Is it true that beautiful women don't find short men sexually desirable?

[MatureDJ]

I'm not gonna lie, 5 4 is pretty short, but no, you're not doomed, you better have some money and be at least good looking.

I'm considered "cute", so it puts me in the ball game - but to be short and have an unattractive face makes it virtually impossible. There is a short & ugly man on YouTube named "kickspassion" who does depressing videos about his dating life.

 

[Young OG]

I'm only 5'5" and I have done alright with women. I have less options then a tall guy, but I still get girls. You need to only go after girls your height or shorter. You need to own it. Like others said, make up for it in other ways. Hit the gym, dress well, groom well, etc. You also need to be confident and never let women know that your height bothers you. Some women will shVt test you, but you just need to know how to pass there tests.

 

[oOh Nasty]

When you're short like me (I bet I'm the shortest one on this forum), you pretty much need to work on wearing near perfect fitted clothing and try your best to stay in shape. As long as your body proportions are good, for some reason, people have less of a chance of seeing you as short. Also, use dominant body language. Just my experience.

[Photos cropped for my privacy]

 

[Sho-No-Luv]

Nope, just ask this guy:



Although, he wanted to become a famous basketball player, he didn't let that stop him from taking something seen as a disadvantage into an advantage:



Learn to use your disadvantages to your advantage!!

 

[Richboy MLG]

With women.. HEIGHT is a lot like MONEY.

You need to have more than them. But you don't need to have loads.

Worst advice ever. Are you that shallow?

 

[Richboy MLG]

Advice from the old lady:

It depends on the woman. That's really the only answer.

It is a preference and for some women it's a bigger deal than to others. For some women it's no big deal at all.

Height is not something you can modify. Best to accept it, work on all the other categories of being a worthwhile man (Great grooming/fitness/hygiene/style/success/social skills) and quit obsessing over the one thing you cannot change when you can change or improve most everything else.

Don't be the pudgy out of shape guy with body odor & a bad haircut who thinks girls won't date short men. If you are like that (not saying you are but for sake of the example) then it's all about all the other stuff you CAN control with some effort.

Don't look like a slob & then blame lack of success on the thing you can't affect when all the stuff you CAN affect is really why you don't get girls.

And don't change for girls. Improve for yourself. Girls are merely a byproduct.

Ricky Martin (yes I know, he's gay), Tom Cruise and Gary Stephens are not lacking for choices in the dating department.

I'm good in other areas but hot women rejected me just because i'm short. Please don't compare average short men to someone like Tom Cruise. He is a movie star, not a normal average guy.

 

[Richboy MLG]

My last girlfriend said she dated two guys who were both 6’4 before me, I’m 5’10.

She said one was insecure and always jealous, and the other one lacked ambition and drank a lot.

If she (or any other woman) could combine my ambition and confidence with a 6’4 frame, they would do it. But as a deal breaker, provided you’re not shorter than the girl, your confidence and goals in life (and the ambition that you give off pursuing those goals) matter more than height.

What I get from that is initially a guy’s height is appealing to girl and helps qualifies the guy, but after that he better have more to offer in the long run. Height and physique is important for initial attraction, and for the appealing female fantasy that such a tall muscular man could dominate them sexually (and be protective and make them feel small in LTRs).

I prefer girls in the 5’2-5’5 range. I wouldn’t date a girl my height or taller but I would hook up with one. However, if a girls personality and goals in life make up for her relative tallness, I’d be open to dating in the 5’7-5’9 range (I’m 5’10). My preferences and attitudes towards height for women are based on the same subjective tastes that women have towards us men. I don’t judge them for having preferences.

You are not short so you don't know what it means to be a shortie in the dating world.

 

[Richboy MLG]

Height is a dominance thing. Psychological dominance and charisma/force of personality trumps it.

In A Clockwork Orange, was it little Alex that led the droogs, or was it big clumsy Dim?

Look mate, we all have our different insecurities, and it's about besting them.

I'm about average, and only time i've ever had a woman say anything about not being really tall was a woman getting frustrated with me at work for not asking her out (would have done, but not in a workspace). So she started negging me, and telling me about how she went out with guys before who are 6 foot 6.

Online dating doesn't count btw, and gives a daft view of game. Don't drink from that punch bowl.

Certainly it will take you off of a few girls fvck-lists, but then so will a lot of different things. Not worth keep worrying about. Because serious insecurity is so much worse of a flaw to have than most things physical.

Tall men have a huge advantage in the dating world.

