B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
Does she really mean that or is it just an excuse to dump me?
I already said "hit me up if you change ur mind.' I wish I would have said what you said.You're basically. Dumped. It doesn't really matter.
"Yeah I agree and feel the same way. I think I need to go a different direction relationship wise also. Take care hun".
That should be your response, regardless.
The problem with that is you gave her all control of the situation.I already said "hit me up if you change ur mind.' I wish I would have said what you said.
Well I guess it's too late for that. Right?The problem with that is you gave her all control of the situation.
IMO, it's best to make her think there is another factor, wondering how you are actually ok with it and it leaves her head spinning. It also keeps you in control of yourself. She can't just change her mind next week and you'll be there waiting. It sounds like you ALREADY replaced her and she didn't know it or see it coming. Women hate that......and they normally come back around.
So there's nothing I can do and she deff won't hit me up right?Keep in under your hat for when the next women starts to bring up "the talk" and you'll see the difference.
Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Who knows what she will do....shes a woman lol.So there's nothing I can do and she deff won't hit me up right?
Irrelevant. Its one of about 5 or 6 excuse du jour's women give when they lose interest in a guy.Does she really mean that or is it just an excuse to dump me?
How the **** do you know there's another guy?Irrelevant. Its one of about 5 or 6 excuse du jour's women give when they lose interest in a guy.
My favorite thing to say to this in reply "Thats a good thing. Ive always believed when two people agree on everything one of them is not needed"
And then ler her respond if ahe chooses to and go from there...and if nothing from her end then go NC and delete her number.
99% of the time this is a "some guy has surfaced that I'm more interested in" line
Because when its not you there is ALWAYS another guy.How the **** do you know there's another guy?
That's not bad at all. The problem is that you attach too much significance to being liked by this girl. You care too much. I get the impression that you are not that happy being single, which will always put a lot of pressure on your relationships.I already said "hit me up if you change ur mind.' I wish I would have said what you said.
I'm gonna ask herBecause when its not you there is ALWAYS another guy.
You don't take good advise very well.I'm gonna ask her
what does it matter if I can't get her back?You don't take good advise very well.
Ask her and it will start a fight and she will never admit it anyways.
Do not contact her.
Seriously? You want to make yourself look that lame? She isnt going to give you a straight answer anyway.I'm gonna ask her
you'eSeriously? You want to make yourself look that lame? She isnt going to give you a straight answer anyway.
But if you want to give her and her friends great laughing material when they get together then go for it...
Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.