Tenacity
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I told you that Tenacity would date/be in a relationship with her until she leaves lol. You are actually making your argument worse now, by stating that the woman is REQUESTING that you marry her and she hasn't even fully grown into LOVING you yet.What is love? Especially in the first few years of knowing someone. I would argue that "love" is not possible in any relation especially in the first few years, if possible at all as love means you are putting others' interests before your own, which belies the human inclination to receive for thyself.
Rather, the correct perspective is you have "needs," and she has "needs."
If she doesn't meet your needs, you will leave.
If you don't meet her needs, she will leave.
Now again,Tenacity sieved through 200 women in six years in historically the most horrendous marketplace and has never found a woman with no divorce, no kids, no divorces in her immediate family, strong traditional family values, good financial habits, lives to be a good wife and mother, lives to support her husband in every manner she can ("Unicorn"). But as Tenacity is tenacious, he continues his search. One day, four years and 200 more women later, Tenacity finds this Unicorn. However, this Unicorn is borne of a traditional family and was indoctrinated with a "need" to be married. This type of woman also will not entertain a relation without the end goal of being married.
Remember now, "love" for the sake of this discussion does not exist.
Now, it's been 10 years and 400 women total. Finally, alas ... after all these threads, rants, and complaints about the horrible marketplace ... Tenacity finally finds such a woman. What does Tenacity do?
Which means, again, that her request that you marry her is based more so (or completely) on the "concept or act of being married" rather than being spiritually, emotionally, psychologically, and soulfully connected to you, in love with you, and in the position of not being able to live without you.
So if you want to run around fulfilling this chick's "dream" of dressing up like Barbie in a white dress, walking down the aisle, and having her "princess wedding".......that's on you. Go ahead and pull out your Citi Double Cash Card and finance her "dream" on that to collect your 2% cashback.
But Tenacity is not about to take part in any of that foolishness. I'm going to fvck her, date her, and plate her until she "leaves" due to the fact that Tenacity won't sign some silly government contract. She will be a special plate though, one I do more things for and treat a bit better than the other plates