After a certain point in your life you have nothing in common with chicks below 25yo

[Ca$ino]

25 if that..and that's even a reach.


If you are actually moving forward in life and advancing you get to a point where young chicks are like kids and you leave them to play with kids.


If sex is the end all be all to your life, chasing younger chicks and trying to "reverse" your real age you aren't excelling in life. You're regressing, stagnant and not comfortable with leaving the past in the past and growing.


Younger chicks may be "hotter" but that's about all they can offer an older man who should be well above and past that level.

At a certain point a man gets over simply wanting sex with some younger chick if he's actually looking for more in life. Younger chicks pretty much offer zilch to an older dude except eye candy and trying desperately to hold onto yesteryear in a sad attempt to validate himself strictly off her youth and sex. In the end no one cares. Life goes on. People grow, get married, have families, pass on their legacy to their children, hang out with a crowd with more in common with them, and don't waste their time trying to hang on to constantly staying in peter pan land.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

At a certain point a man gets over simply wanting sex with some younger chick if he's actually looking for more in life. Younger chicks pretty much offer zilch to an older dude except eye candy and trying desperately to hold onto yesteryear in a sad attempt to validate himself strictly off her youth and sex. In the end no one cares. Life goes on. People grow, get married, have families, pass on their legacy to their children, hang out with a crowd with more in common with them, and don't waste their time trying to hang on to constantly staying in peter pan land.

Yes, I think with personal development also comes development in our idea of love. It morphs from eroticism into something more significant.. a desirability beyond interestedness.... a kind of disinterestedness.

 

[sosousage]

im dating 9 year older chick wrrrr i like her attitude

 

[Julian]

Ill keep banging these 18-25 yr olds u can have the used up *****s

 

[RichardTheFrog]

25 if that..and that's even a reach.


If you are actually moving forward in life and advancing you get to a point where young chicks are like kids and you leave them to play with kids.


If sex is the end all be all to your life, chasing younger chicks and trying to "reverse" your real age you aren't excelling in life. You're regressing, stagnant and not comfortable with leaving the past in the past and growing.


Younger chicks may be "hotter" but that's about all they can offer an older man who should be well above and past that level.

At a certain point a man gets over simply wanting sex with some younger chick if he's actually looking for more in life. Younger chicks pretty much offer zilch to an older dude except eye candy and trying desperately to hold onto yesteryear in a sad attempt to validate himself strictly off her youth and sex. In the end no one cares. Life goes on. People grow, get married, have families, pass on their legacy to their children, hang out with a crowd with more in common with them, and don't waste their time trying to hang on to constantly staying in peter pan land.

But what do the older girls have to offer?

 

[skinnyguy]

If I keep banging 35 year old divorced women my brain will explode. They have too much drama and baggage for me. I have no baggage.

The main thing I like about 22 year old HB is that they are not looking to get married tomorrow.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Great post....and then we ban him.

 

[That_dude]

It really depends on your age and the maturity level of the girl

 

[Who Dares Win]

That would be like staying that if you are a post wall woman the older and ugliers you get the less you have in common with cool muscular studs with their sh1t toghter.

Which is true but the alternative is dealing with people that you will like even less...

If you couple with a women with the idea that she will fill any lack you have, you already begin the wrong way.

 

[Urbanyst]

FALSE.

Dating is based on SMV and VALUE in general. Women over 30 are not high value.

The only thing you can have more in common with a woman over 30 is being desperate. Her SMV has dropped and you might have experienced a life of rejection in your youth. So you come together based on that.

 

[BeExcellent]

25 if that..and that's even a reach.


If you are actually moving forward in life and advancing you get to a point where young chicks are like kids and you leave them to play with kids.


If sex is the end all be all to your life, chasing younger chicks and trying to "reverse" your real age you aren't excelling in life. You're regressing, stagnant and not comfortable with leaving the past in the past and growing.


Younger chicks may be "hotter" but that's about all they can offer an older man who should be well above and past that level.

