After a certain point in your life you have nothing in common with chicks below 25yo

[zekko]

Depends on the woman, but a lot of girls under 25 are still prepping for their life, college age. From a life experience standpoint, they're not much above a high school student. Doesn't mean that you can't bang them, but it's true that at a certain point a guy is probably not going to relate to them that much.

 

[BeExcellent]

So it's about height and race.

Bet I will make twice as much as him within 3 years. He wouldn't lead ME.

Guarantee I could be more successful than him and it wouldn't matter.

You don't seem to get it Richard. In my world good looking successful men are a given. Prerequisites if you will.

I choose who to spend time with based on sexiness, shared interests and other individual preferences. This man has had lots of beautiful women. That is a given for him all his life. Gorgeous women constantly flirt with him. He can get laid effortlessly. He is over easy sex. It's not fulfilling to him any more. He wants more than sex. He wants a woman he enjoys as a person who he finds dead sexy. I picked him over a taller good looking surgeon who makes more money. Why? The non appearance based traits I noted.

Keep in mind that sexy & good looking are not the same thing. He happens to be both...but I value sexy over good looking as do many women. So no the money is not the most important thing.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

You don't seem to get it Richard. In my world good looking successful men are a given. Prerequisites if you will.

I choose who to spend time with based on sexiness, shared interests and other individual preferences. This man has had lots of beautiful women. That is a given for him all his life. Gorgeous women constantly flirt with him. He can get laid effortlessly. He is over easy sex. It's not fulfilling to him any more. He wants more than sex. He wants a woman he enjoys as a person who he finds dead sexy. I picked him over a taller good looking surgeon who makes more money. Why? The non appearance based traits I noted.

Keep in mind that sexy & good looking are not the same thing. He happens to be both...but I value sexy over good looking as do many women. So no the money is not the most important thing.

Okay well something has got to give. I've been through too much, am too smart to not get the best women. I know I deserve them. I understand that financial success is a prerequisite and I'm on my way there. I believe with 95% certainty that I will be making over $250k within 2.5 years, maybe more.

The little catchall phrases like "spin plates" and "maintain frame" are not exactly helpful to me.

 

[AJ84]

Okay well something has got to give. I've been through too much, am too smart to not get the best women. I know I deserve them. I understand that financial success is a prerequisite and I'm on my way there. I believe with 95% certainty that I will be making over $250k within 2.5 years, maybe more.

The little catchall phrases like "spin plates" and "maintain frame" are not exactly helpful to me.

Do they know that you deserve them? I think being a bit more realistic about things will help you in the long run.

It's that sense of entitlement, from both genders, that typically leads to dissatisfaction in dating and relationships.

Having money doesn't equate to deserving hot women, just like having supermodel looks doesn't equate to derserving rich men.

No one deserves anything, because the world doesn't owe you jack sh*t, no matter how rich, nice, or good looking you are.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Do they know that you deserve them? I think being a bit more realistic about things will help you in the long run.

It's that sense of entitlement, from both genders, that typically leads to dissatisfaction in dating and relationships.

Having money doesn't equate to deserving hot women, just like having supermodel looks doesn't equate to derserving rich men.

No one deserves anything, because the world doesn't owe you jack sh*t, no matter how rich, nice, or good looking you are.

Are you saying I should tell them? To me, money is just the icing on the cake of why I feel I deserve them. Never mind the fact that we haven't even began to discuss what "value," if any, they have to offer to my life.

I'm not asking the world to give me anything. I'm asking girls to see that I have value.

 

[AJ84]

Are you saying I should tell them? To me, money is just the icing on the cake of why I feel I deserve them. Never mind the fact that we haven't even began to discuss what "value," if any, they have to offer to my life.

I'm not asking the world to give me anything. I'm asking girls to see that I have value.

Richard there are two separate threads and countless posts that YOU initiated on value. Come on now.

Like a broken record. Second verse same as the first.


I know I know, I have no value you are the hottest guy out of everyone here and have two hot girls that want to f+*k you right now and will be rich in 2.5 yrs.

Noted. But please get help.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Richard there are two separate threads and countless posts that YOU initiated on value. Come on now.

Like a broken record. Second verse same as the first.


I know I know, I have no value you are the hottest guy out of everyone here and have two hot girls that want to f+*k you right now and will be rich in 2.5 yrs.

Noted. But please get help.

Perhaps it is not accurate for me to say that women have no value. Perhaps I am just seeing girls that overstate their value based on looks and projecting that onto all of them. The little 20 year old diva that bartends is not EVERY girl.

I never claimed to be "hot" in a physical sense. What I claim to be is intelligent, strong, capable of persevering through hardship, brave, etc.

If I'm rich in 2.5 years, I probably wouldn't even tell anyone. I don't think I would be blinging Mr. Lamborghini. I think I would be more likely to hide it, but I can't say for certain yet.

 

[AJ84]

Perhaps it is not accurate for me to say that women have no value. Perhaps I am just seeing girls that overstate their value based on looks and projecting that onto all of them. The little 20 year old diva that bartends is not EVERY girl.

