Chicks Keep Asking Me For Money (Sick Of It)!

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I'm going to do a video response to this on my pateron but you bring up an excellent point

a guy like Tenacity should be dealing with top notch black women only because of his status, if he does **** Bomquisha from the block, just pump and dump her
When you post the video, send me a link of it either on here or through PM. The problem is that I don't know where the hell a "top notch" black woman is? Even the women with degrees, education, and with somewhat decent jobs of $50,000 a year are doing the SAME stuff that Tyquesha is doing.

I hate to resort to race-based stereotypes to explain behavior, but dammit some of them are true. When I lived in Georgia, my then-wife, who was mixed, had a circle of a dozen black female friends. And she would remark that they were all the same - they expected whatever bf they had to be paying at least some of their bills. And some of them had two or three bfs who did not know about each other. That was just normal. These women were not even especially ghetto or trashy. Most of them were college students, and now have their degrees, some post-grad degrees even, and last I heard all had good jobs.
Exactly!

So guys say, well, TENACITY date White Women. The White Women are doing the same shyt and White Women who date me are usually doing it to serve some "fetish" anyway. Why date TENACITY when they have access to the White Version of TENACITY already?

American women across the board are just fvcking out of control, but you know they say when America in general catches a "cold", the Black Community gets the flu. So American women in general are out of control, but black women are like on a COMPLETELY DIFFERENT level of out of fvcking control!
 

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"When 85% of the plates ask for money"
"Increase my "budget" to allow for more "plate donations".
Bloody hell, it's so disappointing to read and acknowledge : with all your DJ's experience, in the end of the day, you're actually expecting, or thinking you need/should pay for the sex you get, no free meals here, plain and simple. So what is the difference between you and RiccyTheFrog who pays for his hookers or Bigneil who pays for his stripers.
 

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The Kardashian effect.... Entitled women expecting to get something for nothing...
 
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Bloody hell, it's so disappointing to read and acknowledge : with all your DJ's experience, in the end of the day, you're actually expecting, or thinking you need/should pay for the sex you get, no free meals here, plain and simple. So what is the difference between you and RiccyTheFrog who pays for his hookers or Bigneil who pays for his stripers.
Do you think we invented the fact that girls want money?

Do YOU fvck hot girls for free? Prove it. And how old are you?
 

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Tenacity, out of appox 1000 women I dated, I never had one ask for me for money, except one who lived with me who lost her job to buy us food.

It's obvious you're dumpster diving. Change your market.

Requesting money from you shows poor character. If you are just seeking sex and companionship, decline her request and continue. If you're seeking an LTR, drop her.
 
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Tenacity, out of appox 1000 women, I dated, I never had one ask for me for money, except one who lived with me who lost her job to buy us food.

It's obvious you're dumpster diving. Change your market.

Requesting money from you shows poor character. If you are just seeking sex and companionship, decline and continue. If you're seeking an LTR, drop her.
Then what do you offer them that is more valuable to them than money?

I think the top 2 reasons on your list were looks and ambition. How can that be? If they just wanted looks, couldn't they just find a young guy?
 

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Then what do you offer them that is more valuable to them than money?

I think the top 2 reasons on your list were looks and ambition. How can that be? If they just wanted looks, couldn't they just find a young guy?
Ambition and money are both important in dealings with women. But as stated, I place ambition before money (mostly in your 20s and 30s). Here's why:

1) Most who are extremely ambitious will earn money;
2) When you are young, the girl has no way to ascertain whether you will be wealthy as you are not of the age to have been tested to earn, so all she can judge you on is your ambition;
3) Ambition carries the leadership/alpha traits that women are attracted to. Money creates the comfort in their knowing that you will tend to them and their offspring. Ambition creates attraction. Money creates comfort;
4) If one inherited money but had no ambition, then he would create comfort but no attraction;
5) What happens to a trust-fund baby if he loses the trust fund? What happens to an extremely successful ambitious individual, if he loses his money? Who is the safer bet considering potential loss of wealth?

As to the looks branch of your question, I find women don't typically date their age, but tend to date men 5-10 years older. As I date 10-20 younger, I am the exception. However, as a man if you are an 8 in looks at 25yo, and you tend to your physicality, you will remain an 8 in looks in your 40s. Some men, like George Clooney as an example, get better looking with age. The old cliche: Men age like fine wine.

Age is not that relevant to women as long as you look great. Hence, my recommendations to you included: (1) Fitness; (2) Diet; (3) Style.
 

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Do you think we invented the fact that girls want money?
Do YOU fvck hot girls for free?
Fvck the stigma of " fvcking hot girls". You're not a winner If you need to pay for fvcking any girl, directly- Hooker, or indirectly- Her utility bills or "fixing her car." No real DJ will pay to fvck any woman, including the hot one
 
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Fvck the stigma of " fvcking hot girls". You're not a winner If you need to pay for fvcking any girl, directly- Hooker, or indirectly- Her utility bills or "fixing her car." No real DJ will pay to fvck any woman , hot or not hot.
How could I not be a winner if I make lots of money? Isn't that what most people compete for?
 
