A girl I recently was dating said she dated two guys who were both 6’4 before me, I’m 5’10.
She said one was insecure and always jealous, and the other one lacked ambition and drank a lot.
If she (or any other woman) could combine my ambition and confidence with a 6’4 frame, they would do it. But as a deal breaker, provided you’re not shorter than the girl, your confidence and goals in life (and the ambition that you give off pursuing those goals) matter more than height.
What I get from that is initially a guy’s height is appealing to girl and helps qualifies the guy, but after that he better have more to offer in the long run. Height and physique is important for initial attraction, and for the appealing female fantasy that such a tall muscular man could dominate them sexually (and be protective and make them feel small in LTRs).
I prefer girls in the 5’2-5’5 range. I wouldn’t date a girl my height or taller but I would hook up with one. However, if a girls personality and goals in life make up for her relative tallness, I’d be open to dating in the 5’7-5’9 range (I’m 5’10). My preferences and attitudes towards height for women are based on the same subjective tastes that women have towards us men. I don’t judge them for having preferences.