Women come clean about Attraction

[Urbanyst]

If you're not hitting the gym, trying to make MONEY or seeking fame.. you are probably either blue pill or borderline a-sexual lol.

The blue pill guy still believes his personality and "game" will make up for everything he lacks in looks, MONEY and status. Simply not true. For proof of this, just look at how racial minorities are treated by women in the dating game. If it was all about personality and game.. a man's race would never be a factor in who he can attract.

PUA books are for the guy who already has the bases covered or at least some of them. Before you can even play the game.. you have to be above average in at least one of the BIG THREE of LMS (looks, money, status).

The best an average guy can hope for is to get lucky (it happens) or to end up with a low quality woman. Especially these days since the market is even bad for higher quality men lol.

 

[marmel75]

Again this is only true at first...The longer a woman knows you the more she will start finding things attractive about you other than looks.

This is how fat slobs end up with hotties...they have been in their social circles for a long time and she finds other things attractive about him.

Am I advocating being a fat slob and hanging out in social circles hoping to bag a hottie? Hell no...but this doesn't always hold true.

Case in point, a hot chick I had been seeing a few times and came close to banging ended up going out with a guy from her social circle she had a "crush" on for a long time...ended up seeing a pic of him from a mutual friend and the dude was fat and missing a tooth...she claimed they have a "special connection" but he always had a long time girlfriend while she knew him he just broke up with.

This when I was at 9% BF with abs that looked like big slabs of ribs you could see through my shirt. She didnt want that, tho...she wanted him. When he became single I had no prayer. I did everything right, escalated more each date, got a BJ in the car, fingered her, etc.. Found out they are now engaged and she is pregnant...

So dont tell me this holds true all the time because it clearly does not. Plenty of other examples of similar stories I'm sure.

 

[Urbanyst]

Oversimplification. I have all three and I get blown out in the club regularly because it's just not my scene(bad dancer, voice doesn't carry, shorter).

You have all three for some women. Not for all.

Status depends on environment. In a war zone, being a CEO doesn't mean sh*t. But knowing hand to hand combat and how to shoot matters more.

Clubs are filled with hoes looking for f*ck boys. You probably don't have enough tattoos or "bling". Maybe you wear the wrong cologne and your English lacks the right amount of slang and profanity.

Women in clubs don't know you have MONEY. Unless you have a VIP table with expensive bottles and several HOT women, your status is sh*t and you are broke for all she knows lol.

 

[Urbanyst]

Again this is only true at first...The longer a woman knows you the more she will start finding things attractive about you other than looks.

This is how fat slobs end up with hotties...they have been in their social circles for a long time and she finds other things attractive about him.

Am I advocating being a fat slob and hanging out in social circles hoping to bag a hottie? Hell no...but this doesn't always hold true.

Case in point, a hot chick I had been seeing a few times and came close to banging ended up going out with a guy from her social circle she had a "crush" on for a long time...ended up seeing a pic of him from a mutual friend and the dude was fat and missing a tooth...she claimed they have a "special connection" but he always had a long time girlfriend while she knew him he just broke up with.

This when I was at 9% BF with abs that looked like big slabs of ribs you could see through my shirt. She didnt want that, tho...she wanted him. When he became single I had no prayer. I did everything right, escalated more each date, got a BJ in the car, fingered her, etc.. Found out they are now engaged and she is pregnant...

So dont tell me this holds true all the time because it clearly does not. Plenty of other examples of similar stories I'm sure.

Yeah, but that's not the path to abundance.

The woman has to give you a chance first. Relying on social circle and being able see the woman often enough to build more attraction or interest is a colossal time waster with bad probability of success. Not to mention while you are working on her emotions she is getting easily pulled in and f*cked by hotter men in the meantime lol.

Is it even worth the trouble? Just make MONEY instead so you don't have to kiss ass for months/years to get one woman to like you.

 

[skinnyguy]

If you're not hitting the gym, trying to make MONEY or seeking fame.. you are probably either blue pill or borderline a-sexual lol.

The blue pill guy still believes his personality and "game" will make up for everything he lacks in looks, MONEY and status. Simply not true. For proof of this, just look at how racial minorities are treated by women in the dating game. If it was all about personality and game.. a man's race would never be a factor in who he can attract.

