What to do here? Risk it or nah?

[TheGambino]

Ill try to keep it short this time.

Met her thursdaynight. Rock chick, HB7, GREAT, outgoing personality at the first meeting.

Randomly approached a group of people at a terras with a buddy. Buddy quickly makes friends with the guys. This particular girl smiles to me and moves slowly with her but closely to my legs a couple of times. I grab her arm slightly and we talk. She says I g2g home real quick. I challenge her to come back in pyamas and she does. Her suprise? A sushi date with me.

We go inside, her sisters play a song with a guitarist. We dance, cuddle, build some attraction and rapport. Hours of FUN pass.

We go outside, she sits next to me we flirt and get to know eachother more. I am the absolute DJ here, played everything damn well.

Her sisters and mother approve me and I bluff. Me: im going home her: nooo stay.
They really even flirt with me and she can go with me wherever, they DONT c0ckbl0ck beacuse I played the nice guy with them all night and the monster DJ with the rock chick that I like.

She does bump intoo a old rebound guy, he acts all desperate that hes mad that she didnt reach out to him and dudududududud and she fools him but they cuddle. I smile, ignore them and tease her sisters as a reaction.

We go check another bar out, only me and her, I grabb her hand in a side corner of a street and we make out heavily. She becomes all h0rney and warm. We go pooling and I own her, she challenged me. We go outside make out more and she talks about relationships, that she doesnt want a ONS anymore and something serious dududududud. I say I got to get know a girl better before I start something serious...

I give her MY phone number because my phone is dead. Couldve given it wrong, couldve been the good number. I rate it 85% chance that I gave her the right number.

Little detail: I had no money on me, smoked her cigarettes, she paid hella lot of beer and told her sister im a leach THOUGH. (I heard it)
After 30 mins I told her the night at the restaurant is mine since I forgot my money at home. (true storY)

She says Im going to text you for sure for.

Didnt hear anything yet...

I live near her city, I go out a lot in her city, I could bump intoo her again or NOT. I know where she works. I found her sister on facebook but she hasnt got facebook.

Its saturday now, didnt hear jacksh1t yet. I might go out to the same city tonight since its a 10 min drive. What should I do here boys?

PM her sister on facebook something funny and try to get contact?

Nothing, move on and wait until she reaches out or I bump intoo her randomly one day?

Drink something at her workplace tonight? (creepy, stalkerish imo)

We had a GREAT fling, she was all about me. (Her bagg was one big mess, I could smell BPD MAYBEEE) Great kisser, unbelievable kisser, so h0rney, very wild, tried to make me jealous a bit, but a great outgoing fun personality, talks about relationship? talks about ons? wants children? she knows me 4 hours at that point)

any thoughts?

Yes i spin plates.... dont give me that sheit, got enough options. I just want to fvck this one.

 

[QuadDeuces]

Going to her workplace would be horrible for obvious reasons, especially so soon after you made out.
It would appear needy and besides you cannot isolate her there as she is working.
You can go there in 2 weeks but now it would be too soon.
Just put her on the backburner for now.
When you try hard, you die hard.

 

[marmel75]

If you hit her up on Facebook, it won't be a good look for you. You just have to wait. You should know by now that meeting up someone and having a lot of fun one night at a club doesn't mean a damn thing

 

[TheGambino]

Going to her workplace would be horrible for obvious reasons, especially so soon after you made out.
It would appear needy and besides you cannot isolate her there as she is working.
You can go there in 2 weeks but now it would be too soon.
Just put her on the backburner for now.
When you try hard, you die hard.

DUDE ARE YOU DUTCH???? whahahaha wtf gast serieus

 

[Bible_Belt]

she doesnt want a ONS anymore

I once had a sales job that was door to door, selling to businesses. My boss was a very successful salesperson. He was training me, and we walked up to a business entrance. I said, "wait, there is a sign on the door that says 'no soliciting.' (no salesmen)."

He said, "I know. I saw it. That's why we are going in there first. They put up that sign because they are easy marks for salesmen, and they know it."

Your girl's statement that she doesn't want a ONS anymore, says to me, "I'm easy! At least tonight I am!"