I never claimed to be "hot" in a physical sense. What I claim to be is intelligent, strong, capable of persevering through hardship, brave, etc.

If I'm rich in 2.5 years, I probably wouldn't even tell anyone. I don't think I would be blinging Mr. Lamborghini. I think I would be more likely to hide it, but I can't say for certain yet.

My bad, you wrote that you are worth more than every guy here, and swore to God on that fact.

If all you are seeing are girls that overstate their value based on looks then that would explain the projection I guess. Hopefully you can meet girls who are different from that, they are out there.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

My bad, you wrote that you are worth more than every guy here, and swore to God on that fact.

If all you are seeing are girls that overstate their value based on looks then that would explain the projection I guess. Hopefully you can meet girls who are different from that, they are out there.

I think I was comparing myself to guys who play video games in a moment of frustration.

What should a girls value be then? If not looks? We've asked this question many times. Multitasking?

 

[Dash Riprock]

But what do the older girls have to offer?

Maturity and all that comes with it. There are some smokin' hot 40-somethings in my town. MANY look 25 but have their s*hit together.

THAT's what.

 

[Dash Riprock]

If I keep banging 35 year old divorced women my brain will explode. They have too much drama and baggage for me. I have no baggage.

The main thing I like about 22 year old HB is that they are not looking to get married tomorrow.

Then you're dating the wrong ones. Should be easy to spot in the first 1-2 dates.

 

[Dash Riprock]

Guys on SS have different goals:

1- Get laid. Ok if you're under 25, non committal, or have been in a sexless or toxic relationship. Otherwise, being a slave to the p*ussy is really shallow thinking and a waste of time. You CAN get p*ussy with a solid woman if you look a little more.

2- Girlfriend. This is better. Someone you have commonalities with and that "gets" you emotionally. They are responsible and have a life besides you. Sex with this person can be amazing based on a deeper connection than just the physical as in #1. Unfortunately, some on SS get chastised for pursuing this option.

3- LTR. See #2 + a relationship and partner that has now stood the test of time. This is the sweet spot. You've had fights, maybe a breakup or two, but can communicate well enough to work it out. It's healthy and non-toxic. Sex is off the hook due to a very strong connection.

4- Marriage. See #3 + up one level. I personally would recommend against for many reasons but some go down this path. Just realize that one day all relationships end. Very few end up married for 40-50 years anymore. Why push 50% of everything you own into the middle of the table and gamble you're not going to be one of the 60%+ that end up divorced? Marriage rates are declining for good reason. It takes two votes to get married but just one to end it. Strange and unfair, but true---and CO$TLY for most men. Women file for 80% of all divorces in the US.

 

[AJ84]

I think I was comparing myself to guys who play video games in a moment of frustration.

What should a girls value be then? If not looks? We've asked this question many times. Multitasking?

Yep. multitasking, that's basically it.

 

[AJ84]

Maturity and all that comes with it. There are some smokin' hot 40-somethings in my town. MANY look 25 but have their s*hit together.

THAT's what.

People should date whatever legal age they want and can get but I have to say, hot older men and women in their 40s and up are a gem because if they were going to hit the wall hard they would of done it a long time ago.

Look at your Facebook friends from high school and see which ones hit the wall in their 30s. There is something intriguing about a 40+ something man or woman who is fit and looks great. That, paired with some maturity, independence, sexual skills, less drama and laid back personality is perfect. They definately stand out among their pounchy cohorts.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Yep. multitasking, that's basically it.

So tell me what it is. Other than related to sex, looks, reproduction. We've gone over this a million times on this forum and came up with nothing.

I see it every day. Like today, working on a house flip... It's a husband/wife team. The husband does all the work. The wife does nothing except hand him a tool every now and then. How can you argue with sexual dimorphism?

Can you actually name something? Rather than just answer in riddles and sarcasm?

The best @BeExcellent came up with was multitasking and emotional intelligence. Is that stuff even true?

 

[Bible_Belt]

The wife does nothing except hand him a tool every now and then.

I'm sure she's quite frequently on the receiving end of his tool, too.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

I'm sure she's quite frequently on the receiving end of his tool, too.

Were you trying to add something to the conversation, or just wanted to make a pun?

If anything, you just proved my point.

 

[BeExcellent]

I agree with option #3 from @Dash Riprock . That's a nice place to be. Comfortable, compatible, connection, intimacy, companionship and no need to co-mingle assets. Honestly this option seems from my vantage point to be best for women who are done having babies.

Marriage is still the best option (from a woman's perspective) for having babies and raising children. Pregnancy still has health risks that are unpredictable and children are an enormous responsibility 24/7. A team approach (AKA nuclear family) is the best way to handle all the constant responsibility and also create the best healthy environment for raising the next generation.

But if you are either already done becoming a father or never wish to be one I agree marriage can be a raw deal. Some men here do want to do the marriage/family/fatherhood thing and I don't think that it's incompatible with being so called red pill. Men who understand things the community discusses here are in a much better position to succeed in marriage, IMO.

 

[Macaframalama]

I will

I could

Lol!