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Yes its quite easy to see you are angry and bitter. You are the exact type of person that most people(especially women) will RUN not walk away from in any situation because you suck the energy and life force out of them like a black hole via your negativity.

People don't want to be around other people who are wallowing in their self-imposed "pit of misery"( can I get a "dilly dilly!"?) and then have you attempt to pull them in with you.

Most people feel sh!tty enough about themselves as it is, they don't need you around making it worse, they'd rather just avoid you all together before you get that chance. You want to know where you are going wrong? Spend 95% of your effort on fixing this or you'll go nowhere.
Dilly dilly!
 

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Because, persuing strippers is soooo DJ!o_O
 
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You wanna bang a stripper, why not pay 300 and have it done?
Wondering what are you real life experiences with this?

I had a hot stripper proposition me for $300 in Miami, but the clubs are more tame in Orlando. I don't want to get kicked out or banned from the place.

There are even signs on the door that warn against that behavior.

Do you ask them to get a hotel? Do you ask to go to VIP and it's just assumed what will happen?

It seems awfully risky compared to paying girls you meet online.
 
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Because, persuing strippers is soooo DJ!o_O
I almost think that "DJ's" are delusional and innocent. It all sounds good on paper, but doesn't match up to the real world.

It's as if you're trying to convince us that girls don't like money when they clearly do.
 

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Wondering what are you real life experiences with this?

I had a hot stripper proposition me for $300 in Miami, but the clubs are more tame in Orlando. I don't want to get kicked out or banned from the place.

There are even signs on the door that warn against that behavior.

Do you ask them to get a hotel? Do you ask to go to VIP and it's just assumed what will happen?

It seems awfully risky compared to paying girls you meet online.
I have no experience with prostitutes.
 

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Because, persuing strippers is soooo DJ!o_O
Ask yourself this. Who do the most desirable men on the planet pursue? Lots of famous men, athletes, actors....the epitome of DJ...use escorts, pursue ****tail waitresses and strippers. I know for fact because I know a lot of pro athletes personally. You reach a certain point in your life where banging hot women no longer gives you the same validation that it used to. I used to bang a 9 and put it as a notch under my belt. Im a well endowed guy, Im a competitive bodybuilder....Im 6'0 and would prefer to be 6'2 but thats life. I have nothing to prove to myself anymore. There is nothing any woman can do to make me not think I'm not worthy of her.

Ever bang a 9 in the real world? Half the time she's a ****ty person or not even worth the effort of being around. A lot of guys don't get this...and that's ok. Two years ago I wouldn't. Until a guy has actually had some real success with normal attractive women for a few years he will always view strippers and escorts as bottom of the barrel. I'm glad I spent the time I did pursuing hot women because it made me the man I am today and built my confidence but I will say this. If I would of put that energy into my career, and strictly used call girls for the past 2-3 years of my life I would of probably been sitting on an extra 100 grand right now. And in the end, the sex was almost never worth it. Strippers, regular chicks...if she's hot and from a big city, she's probably **** and on someones pay roll anyways. And will most definitely leave you if a man with enough money comes along.

I'm not saying blow off dating completely, keep your eyes open for the right girl always. But don't believe in unicorns either. Chasing women can and will consume you, and being a player absolutely will get in the way of your life goals if you let it. In the end the sex is almost never worth it..her bull**** is almost never worth it.....especially if your in a big city like Miami or LA. Your literally in the toys r us of p u s s y.
 
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In the end the sex is almost never worth it
Absolutely never worth it.

It's like I'm a slave to my sex drive, but I don't even like the people I want to have sex with most of the time. Their personalities turn me off. Not my fault.

Sex you pay for is no different than sex you get for free.
 

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Ask yourself this. Who do the most desirable men on the planet pursue? Lots of famous men, athletes, actors....the epitome of DJ...use escorts, pursue ****tail waitresses and strippers. I know for fact because I know a lot of pro athletes personally. You reach a certain point in your life where banging hot women no longer gives you the same validation that it used to. I used to bang a 9 and put it as a notch under my belt. Im a well endowed guy, Im a competitive bodybuilder....Im 6'0 and would prefer to be 6'2 but thats life. I have nothing to prove to myself anymore. There is nothing any woman can do to make me not think I'm not worthy of her.

Ever bang a 9 in the real world? Half the time she's a ****ty person or not even worth the effort of being around. A lot of guys don't get this...and that's ok. Two years ago I wouldn't. Until a guy has actually had some real success with normal attractive women for a few years he will always view strippers and escorts as bottom of the barrel. I'm glad I spent the time I did pursuing hot women because it made me the man I am today and built my confidence but I will say this. If I would of put that energy into my career, and strictly used call girls for the past 2-3 years of my life I would of probably been sitting on an extra 100 grand right now. And in the end, the sex was almost never worth it. Strippers, regular chicks...if she's hot and from a big city, she's probably **** and on someones pay roll anyways. And will most definitely leave you if a man with enough money comes along.

