Insults your girl you backhand him across the jaw
Flirts with your girl you get an aggressive stance and tell him to fallback or chits gonna get real.
Either way no tactic u do is gonna work unless u can backup your words with physical prowess.
Guys only understand violence. Some little snarky comments wont work if dude is ready to throwdown
Lol. No.
In most cities in America, this kind of mindset will get your azz killed (one day or another). Or jailed. Or beat up and jailed. If you're in a small town, sure, you can get away with a bar fight or two, but still pretty pointless.
So here's some practical advice from someone who actually goes out and deals with these types of situations.
Established AMOG--Depends on the vibe I get from him. If he seems like a solid guy, then approach him man-to-man. You're not trying to sneak into his hen house & steal his stock. You treat him with respect, throw some social niceties his way, watch the girls he's gaming & wing him with the one he seems more into and then take the others off his hands. If he likes you, he'll
want you to succeed & chances are the girls are friends and won't just bail on each other and both of your best interests lie in keeping things moving in a fun direction until the end of the night.
My mindset when I go out is
Everybody wants me to succeed; everybody wants to be my friend. Plenty of girls to go around for everyone. Combativeness & competition
usually requires two parties to escalate that situations. And social pressure dictates that you are nice to people who are nice to you or you risk looking like an insecure tool. So adopt the frame that suits your best interests and stick with it.
However, there's another kind of AMOG--or not even necessarily an AMOG but sometimes just a troll--and these guys exist just to tool you or to make you lose frame. So you just don't react to his frame & you use social pressure to turn the group against him. Usually I just use non-sequitirs & agree and amplify any insults. Doesn't really matter as long as you don't fall into his frame or react emotionally.
Chances are he'll either give up or end up tooling himself out &
then you just mention to the girl something like:
Do you know this guy? And remove her from the set. If she does, well, he's her problem. She is being judged for the company she keeps and if her friend's a cvnt or the guys she's with are douches, IT IS HER RESPONSIBILITY TO DEAL WITH THEM EFFECTIVELY IF SHE DOESN'T WANT TO LOSE AN OPPORTUNITY WITH A HIGH VALUE MALE. Pretty easy & girls
will pick up on those subcomms and fall into that frame. After all, she fears social judgment over everything and if your judgment seems higher value than his, you're golden.
Poachers--Guys who enter into your set are just there to try to fvck you up. So don't let them into your frame. Again, if you don't react they lose their power. Until they threaten you or the girl
physically, just ignore anything that doesn't bring you closer to your goals of having a good time & hopefully pulling the girl.
However, this should be a rare occurrence. If it happens frequently, then some part of your inner game is fvcked up & you're sending off subcomms that you're an easy target. Take honest inventory of your insecurities: Do you have any sense of shame? Inadequacy? Imposter syndrome? Fear of social judgment? Etc. Meditation is great for identifying whatever issue & resolving it.
