Dingo
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This isn't Women's View of modern dating. It's one woman's view of modern dating and while some women may complain about where are all the good guys (like some guys here do about women), they don't give up, like this woman obviously has.
Real talkThere's no way an emotional based person will ever make the correct rational decisions on who she should entertain. .
So how do you filter out your pursuers? What are the criteria you used to select your last guy?This isn't Women's View of modern dating. It's one woman's view of modern dating and while some women may complain about where are all the good guys (like some guys here do about women), they don't give up, like this woman obviously has.
Also, she stated that she already feels disappointment before the date even begins and calls men morons. This is not the view of most modern women, who actually like men, and that picture is not likely a picture of the writer.
It's just some dumb blog from the female equilivant of an MGTOW. If she wants to give up, don't let the door hit ya...
I think this article sheds light on things I've been discussing, about how the dating market has changed based on the fact that Men and Women no longer "need" each other. We no longer need each other for survival (women don't need men to provide and men don't need women to keep the house together), as a result, it turns our relationships into forms of entertainment based on convenience. Even most people who are getting married today, are only doing so for attention, social media likes, and to fit into particular networks that usually shed a more positive light on being married rather than being single.
Oldest argument known to man.
I actually I found my husband by posting flyers in all the local libraries. 'Woman looking for cognitively intact man, hair optimal, DNA sample require for criminal record check.'So how do you filter out your pursuers? What are the criteria you used to select your last guy?
Exactly. Somebody is rather BITTER. Awwwww. I mean I'm still fit & good looking so I have that much going for me but seriously attitude is everything. I just at women (and men too, honestly) who moan and complain and can't grasp the simple concept that if you have a nasty attitude you are not doing yourself any favors whatsoever.It's one woman's view of modern dating and while some women may complain about where are all the good guys (like some guys here do about women), they don't give up, like this woman obviously has.
The dating game is definitely fd these. Especially after online dating went from being frowned upon to the hip thing to do. From experience.. Some people on these sites are out of there minds and not capable of real relationships. However there are still some good stories out there Life is like a box of chocolatesI actually I found my husband by posting flyers in all the local libraries. 'Woman looking for cognitively intact man, hair optimal, DNA sample require for criminal record check.'
And I found someone
Joking. I don't have a specific prototype in terms of physical appearances, like they have to be white, tall, ripped, blue eyes).
I've dated guys shorter than me, other nationalities, bald, a bit husky ( don't like obese guys though). As long as they can groom themselves and dress nicely (doesn't have to be Hugo Boss but can dress for their body type and look nice). I do appreciate full lips and a nice smile. Beards are always nice.
There could be just one thing about their appearance that does it for me, and it's usually in their face, like nice eyes or something. If they have even just one physical feature that I like I will be open to getting to know them.
Personality wise I'm more specific I guess. Social skills and being laid back are important for me. I watch hockey and some basketball so an interest in sports is a bonus but not a big deal. Also an avid reader so bonus but not a big deal.
Being employed is important to me. I worked very hard with no parent handouts to buy my own condo and I have been saving money for retirement and since I was 17. Been working since I was 15 and paid my own way through the last two semesters of university by working like a dog in the summers and barely spending any money, so a good financial head is important to me because I always plan ahead and save money. However I have been a bit anal about that in the past and I had to work on it when dating guys, as I noticed I was filtering men based on whether they used credit cards to purchase things or cash. It was dumb and I realize that now.
I have a dry sense of humour and appreciate off colour jokes and wit so that's always a plus for me. Guys who can take a joke as well as tell one and can laugh at themselves.
An uptight man is a lady boner killer.
I like someone who has hobbies that they are passionate about. I once dated a guy who was really into astronomy. My girlfriend thought he was weird because he was into that but I learned a lot from him.
I met my husband through OLD two months after joining the site. He's 6'6 and the first thing he said when we met was, " I'm going to buy you high heels so you won't have to strain your calf muscles when you reach up to kiss me tonight". He was funny and laid back with a cute face and the next day I cancelled the date I had set up with another guy for the following week.
Never looked back.