PUA books are for the guy who already has the bases covered or at least some of them. Before you can even play the game.. you have to be above average in at least one of the BIG THREE of LMS (looks, money, status).

The best an average guy can hope for is to get lucky (it happens) or to end up with a low quality woman. Especially these days since the market is even bad for higher quality men lol.

Agreed. The only thing I’ll say is that money is often used to attract gold diggers. A true DJ doesn’t rely on money to lay women.

 

[Urbanyst]

Agreed. The only thing I’ll say is that money is often used to attract gold diggers. A true DJ doesn’t rely on money to lay women.

What does a true DJ rely on then? "Game" has mostly been debunked as something that only works when a man already has some level of looks, MONEY or status.

If you're not using MONEY, you are using looks or status.

 

[marmel75]

Yeah, but that's not the path to abundance.

The woman has to give you a chance first. Relying on social circle and being able see the woman often enough to build more attraction or interest is a colossal time waster with bad probability of success. Not to mention while you are working on her emotions she is getting easily pulled in and f*cked by hotter men in the meantime lol.

Is it even worth the trouble? Just make MONEY instead so you don't have to kiss ass for months/years to get one woman to like you.

Except that isn't what happened in this case...the dude was dating someone else and when they broke up she pounced.

 

[Trump]

Yeah, but that's not the path to abundance.

The woman has to give you a chance first. Relying on social circle and being able see the woman often enough to build more attraction or interest is a colossal time waster with bad probability of success. Not to mention while you are working on her emotions she is getting easily pulled in and f*cked by hotter men in the meantime lol.

Is it even worth the trouble? Just make MONEY instead so you don't have to kiss ass for months/years to get one woman to like you.

What type of money are you talking about? Give a number.

No girl is going to sleep with you because you live in 2.1M penthouse instead of 1.1M penthouse. You won't get girls to fall in love because you drive a $250,000 car instead of a $150,000 car.

I got more assets I know what to do with. Look ok and have game. Still got to work my tail off to get girls.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

I'm better looking then a lot of women

 

[ubercat]

Ah c Mon we' ve all had the date where we've been set up by friends with some chick based on their pre-screening for all three of those things and you spend the night chattng up the waitresses because they're far more interesting and the chicks not into you.

It's pretty simple being entertaining and bold will often get you between the beef curtains. If you want to keep her around yes you have to have something going for you.

But once she's fuct you she's likely to be more forgiving of your shortcomings which is why we suggest escalating fast because it gives you a better chance and screens out time wasters and professional daters. And while she's making up her mind about you she's been added to the rotation and you are getting your profit up front as we say in Oz winner winner chicken dinner.

 

[lizardking82]

What does a true DJ rely on then? "Game" has mostly been debunked as something that only works when a man already has some level of looks, MONEY or status.

If you're not using MONEY, you are using looks or status.

On talking maybe? You talk the right way, they gonna follow you and fall for you. If you then also act the right way...

 

[Von]

On talking maybe? You talk the right way, they gonna follow you and fall for you. If you then also act the right way...

but what is the ''right way''

People often seek a ''universal law'' to make everything happens without ''effort''

There is no right way... other than your way... and an improved version

There is all kind of stuff you can do to be an improved version.

At the end... the right way will be the way that get you the girl... and that way changes from girl to girl... you can only have a blueprint, apply it, adapt, progress (and see where it goes)

So the universal law of attraction is Talking (even if you have money or pay... you still need to talk to them to get where you wanna go)

 

[zekko]

The audio in that video kind of stunk. I could hear the guy fine, but some of the girls were so quiet I couldn't make out what they were saying.
That bit at the end where he talks about getting escorted off campus by security guards was some bullsh!t though. Apparently one of those girls turned him in. So why did they keep talking to him in the first place? I can understand not wanting to be bothered by anyone at a university where you are trying to concentrate on your education though. But still, why be so two faced about it?

I found a couple of things the girls said interesting:
"I don't think you should change yourself, unless you're a bad person". I agree with that, unless you want to change yourself for whatever reason, you are aspiring to become something/someone. Also, I would include being weak, supplicating, spineless, etc. in the category of being a bad person.

