usually have BPD but if you go in mentally armed the sex can be worth it. You need to have a few BPD under your belt to do this so I don't recommend it in most cases but lets be real no guy is turning down a 10. I don't want to hear don't get involved with a BPD, obviously I was just trying to bang her..

We ended up working out together at the gym one time..I felt the attraction and we were flirting etc. We made plans for breakfast that weekend and she bails last minute. I delete her number. To my surprise, a Few days later she hits me up...

her "hey"
me "whatsup? so when am I seeing you"
her "next week after Christmas when I get some free time"
me "thats too long. I like to go for chicks when they are fresh in my head"
her "lol well we can get together soon"



We had plans to hang out today and she finally breaks down...
her "I have to tell you something "
me "what?"
her "I know you like me...but I can't keep doing this. I have a boyfriend. Im sorry but thats why Ive been giving you the run around. I can't workout with you or hang with you because I don't want to lead anyone on or be unfaithful to him. Things are serious between us"
me "You've had a boyfriend for two weeks? Why not be straight up"
her "I was talking to him way before I met you. We got together before you and I worked out together that time"

So it turns out this chick contacted me three days after she was "official" with this dude. So much for being loyal lol. I could tell she was fighting the attraction with me when we hung out too.

Based on the above how long do you think it will take before I can get this broad to cheat on him with me?
Whenever a post about strippers comes up, I automatically think of BigNeil.
 

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Gaming a stripper is an oxymoron.

She has a need for money without means to attain it, so she sells her body. You don’t need game. You need money.
 

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When I was younger, I used to have my phone ringing 30 times/day of people wanting acid. I used to be able to rely on friends or even strangers to give me a place to stay for the night or even a week. Maybe trade them a hit or two, but they mostly just got along with my personality. Girls used to be attracted to my personality and the word "money" never crossed my mind. This is of course all before I got arrested. I can never get those days back and now I am just angry all the time and there's nothing that will ever change that.

I have lots of experience socializing. I feel like I've seen the whole world already.

If the people on this forum think that I am some shut in who has never left his house, then they have the wrong impression of me.
Yes its quite easy to see you are angry and bitter. You are the exact type of person that most people(especially women) will RUN not walk away from in any situation because you suck the energy and life force out of them like a black hole via your negativity.

People don't want to be around other people who are wallowing in their self-imposed "pit of misery"( can I get a "dilly dilly!"?) and then have you attempt to pull them in with you.

Most people feel sh!tty enough about themselves as it is, they don't need you around making it worse, they'd rather just avoid you all together before you get that chance. You want to know where you are going wrong? Spend 95% of your effort on fixing this or you'll go nowhere.
 
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Yes its quite easy to see you are angry and bitter. You are the exact type of person that most people(especially women) will RUN not walk away from in any situation because you suck the energy and life force out of them like a black hole via your negativity.

People don't want to be around other people who are wallowing in their self-imposed "pit of misery"( can I get a "dilly dilly!"?) and then have you attempt to pull them in with you.

Most people feel sh!tty enough about themselves as it is, they don't need you around making it worse, they'd rather just avoid you all together before you get that chance. You want to know where you are going wrong? Spend 95% of your effort on fixing this or you'll go nowhere.
Okay I'll be positive...

As long as I get to keep my bondage dungeon...

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