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Ambition and money are both important in dealings with women. But as stated, I place ambition before money (mostly in your 20s and 30s). Here's why:

1) Most who are extremely ambitious will earn money;
2) When you are young, the girl has no way to ascertain whether you will be wealthy as you are not of the age to have been tested to earn, so all she can judge you on is your ambition;
3) Ambition carries the leadership/alpha traits that women are attracted to. Money creates the comfort in their knowing that you will tend to them and their offspring. Ambition creates attraction. Money creates comfort;
4) If one inherited money but had no ambition, then he would create comfort but no attraction;
5) What happens to a trust-fund baby if he loses the trust fund? What happens to an extremely successful ambitious individual, if he loses his money? Who is the safer bet considering potential loss of wealth?

As to the looks branch of your question, I find women don't typically date their age, but tend to date men 5-10 years older. As I date 10-20 younger, I am the exception. However, as a man if you are an 8 in looks at 25yo, and you tend to your physicality, you will remain an 8 in looks in your 40s. Some men, like George Clooney as an example, get better looking with age. The old cliche: Men age like fine wine.

Age is not that relevant to women as long as you look great. Hence, my recommendations to you included: (1) Fitness; (2) Diet; (3) Style.
Okay well I want to start flipping houses like crazy. Do maybe 25/year and hopefully profit somewhere around $400k/year, then attract investors and get even bigger.

Also, I got lucky and my dad made me 24% owner of his retirement real estate fund, which I have to tell him what to do because he doesn't know, so that could bring in another $250k/year within 5-6 years if he listens to my advice.

Do I pass the ambition test?
 

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I think because they are so addicted to Social Media that they will always be focused on getting more likes from Instagram DBs. Good riddance.
I'm not a Social Media guy, but I'm seeing the other (dark) side of this.

Consider: a girl I dated in 1987, a girl I dated in 1997 and a girl I dated in 2011 (all of them making the Top Ten Loves of my life) have been sending me lots of romantic email messages on FB in the past few days (and a fourth girl from 2016 via email). They seem willing to talk forever and it's usually me ending the conversation. This is what is happening to us with our new women who go cold. They are in touch with every person they ever met in their life, like a giant squid with tentacles everywhere. They are just waiting for the men they are talking to to become more responsive and they will drop us.

It's like they talk to us and then turn to the board and say "Survey SAYS" and we see where we rank in their top 10.

 

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Fvck the stigma of " fvcking hot girls". You're not a winner If you need to pay for fvcking any girl, directly- Hooker, or indirectly- Her utility bills or "fixing her car." No real DJ will pay to fvck any woman, including the hot one
Wait, if you had a choice between taking out a fat 45 year old woman or a hot 20 year old woman, wouldn't you be willing to spend more on the date to have the younger girl? From Robert Greene Laws of Power #40: Despise the free lunch. Pay what things are worth.

 

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LOL @Tenacity bro where do you find these women?

I've never had a girl I'm ****ing ask me for money. Most of the time, they're buying me the gifts. And I basically only date black and latina women.
 

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LOL @Tenacity bro where do you find these women?

I've never had a girl I'm ****ing ask me for money. Most of the time, they're buying me the gifts. And I basically only date black and latina women.

This. Never had a woman ask me for money either...
 

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I've never had a woman ask me for money either. Except my girlfriend one time asked if she could borrow $20, and she paid me back the next day.
 

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Wait, if you had a choice between taking out a fat 45 year old woman or a hot 20 year old woman, wouldn't you be willing to spend more on the date to have the younger girl? From Robert Greene Laws of Power #40: Despise the free lunch. Pay what things are worth.
Yes I know this law. Spending few more $ on a date/drink/meal, Yes, but we're talking here on taking her to a weekend date in a mountain resort for a few thousand dollars, like you did , or paying their utility bills,or paying to fix their car, there is no pvssy worth paying for so much. Doing so is paying for sex , there is no other way to look at it.
And you went to the extreme, comparing between 9-10 (20y/o hot girl) with2-4 (45y/o fat and ugly). There is 6-8 in between, and they are just fine, and free.
 

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well nowadays if you were to perform tinder experiment and have a mediocre chick profile then ask guys if they would pay for your things then half of them would say yes (regardless they lie or not). its just that game unaware men (majority) resolves to online dating and then they write literally anything to get chick attention.

that could be one of the reasons why women think men are providers. it surely happens in real life too.

whenever i say my dad owns a company it boosts my chances immedietely
 
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well nowadays if you were to perform tinder experiment and have a mediocre chick profile then ask guys if they would pay for your things then half of them would say yes (regardless they lie or not). its just that game unaware men (majority) resolves to online dating and then they write literally anything to get chick attention.

that could be one of the reasons why women think men are providers. it surely happens in real life too.

whenever i say my dad owns a company it boosts my chances immedietely
Surely, you've evolved passed the point where random sex with fat or even average girls isn't worth that much.
 

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Taking her to a weekend date in a mountain resort for a few thousand dollars, like you did
Why are you lying? I never went to a mountain and never spent that much on a date.

I told you guys here about one of the girls who asked for money (and it was a couple hundred she was asking for and I dumped her on the spot). The others did not ask for money. I love how you guys selectively hear what you want to hear, and then add outright lies through your teeth.

What we see here is that @The Diver makes less than $40,000 per year. Get a job.
 
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