"Be yourself". This is a cliche that the community ridicules for the most part, but I believe in it. Everyone knows that if you are interacting with women, there are some who are going to like you and some who are not. Even Mystery recognized this, and advocating cutting off the set if you aren't getting a good response. Some people say that game teaches you mainly how not to get in your own way, how to avoid mistakes.

 

[Milano]

The game is rigged, the house always wins. Its just feminism thats all. There is always another guy, always. Its hard to comprehend at first but in the western world it never ends. No wonder Saudi Arabian laws exist as a counter weight and we had slut shaming and some similar rules in the west until recently.

I think many of us still dont want to swallow the red pill, it really is hard to digest, takes time mayn.

 

[AJ84]

Yeah, but that's not the path to abundance.

The woman has to give you a chance first. Relying on social circle and being able see the woman often enough to build more attraction or interest is a colossal time waster with bad probability of success. Not to mention while you are working on her emotions she is getting easily pulled in and f*cked by hotter men in the meantime lol.

Is it even worth the trouble? Just make MONEY instead so you don't have to kiss ass for months/years to get one woman to like you.

Yeah, I think you're right. If the goal is to get laid how much time do you want to spend building social rapport from stratch, in cases where there are no desirable women in your current social circle, so you have to find another one
This likely works when looking for someone to date and potentially have a LTR with, but I don't see that working too much for casual hook up arrangements.
Girls who are into causal hook ups, like guys, want the have those hook ups with people they find attractive from the start. That's kind of the whole point, from a female prespective, so having something they find attractive from the start is key, and they do place importance on looks in those cases. Women, like men, enjoy a nice fit body in the sack. The money part is only a bonus if that money is being spent on her, and many of you preach not spending money on girls so being physically attractive is the best playing card I think, when it comes to causal sexual arrangements.

 

[AJ84]

The game is rigged, the house always wins. Its just feminism thats all. There is always another guy, always. Its hard to comprehend at first but in the western world it never ends. No wonder Saudi Arabian laws exist as a counter weight and we had slut shaming and some similar rules in the west until recently.

I think many of us still dont want to swallow the red pill, it really is hard to digest, takes time mayn.

Saudia Arabia, where the single men have zero access to women to the point where they f**k each other? There was an article in the Guardian or the New Yorker about how Saudi Arabia has a thriving gay underground culture, but most of the guys are straight.
Feminism may be a a lot of negative things, but it gave the world easier access to no strings sex by removing the shame associated with it (think sex and the city).
Really want to go back to a time where guys had to spend months courting a girl just to get a kiss, and be expected to marry and have a family with the first girl they f**k? I don't see too many guys pining for that on this site.

 

[Reykhel]

Yet another poster who sits in his room watching countless "red pill" youtube videos and regurgitates here, what he has watched...

Yet another regurgitated MONEY looks status thread. It's like this guy has tourettes syndrome or something... . Oh wait was the line.."if you are not looking for fame....you are blue pill" that is some dumb ****e right there

By the way, the video is in oz and this guy's from us.....oh wait what difference he's just regurgitating....

 

[Urbanyst]

Yet another poster who sits in his room watching countless "red pill" youtube videos and regurgitates here, what he has watched...

Yet another regurgitated MONEY looks status thread. It's like this guy has tourettes syndrome or something... . Oh wait was the line.."if you are not looking for fame....you are blue pill" that is some dumb ****e right there

By the way, the video is in oz and this guy's from us.....oh wait what difference he's just regurgitating....

LOL.

Really dude? You're going to troll my thread now?

How many other threads are on this site for you to post in? Why do you want to come to mine just to harass me? Are you just sitting in your room "jerking it" and need to attack people on the Internet to get out your anger? Or are you mad cuz you don't have MONEY?

Seems like one of those things. Lol.

 

[Urbanyst]

On talking maybe? You talk the right way, they gonna follow you and fall for you. If you then also act the right way...

Yeah.. but even then you need that baseline of either looks, MONEY or status.

If you're some homeless dude "talking the right way" you won't get jack sh*t lol.

 

[bigdave17]

I have all 3 and have zero dating life.


I have zero success at clubs with hotties and I have a great, deep voice that projects very well, am a very good dancer and am decent height (5'10).