Feels like we don't have that much in common?

[B0redandl0nely]

Does she really mean that or is it just an excuse to dump me?

 

[Glassguy]

You're basically. Dumped. It doesn't really matter.

"Yeah I agree and feel the same way. I think I need to go a different direction relationship wise also. Take care hun".

That should be your response, regardless.

 

[B0redandl0nely]

You're basically. Dumped. It doesn't really matter.

"Yeah I agree and feel the same way. I think I need to go a different direction relationship wise also. Take care hun".

That should be your response, regardless.

I already said "hit me up if you change ur mind.' I wish I would have said what you said.

 

[B0redandl0nely]

she also said "i felt like i do most of the conversation. i hope im not that bad to talk to." well i have aspergers syndrome so no wonder..

 

[Glassguy]

I already said "hit me up if you change ur mind.' I wish I would have said what you said.

The problem with that is you gave her all control of the situation.

IMO, it's best to make her think there is another factor, wondering how you are actually ok with it and it leaves her head spinning. It also keeps you in control of yourself. She can't just change her mind next week and you'll be there waiting. It sounds like you ALREADY replaced her and she didn't know it or see it coming. Women hate that......and they normally come back around.

 

[B0redandl0nely]

The problem with that is you gave her all control of the situation.

IMO, it's best to make her think there is another factor, wondering how you are actually ok with it and it leaves her head spinning. It also keeps you in control of yourself. She can't just change her mind next week and you'll be there waiting. It sounds like you ALREADY replaced her and she didn't know it or see it coming. Women hate that......and they normally come back around.

Well I guess it's too late for that. Right?

 

[Glassguy]

Keep in under your hat for when the next women starts to bring up "the talk" and you'll see the difference.

 

[Glassguy]

My favorite exit line to date was a few months ago.

2 dates....pizza, beer and sex. She paid for the pizza and beer. She heard I was a "player" and sent me a really dirty text. Said she didn't know if we should go out again (She was looking for a good ego stroking)

My response:

Thank gawd you brought this up. I feel the same way. Anywho...thanks for the pizza, beer and piece of @ss. The beer was ice cold and the pizza was phenomenal. I'll definitely hit that place up on future dates. Take care hun "

Then she blew my phone up for 2 weeks, showed up at my house and I had to block her number and all social media. That response P!SSED her off. It it also took her interest to a crazy level

 

[B0redandl0nely]

Keep in under your hat for when the next women starts to bring up "the talk" and you'll see the difference.

So there's nothing I can do and she deff won't hit me up right?

 

[B0redandl0nely]

??

 

[Glassguy]

So there's nothing I can do and she deff won't hit me up right?

Who knows what she will do....shes a woman lol.

I guarantee you 2 things:
1.) For some reason her interest level was dropping or she really feels like you dont have much in common (unlikely).

2.) Any chasing will just push her away quicker.

Leave it alone, and I mean DO NOT initiate contact with her for ANY reason. If she reaches out, be busy and wait several hours before you respond. Only give her VERY short answers. If she says "maybe we should talk, maybe I made a mistake, can we talk".....simply say "sure but I'm not sure when I'll get free. I'll let you know when I get free" and then wait a few days to see if she reaches back out. Make her do work.

I wouldn't advise answering any of her phone calls right now. It's too easy to let her put you on the spot and doesn't give you any time to give her thought out, short responses. Plus you're supposed to be busy going a different direction. Remember?

 

[marmel75]

Does she really mean that or is it just an excuse to dump me?

Irrelevant. Its one of about 5 or 6 excuse du jour's women give when they lose interest in a guy.

My favorite thing to say to this in reply "Thats a good thing. Ive always believed when two people agree on everything one of them is not needed"

And then ler her respond if ahe chooses to and go from there...and if nothing from her end then go NC and delete her number.

99% of the time this is a "some guy has surfaced that I'm more interested in" line

 

[B0redandl0nely]

Irrelevant. Its one of about 5 or 6 excuse du jour's women give when they lose interest in a guy.

My favorite thing to say to this in reply "Thats a good thing. Ive always believed when two people agree on everything one of them is not needed"

And then ler her respond if ahe chooses to and go from there...and if nothing from her end then go NC and delete her number.

99% of the time this is a "some guy has surfaced that I'm more interested in" line

How the **** do you know there's another guy?

 

[marmel75]

How the **** do you know there's another guy?

Because when its not you there is ALWAYS another guy.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I already said "hit me up if you change ur mind.' I wish I would have said what you said.

That's not bad at all. The problem is that you attach too much significance to being liked by this girl. You care too much. I get the impression that you are not that happy being single, which will always put a lot of pressure on your relationships.

 

[B0redandl0nely]

Because when its not you there is ALWAYS another guy.

I'm gonna ask her

 

[Glassguy]

I'm gonna ask her

You don't take good advise very well.

Ask her and it will start a fight and she will never admit it anyways.

Do not contact her.

 

[B0redandl0nely]

You don't take good advise very well.

Ask her and it will start a fight and she will never admit it anyways.

Do not contact her.

what does it matter if I can't get her back?

 

[marmel75]

I'm gonna ask her

Seriously? You want to make yourself look that lame? She isnt going to give you a straight answer anyway.

But if you want to give her and her friends great laughing material when they get together then go for it...

 

[B0redandl0nely]

Seriously? You want to make yourself look that lame? She isnt going to give you a straight answer anyway.

But if you want to give her and her friends great laughing material when they get together then go for it...

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