I'm not saying blow off dating completely, keep your eyes open for the right girl always. But don't believe in unicorns either. Chasing women can and will consume you, and being a player absolutely will get in the way of your life goals if you let it. In the end the sex is almost never worth it..her bull**** is almost never worth it.....especially if your in a big city like Miami or LA. Your literally in the toys r us of p u s s y.
They into escort, hookers, strippers... Not because of what they cost.... High profile are into "sex worker" for what they DONT cost....

They dont cost: 1) time 2) émotional investment 3) négociation (money speak only) 4) frame test 5) complexity

If you want to get laid without challenge and get it quick without investment, without uncertainty... Sex worker are perfect for you.

Alot of high profile people have ALOT of money but NO time, and dont want to be in "émotional drama/time demand etc.."... They want to get laid.. Simple.

Some of them are not DJ either.

Who cares about others... Focus on you, if you want to pay sure do it... But if you want a LTR why are you attracted to those Who Make a living out of selling their body (even if they are Nice)...

Finally: Game avaible chicks
 

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Ask yourself this. Who do the most desirable men on the planet pursue? Lots of famous men, athletes, actors....the epitome of DJ...use escorts, pursue ****tail waitresses and strippers. I know for fact because I know a lot of pro athletes personally. You reach a certain point in your life where banging hot women no longer gives you the same validation that it used to. I used to bang a 9 and put it as a notch under my belt. Im a well endowed guy, Im a competitive bodybuilder....Im 6'0 and would prefer to be 6'2 but thats life. I have nothing to prove to myself anymore. There is nothing any woman can do to make me not think I'm not worthy of her.

Ever bang a 9 in the real world? Half the time she's a ****ty person or not even worth the effort of being around. A lot of guys don't get this...and that's ok. Two years ago I wouldn't. Until a guy has actually had some real success with normal attractive women for a few years he will always view strippers and escorts as bottom of the barrel. I'm glad I spent the time I did pursuing hot women because it made me the man I am today and built my confidence but I will say this. If I would of put that energy into my career, and strictly used call girls for the past 2-3 years of my life I would of probably been sitting on an extra 100 grand right now. And in the end, the sex was almost never worth it. Strippers, regular chicks...if she's hot and from a big city, she's probably **** and on someones pay roll anyways. And will most definitely leave you if a man with enough money comes along.

I'm not saying blow off dating completely, keep your eyes open for the right girl always. But don't believe in unicorns either. Chasing women can and will consume you, and being a player absolutely will get in the way of your life goals if you let it. In the end the sex is almost never worth it..her bull**** is almost never worth it.....especially if your in a big city like Miami or LA. Your literally in the toys r us of p u s s y.
meh, not interested.
 

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Hey man, haven't been to this site in a minute, but saw this post and wanted to offer a bit of advice.

From someone who has banged 10+ strippers (without paying).. unless you are a ridiculously over-the-top alpha (and I am not) they are always going to be in control of the interaction. I'm not going to pretend to understand the mindset, but I can only imagine that the crazy amount of male attention just warps their minds. You can't begin to treat them like a normal girl, even though it may seem that they act that way.

I am past the point in my life of trying to really understand, or compare them to other girls. All I can say is, go with the flow, and they will let you know when they are dtf. Any effort at control will probably fail.

Looking back, I can honestly say that hanging with those kinds of girls is just not mentally healthy. Your mileage may very, just offering my perspective. I definitely understand the "challenge" factor.. but even a successful close is rarely--if ever--worth it.
 

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Hey man, haven't been to this site in a minute, but saw this post and wanted to offer a bit of advice.

From someone who has banged 10+ strippers (without paying).. unless you are a ridiculously over-the-top alpha (and I am not) they are always going to be in control of the interaction. I'm not going to pretend to understand the mindset, but I can only imagine that the crazy amount of male attention just warps their minds. You can't begin to treat them like a normal girl, even though it may seem that they act that way.

I am past the point in my life of trying to really understand, or compare them to other girls. All I can say is, go with the flow, and they will let you know when they are dtf. Any effort at control will probably fail.

Looking back, I can honestly say that hanging with those kinds of girls is just not mentally healthy. Your mileage may very, just offering my perspective. I definitely understand the "challenge" factor.. but even a successful close is rarely--if ever--worth it.
How did you get with 10+ of them if you are not an over the top alpha? What IS an over the top alpha?
 

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How did you get with 10+ of them if you are not an over the top alpha? What IS an over the top alpha?
I would define an over the top alpha as someone who absolutely does not give a fvck about women. Not as a game or mindset.. just literally does not care about specific women at all. Whether they stay around or get lost--does not matter. Even then though, some strippers would cheat in the right circumstance.

As for how I did it.. I would say 1) Being comfortable in strip clubs 2) Looking better than the other guys there 3) Not spending money on dances / private rooms 4) Projecting a vibe that is both safe and a little bit dangerous 5) Having good logistics (usually show up late at night, and always at clubs close to home).
 
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