Women's view of modern dating.... Article... Discuss....

[Tenacity]

The problem today is our culture and our biology are not on the same page anymore.

^^^ THIS.

- So I can sit down and logically tell you guys the breakdown of today's market. I can tell you that the short term dating/ONS market is BOOMING and the long term relationship market is in a Great Recession (or hell, maybe a Great Depression).

- I can then recommend the steps you guys should take as a result of this.

But where I'm still FVCKED up in the head at, is the fact that my "biological and other psychological programming" has not yet caught up.....to this "new culture" I'm growing up/existing in.

My biological/psychological programming says get married, make 2 kids, and do what's known as the blue pill stuff for my family, community, business associates, and the whole nine yards. Then my critical thinking skills kick in, I see the market/culture for what it is (or in other words, I see the red pill/truth based revelations on a variety of things) and I decide that it's insane to participate in certain things.

My HEAD and my SOUL are battling each other. They have been battling each other for a long time, certainly for the entire time I've been writing on this board. It's honestly why I joined this board, I've been trying to get this internal war to stop within me for a long time. I came here to see how other guys were dealing with this.

It's why I've always wanted to focus on REAL discussions, because that would allow me to see how guys are adjusting to honestly living a Red Pill Life. I mean it's cool or whatever to get up on a forum and talk about you are Red Pill. But being Red Pill can isolate you in a number of ways.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

My biological/psychological programming says get married, make 2 kids, and do what's known as the blue pill stuff for my family, community, business associates, and the whole nine yards. Then my critical thinking skills kick in, I see the market/culture for what it is (or in other words, I see the red pill/truth based revelations on a variety of things) and I decide that it's insane to participate in certain things.
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I'd suggest that the above is not 'biological' but a residue of the old culture [middle class bourgeois], which itself was a secularization of the old religion. It is a cultural conflict at play, competing narrative forces, within your own psyche.

 

[MatureDJ]

Oh well...

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[Pandora]

Men shape the business world, women shape the dating/relationship/marriage one.

If our gdp and technology is growing while our families are getting broken it means one precise thing.

When it comes of relationships and dating men react, they dont innovate or create, they simply react to what women put them around.

Going ghost, flaking, not picking up the phone and so on were all actions introduced in the game from women not men, there were no flaking men 10yrs ago but women tought them it was doable and agreeable.

The "zero investment" policy many men follow didnt come out of nowhere, it was simply a cost/benefit based policy based on that and on the rate of return for effort given.

Soooo true. They have conditioned us to not give a fu*k. I keep telling women, players are not born...they are made. Being flaked on, ghost and rejected turns the most idealistic of men into womanizers and "jerks".

 

[MatureDJ]

Do you really want every women you sleep with to have a stretched out vagina like a prostitute? I like a tight vagina.

Ironically, the tightest vagina I have ever sampled was in Amsterdam; this gal knew how to control her muscles (she told me how she has worked on them!) - like a freaking vice grip!