@mrgoodstuff We've become DJs. With the average phone zombie attention slore we've learnt how to trigger their attraction and pump and dump.
For the guys like myself who like LTRs we've learnt how to set up and manage a rotation of plates which ensures anyone girl is never getting more attention than she's worth. So now you have both the funnel and the means to qualify the leads into good prospects or discards.
We've learnt how to dominate them in the bedroom and treat them like the slv
ts they want to be.
And in a relationship we've learnt how to hold frame and maintain polarity.
I'm not a million miles away from the kind sweet guy I used to be maybe just a 1000. My girlfriend calls me don bi - Northern tiger. She thinks I'm tough and masculine with a gentle side that she can bring out of me. Of course reality is more complex than that but she's manufactured the image she needs.. perfect
We have this principle in the martial arts if somebody tries to hit you with a fast combination of punches treat it as one punch, e.g. jam it so they can't punch, zone away, use their energy to feed hand ,,traps and counterpunching, attack their legs, use their arm as a pivot point to move behind them so your past the weapons etc.
It's kind of the opposite with women. It's a homoeopathic principle a little bit of poison taken regularly makes you stronger. Focusing on one woman will make your head spin, engaging casually with groups of them maintains the correct attitude.