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That's the thing, i do move very fast, and that's what i thought it was the problem hahaI move in very fast for the kill when getting numbers off of OLD or Tinder.
Lemme give you an example:
"Me: Hi, Eren
Her: Hi!
Me: How was your day?
Her: Great! how was yours?
Me: It was good! Another day anotha dolla as they say
Her: hahaha what do you do
Me: I'm an account exec. for an events management company. hbu?
Her: Corporate HR rep for a nutrition company
Me: Uh oh, corporate HR gal
Me: Lol
Me:
Her: We get a bad rep, we're fun lol
Me: Haha yeah I'm sure...
Me: How long have you done that for?
Her: A year and a few months
Me: Nice. Well hey I'd love to get to know you a bit better. What's your number I'll call you this weekend.
Her: Sure - xxx-xxx-xxxx"
Then I'll shoot her a text, which goes as follows:
"Me: Hey Eren - Jon here from tinder. Let me know when is a good time to call this weekend. Looking forward to talking to you
Her: Hi! Afternoons are the best
Me: Sounds good have a good night"
And that's it.
To sum it up:
I always move fast getting a number. And I always prefer to CALL them. I find that I build much better rapport over a 20-30 minute get to know ya type of call then I could ever do w/ texting when first getting to meet a woman. You're problem is most likely that you are texting or messaging WAY TOO MUCH before asking for digits. You should always ask for digits very quickly, I mean literally a few back and forth sentences in. And I would highly recommend taking the "I'll call you this week/weekend" approach. Way too many guys are too puss to call and if you are comfortable and confident with yourself it's a great way to stand out to a woman who is flooded with tons of guys taking the text,message for hours,days approach.
Post a conversation, it'll help us break it down for you.
Ok, last girl went like this:
Could be a couple things.Ok, last girl went like this:
Me: Finally found tinderella (No one uses this in Brazil so it works 9/10)
Her: Tinderella? haha that's a good one
Me: Gotta break the ice right
How was your new years ?
Her: Depressive, i got sick
Me: Wow, that's some bad luck, me and my brother got sick before christmas.
Her: Yeah, even had to go to the hospital
Me: That sucks.
You know, we should be talking about fun stuff that brings joy to our hearts.
Such as your phone number
Never heard from her again lol
I obviously try to avoid negative subjects, but i usually text them like this, keeping it short and going for the number as fast as possible.
I'm always trying different stuff, except the tinderela part cause of it's high success rate.
Calling is unnecessary and some people domt want to be bothered with it. I tried it both ways and noticed no difference in success rate either with getting flaked on or in getting laid.I move in very fast for the kill when getting numbers off of OLD or Tinder.
Lemme give you an example:
"Me: Hi, Eren
Her: Hi!
Me: How was your day?
Her: Great! how was yours?
Me: It was good! Another day anotha dolla as they say
Her: hahaha what do you do
Me: I'm an account exec. for an events management company. hbu?
Her: Corporate HR rep for a nutrition company
Me: Uh oh, corporate HR gal
Me: Lol
Me:
Her: We get a bad rep, we're fun lol
Me: Haha yeah I'm sure...
Me: How long have you done that for?
Her: A year and a few months
Me: Nice. Well hey I'd love to get to know you a bit better. What's your number I'll call you this weekend.
Her: Sure - xxx-xxx-xxxx"
Then I'll shoot her a text, which goes as follows:
"Me: Hey Eren - Jon here from tinder. Let me know when is a good time to call this weekend. Looking forward to talking to you
Her: Hi! Afternoons are the best
Me: Sounds good have a good night"
And that's it.
To sum it up:
I always move fast getting a number. And I always prefer to CALL them. I find that I build much better rapport over a 20-30 minute get to know ya type of call then I could ever do w/ texting when first getting to meet a woman. You're problem is most likely that you are texting or messaging WAY TOO MUCH before asking for digits. You should always ask for digits very quickly, I mean literally a few back and forth sentences in. And I would highly recommend taking the "I'll call you this week/weekend" approach. Way too many guys are too puss to call and if you are comfortable and confident with yourself it's a great way to stand out to a woman who is flooded with tons of guys taking the text,message for hours,days approach.
Very strongly disagree with that. Although I'm in sales and talk on the phone for a living so it's something I do exceptionally well. That could contribute to my success, too.
You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Yeah well, i'm also against texting, but you gotta text to get the number to get the date, when you meet them online that is. There's no running away from it.
I was in sales for a long time too. And in retail. Didnt make any difference to me. Although I am a great texter so perhaps that is why.
Agree.
How would you get the number from someone you met online? Write them a letter? Get it now?
Nah, pretty sure you and herb just suck at it. Plenty of us out here cleaning up with the PYT's via Facebook and Messenger.
If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Man, honestly there is not much of a tactical way of approaching random like that. If you have a mutual friend, it can be an opener. Randoms know exactly what you are texting them for. I just reveal my intentions of getting to know her. FB gives recommendations of ppl you might know. Use that as an excuse to have checked her out. If you see things that interest you or have in common, for example she's a gamer or into fitness, you can comment on that and let her know your interest in getting to know each other. Easy peasy. The guys saying, blah blah blah about texting don't know their a$$ from a hole in the ground. Phones are a tool for just about anything these days. Pulling trim is no exception.Ok, last girl went like this:
Me: Finally found tinderella (No one uses this in Brazil so it works 9/10)
Her: Tinderella? haha that's a good one
Me: Gotta break the ice right
How was your new years ?
Her: Depressive, i got sick
Me: Wow, that's some bad luck, me and my brother got sick before christmas.
Her: Yeah, even had to go to the hospital
Me: That sucks.
You know, we should be talking about fun stuff that brings joy to our hearts.
Such as your phone number
Never heard from her again lol
I obviously try to avoid negative subjects, but i usually text them like this, keeping it short and going for the number as fast as possible.
The thing about online is a woman is still a total stranger.
I never call people. Only exception is if I just arrived at a place and need to find them or if I get lost.
