I didnt put **** pics in my ad, but included one with a few other -good - shots of me in my response to their replies.
Offering to host does make a difference.
Here's today's ad (I've already gotten two real replies. Title: Seeking A 420 Friendly Female
"Attractive, tall, laid back, squeaky clean, 26yo male with great oral skills is looking for a clean woman who is hwp and 420 friendly for an awesome time this evening. I can host or come by you, whatever works. Any age (as long as legal!) and race are fine with me. Please put your favorite movie in the subject line to deter spam. Thanks
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This subject line does help weed out a bit, and I get to know a bit about them based on what they pick for a movie. I don't fvck all that reply but I can pretty much take my pic and spin lots of plates.