At a certain point a man gets over simply wanting sex with some younger chick if he's actually looking for more in life. Younger chicks pretty much offer zilch to an older dude except eye candy and trying desperately to hold onto yesteryear in a sad attempt to validate himself strictly off her youth and sex. In the end no one cares. Life goes on. People grow, get married, have families, pass on their legacy to their children, hang out with a crowd with more in common with them, and don't waste their time trying to hang on to constantly staying in peter pan land.

This train of thought is consistent with what I hear from men I know in their 40s and 50s. My ex has gone out with 25 year olds since we've gotten divorced. He rolls his eyes when he talks about them. He finds they don't have much in common and then he tends to sort of lose interest. I actually asked the guy I'm seeing the other day if he sometimes dates the much younger women (because he's high enough value he easily can), and I got a response along these lines. He's actually a little younger than I am (which I don't typically like) but not too much so that I think I know more than he does and I respect him a great deal.

It's nice to hang out with someone who has the same cultural frame of reference and the same value set. We are both into dance and EDM. The other day I got in his car and an old club anthem came up on his playlist that I haven't heard for 25 years. We had a great laugh about it and then got into a cool discussion about how certain songs and things anchor certain memories and experiences from the past and how cool all that is, etc. We went to see 'Made in America' and afterwards got to chatting about what we both recalled from that era and all the hearings and the Reagan years in the US and all sorts of stuff. Similar experiences give you commonalities and things to talk about. We can chat for hours and not get bored. And HE does plenty (perhaps even most) of the talking.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

because he's high enough value he easily can

What's so high value about him?

 

[BeExcellent]

What's so high value about him?

Here are his traits that are readily observable:

Sexy, Masculine, Very Good Looking (Over 6', fit, tall dark & handsome - accomplished Latin dancer)
Natural Leader
Emotionally Intelligent/Great Social Skills (A 'natural' with women)
Refined/Stylish
Impeccable "Game"
DGAF Attitude

Here are his traits that are observable upon getting to know him:

Financially Independent
Ambitious
Intelligent
Loyal
Determined
Kind

 

[Trunks]

If I have learned something, it's that maturity and age do not necessarily correlate. Sure, an older, mature woman is preferable for a LTR than an immature twenty something year old, but if you find an emotionally mature, yet younger woman and you like her, well, why not?

 

[Bible_Belt]

I've never fvcked a girl under 25 who was worth a sh!t in bed. Young ones just lay there. You might as well have a sex doll. At least they don't talk.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Here are his traits that are readily observable:

Sexy, Masculine, Very Good Looking (Over 6', fit, tall dark & handsome - accomplished Latin dancer)
Natural Leader
Emotionally Intelligent/Great Social Skills (A 'natural' with women)
Refined/Stylish
Impeccable "Game"
DGAF Attitude

Here are his traits that are observable upon getting to know him:

Financially Independent
Ambitious
Intelligent
Loyal
Determined
Kind

So it's about height and race.

Bet I will make twice as much as him within 3 years. He wouldn't lead ME.

Guarantee I could be more successful than him and it wouldn't matter.

 

[Fzatf]

So it's about height and race.

Bet I will make twice as much as him within 3 years. He wouldn't lead ME.

Guarantee I could be more successful than him and it wouldn't matter.

You missed the part where she listed his social skills and emotional intelligence. Personality is something you have to bring to the table. You're focused on finances which is only a piece of the picture.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

You missed the part where she listed his social skills and emotional intelligence. Personality is something you have to bring to the table. You're focused on finances which is only a piece of the picture.

Oh well.

But perhaps that stuff wouldn't matter if he wasn't a tall, sexy, Latin dancer?

In which case, it's all about the physical?

 

[skinnyguy]

Oh well.

But perhaps that stuff wouldn't matter if he wasn't a tall, sexy, Latin dancer?

In which case, it's all about the physical?

Being bitter about other men can cause women to think you are low value

 

[beforeimgone]

Great post....and then we ban him.

Lol gotem