Doesn't work as well in keeping them stable.
The best place to be is in having them invested and committed, whilst still having the freedom to date others without the shame or psychological pressure which comes from "cheating".
I've known the frame was slipping when i felt ashamed to hit on other girls in the area where she lived.
I seriously don't know any better to achieve that dynamic than push/pull, refusing to give closure, and giving high-quality limited attention (or "game").
With this girl, you should be able to netflix and chill now, so move your finances into dating a new prospect.
Yes I can see myself either getting bored with this chick further down the line.. Or beginning to resent her, as I feel I can do better than her, and I am setting for less.
Maybe I feel like this girl is safe..
This is a common issue that many of us djs suffer with.. We go for the sexy, good looking woman, who sometimes turn out to be a monster!
The girl that is average, but happens to be the nicer person, we seem not to want to invest in her..
I suppose its better to keep spinning those plates, till the right one all round comes along, and you feel more comfortable going into a LTR
