Status: What guys do hot girls as a whole flock to after college? Who are the popular guys?

[drakeisfire]

We all got a rough idea of status in high school and in college when girls would flock to certain kinds of guys, usually sports stars and in college frat bros in rich frats too.

What archetype or kinds of guys do hot girls flock to after college?

Who are the cool kids and the popular guys?

How are they like?

 

[Chev.Chelios]

never really thought about that.

my guess would be they get banged out as much as possible in college, get career jobs in major metropolitan cities and get with the older gentlemen that make big money and settle, then divorce 5 years later, cash out big in court and you see them back in the clubs claiming their marriage was awful and they need to fvck the cool alpha bros again for awhile until they realize their fvcked and alone the rest of their lives.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Some go in relationship mode with hot well built guys with a career or a good change of starting one.

Many keep fvcking around with hot guys but as a side life while they work on their career, this second type is the one that either gets it early enough and get in a relationship or keeps fvcking around till they no longer can get those top guys they were used to.

This second group also mix with the group that chev spoke about in post nr2.

They grow up thinking they can have it all or the worst possible thing is settle with a nice guy, what they fail to understand is that nice guys are no longer nice after 35 and would rather stay alone than get used goods that saw them as a second choice till few months earlier.

 

[El Payaso]

For most women, if marriage is on their mind, they start to flock to the men with resources or potential to get resources and are easier to keep in line aka betas.

This doesn't mean that they stop craving Chad Thundercock or that the man with resources is ugly. Their filters just become stronger and more enhanced.

 

[Trainwreck]

Either settle down or still sleep around via tinder, work employees, or old social circles

 

[drakeisfire]

So what you are telling me is that it is almost impossible to rack up the notches after college?

 

[drakeisfire]

never really thought about that.

my guess would be they get banged out as much as possible in college, get career jobs in major metropolitan cities and get with the older gentlemen that make big money and settle, then divorce 5 years later, cash out big in court and you see them back in the clubs claiming their marriage was awful and they need to fvck the cool alpha bros again for awhile until they realize their fvcked and alone the rest of their lives.

as someone who missed the boat in college, please be wrong

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

We all got a rough idea of status in high school and in college when girls would flock to certain kinds of guys, usually sports stars and in college frat bros in rich frats too.

What archetype or kinds of guys do hot girls flock to after college?

Who are the cool kids and the popular guys?

How are they like?

You can find grown ass women, late 20s or 30s + chasing a combo of "bad boy" (which stopped being cute in high school) and or competing with the men for the corner office all the while pursuing her boss. Stake your claim in the free market. Acquire more resources for yourself. Create an ideal lifestyle worthy of bringing multiple women around with you. Add that much value, she would be a fool to flake.

 

[Trainwreck]

as someone who missed the boat in college, please be wrong

I wouldn’t be surprised if this happened in Miami, Atlanta, or LA, but I haven’t personally seen this.

 

[jaymbrs]

Depends. If they were in a sorority, they'll continue to use that to meet other guys who were in frats. If they weren't, I assume they're focused on work and banging their coworkers.

 

[TheGambino]

never really thought about that.

my guess would be they get banged out as much as possible in college, get career jobs in major metropolitan cities and get with the older gentlemen that make big money and settle, then divorce 5 years later, cash out big in court and you see them back in the clubs claiming their marriage was awful and they need to fvck the cool alpha bros again for awhile until they realize their fvcked and alone the rest of their lives.

Nailed it.

 

[drakeisfire]

This thread strongly rhymes with the Indian Race Troll threads where the troll pines for the blonde sorority girl and laments their attraction for "All American frat boys".

Build a social circle if you feel you need that to get girls.

How about offering advice on how to do that rather than whining about things others post?

 

[drakeisfire]

The only one whining here is you, Indian race troll.

Join clubs and build your social skills and leadership skills.

I am not whining, you are, you were the first one to come into this thread whining.

 

[handle]

I'm assuming the original poster is in college right now?

If you have the mentality that college is a template for the rest of your life, a closed system where the groupthink of people +/-2 years from your age determines what's cool and what's not (which is only ever true for maybe the first two years of college, and even then the premise is questionable), then maybe leaving college will shock your system a bit.
Once you leave that mentality behind you will realize that you're part of a big pool of people with a variety of interests, desires, life backgrounds, etc... And you can play it however you want. We are not bound by our age or education level.

I'm about 5 years out from school now. Here's what some of my friends who are successful at dating do:
- Lives in a glass box condo downtown, drives a sports car and a motorcycle, hits the gym hard, picks up 20 year olds at parties/clubs/tinder, rarely dates a girl longer than 3 weeks
- Just finished grad school, works at a small company making okay money, meets girls of all ages through his volunteer work, as of right now lives with a hot 30 year old fashion designer
- Anarchist who sleeps on people's couches. Pulls hot activist chicks.
- Guy who works part time as a postman and writes for one of the free newspapers in town. Likes to play online chess. Picks up girls at country dances.

Anyway, the point I'm trying to make here: you already exist in a very complex and diverse social ecosystem, and it will continue to get more complex. Dating is not a zero-sum game; friend #1 in that list would never ever pull the girls friend #3 does. The whole "frat boys fvck the hot sorority girls" narrative does not hold up in real life. The only things that really matter are that you put yourself out there, stay physically fit, find yourself, and find your people... There's hot girls everywhere. You don't even need to stick to your age bracket/socio-economic status if you don't want to.

Don't get me wrong, the standard sosuave advice is still useful: take action, be direct, work out, improve yourself... But don't mould yourself into a certain personality type because you think it's the "best one." Because there is no best one.

 

[62Telecaster]

Nailed it.

He's close...life after college is a funny thing. Most people sort of go haywire and blow their lives to hell. For guys, you either become a recluse loser due to not knowing how to evolve into the real world, settle for the sake of settling in hopes of finding security, or try to piece together some sort of half-successful attempt at a James Bond lifestyle of sorts. For girls, they either awkwardly cling to college level expectations of attention while working crap jobs, settle for the sake of being able to brag about marriage and playing family, or try to piece together some sort of half-successful attempt at a Sex And The City lifestyle. Moral of the story...clinging to safety nets when it's time to move on, or looking towards societal perceptions of happiness to find yourself isn't healthy at all.

There are no group classifications outside of college for girls to cling to...you either have happy and successful men who live by their own definition of what happiness is, middle of the road guys who are reasonably ok with life but sort of lost on what they really want out of it, or the guys who are complete losers and miserable with their own choices that they have made.

If you're genuinely happy, a good person, not afraid to let other people see your personality, and above all else: you have learned to simply not care about life and expectations due to your own happiness...well, that will attract a lot of women to you. Unfortunately, it'll also chase some miserable friends away from you...but it is what it is. Otherwise, there are no "archetypes" in the real world...just those who succeede and those who don't.