 

[Richboy MLG]

All else being equal, shorter can be a disadvantage. But it’s not everything.

For example, hair is more important than height. A shorter guy with full hair will often do better with women than a taller balding guy.

Facial aesthetics is a factor too. A shorter guy with a hot face will probably win against a taller guy who lacks facial aesthetics.

Others factors like muscles or money can compensate too.

Finally, height is something beyond your control, so it isn’t worth worrying about. Focus on things you can change and/or improve.

Height is the greatest physical trait for any man to a VAST majority of women on this planet. FACT. A lot of women would rather go out with ugly tall guys then handsome 5'7 guys.

 

[Richboy MLG]

Nope, just ask this guy:

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Although, he wanted to become a famous basketball player, he didn't let that stop him from taking something seen as a disadvantage into an advantage:

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Learn to use your disadvantages to your advantage!!

Im not a musician and i'm not an athlete. Whats your point bruh?

 

[Richboy MLG]

I'm almost 6' and in my 20s and 30s I noticed that women taller than me tended to be very attracted. I had several experiences with these amazons. I don't know if this phenomenon scales down or not, but these women definitely had a hankerin' for some Atom.

Come to think of it, my current lady is about 5'10".

It's all in the way you carry yourself, OP. All you need to do is make them FEEL.

I wish i was as tall as you. Getting girls will be a million times easier.

 

[Richboy MLG]

Yeah man. If you are short, you need to give up on women. You should just give up on life, period.

Give up on dating. not life im not that foolish.

 

[Atom Smasher]

I wish i was as tall as you. Getting girls will be a million times easier.

It's all completely relative. Sometimes I find myself in the company of men where I am the shortest and at those times I wish I were taller.

I think one of the challenges we men face is ignoring the things we can't do anything about. Women read our own feelings about ourselves because we project them through speech, tone of voice, and body language. In fact, women tend to believe what we earnestly believe because their understanding of the world does not come from within, but rather from other people.

We have the unique power to alter our reality by steadfastly refusing to believe something that makes us feel inferior, thereby neutralizing its effect on us. When the effect on us is neutralized, the issue is a non-issue to most others. It sounds a little mystical but I will swear by it.

 

[Young OG]

Im not a musician and i'm not an athlete. Whats your point bruh?

He is saying to not let height get in the way of your dreams. Don't let it stop you from going after what you want.

 

[Mike32ct]

A lot of women would rather go out with ugly tall guys then handsome 5'7 guys.

Understood. I was referring to a shorter guy with a hot (not merely handsome) face. Such a guy is known as a “Chadlet.”

 

[BeExcellent]

I'm good in other areas but hot women rejected me just because i'm short. Please don't compare average short men to someone like Tom Cruise. He is a movie star, not a normal average guy.

I know plenty of shorter men who slay it with women, including my brother in law, who at only 5'6" married a beautiful, smart & sought after college cheerleader 20 some years ago. I know lawyers, an artist, musicians, business people...lots of men who are short (5'5" to 5'8") compared to 6' who do just fine. Get over your height. It's not what is stopping you; rather your attitude about it is as pointed out by others.

Don't let height (or relative lack thereof) be your excuse for not getting everything else you CAN control into optimal condition.

 

[Urbanyst]

Worst advice ever. Are you that shallow?

LOL.

Can you explain why its bad advice? I bet you can't.

 

[zekko]

This isn't a genuine discussion.

You have no self-esteem. And it's foolish trying to talk you into having any.

Being tall is an advantage though, that's hard to deny. If someone said being a fit guy with muscles was an advantage, no one would bat an eye.
I'm average height (5'10"), but if I was taller I know I would use that as a source of confidence. I'm happy I'm as tall as I am actually, I figure I'm taller (or as tall) as about half the guys out there.

The real question here is about attitude, and how to look at something that you can't do anything about. Surprised no one has mentioned lifts (I wouldn't wear them - seems inauthentic).

 

[Richboy MLG]

This isn't a genuine discussion.

You have no self-esteem. And it's foolish trying to talk you into having any.

What you are up to is psychic vampirism, where your low self-esteem drains value from everything around you.

Neither women or men want to be around that.

Just telling the truth. This is a discussion. its not about psychic no self esteem vampirism thingy. Don't try to type something smart because you're not bruh.

 

[Richboy MLG]

LOL.

Can you explain why its bad advice? I bet you can't.

LMAO i don't need to. There's no strategy behind your statement. Bad advice is bad. Just accept it and let go of your ego son.