She woke up the next day sober, and then you didn't seem like such a great idea any more. It probably takes booze to make a guy seem like a good idea, which is why she has had so many one night stands.

 

[TheGambino]

she doesnt want a ONS anymore

I once had a sales job that was door to door, selling to businesses. My boss was a very successful salesperson. He was training me, and we walked up to a business entrance. I said, "wait, there is a sign on the door that says 'no soliciting.' (no salesmen)."

He said, "I know. I saw it. That's why we are going in there first. They put up that sign because they are easy marks for salesmen, and they know it."

Your girl's statement that she doesn't want a ONS anymore, says to me, "I'm easy! At least tonight I am!"

She woke up the next day sober, and then you didn't seem like such a great idea any more. It probably takes booze to make a guy seem like a good idea, which is why she has had so many one night stands.

Yes, you are on a level sir.

Her statements if I remember it correctly.

Her: My mother always allowed me to go out with guys and do whatever I want, I was always a free girl after a 6 year LTR with a boring classical guy. I got fed up with him and started to fvk around. (In other words ofc)
Her: Ive had many ONS, im done with that.
Her: I want a serious relationship.
Her: Im thinking about children now, that life is not for me anymore, Im already quitting that.

I did invite her and her sister to my buddies house, they declined. Buddy left, I stayed with the girls because she asked me too. I couldve invited her again or persitantly stayed to join her but I decided not too, can't turn back in time so I whats the best advice forward? Plus I had important stuff to do the next day.

 

[guru1000]

Her: Ive had many ONS, im done with that.
Her: I want a serious relationship.

LOL

 

[Bible_Belt]

Best to forget at this point. You'll probably run into her again if you keep frequenting the same establishments.

If it helps to make you more patient, I had the other thought that she probably had herself made up to look nice, it was dark and you both had been drinking. You only saw her under her best presentation. Under those circumstances, you rated her a 7. I get the feeling that when you wake up next to her in the morning, she'll seem like a 6 at best, maybe worse.

 

[MrJack]

@TheGambino

I mean you only rated the chance you gave her the right number 85%, usually when people say anything less than "I'm 99% sure of xxx" they are really like 50% sure.

I'm curious how you could forget your own phone number? Haha.

Either way I agree with what most everyone else said. Keep doing your normal thing and frequent the same places you always do and you're bound to run into her again if she frequents those places as well.

If you DID give the right number then yea nothing more you can really do except wait for her call/text and keep frequenting those places.

 

[TheGambino]

Huge update

My buddy and I went drinking downtown, and he ran in the HB7 rock chick and called me (I was meeting a dude real quick).

Grabbed her number weeks ago from her sister and tried to arrange a date. She rejected me. I took it with a smile on whatsapp and left it at that.

Now a week later:

My buddy and I were in town and he ran in her and called me (I was somewhere else real quick).

So I joined them.

Went in the pub and she directly approached me with a hug.

We talked a bit, had a beer or two and danced.

Went to a after party in a local pub (rich pub owner was with us). He knows my entrepeneur sister and wants to do business with her, I grabbed his phone number.

Anyway, I danced had fun with all the women there. Same group as last time. HB7 girl, her two sisters (one of the girls bf) and their mom.

We went to a after party and had big fun.

I was DRUNK, she was too. We made out a lot, tried to isolate her to f8ck her in the toilet or something but she kept stopping that. She wanted to grind cexually and make out though.

After that they all went to their moms house and I tried to join, jumping on the back of her cycle. Her sister did good words for me and did not c0ckbl0ck but she said you should go home were going to my moms..

Tried to get her to join me but she declined, she said well go out for dinner first, I don't have cex so quick.

In the pub she said things again like: I want a serious bf, I want to have children I said we would have beautiful children and she said yes I think we would.

She said, I find you attractive, your a good kisser. dududu but idk what it is..

Ill ask her out later today on text and see what happens..

tbc

She is one hell of a kisser, I bet she is crazy af in the bed.

 

[CMNILS87]

LOL

LOL. I can't begin to tell you how many girls I echeard the exact same line from. A girl that continually has ONS is only ONS material. A smart wouldn't **** around like that that had values or would keep her mouth shut and not let you know.


You had so many chances to hook up with her. All the flags were there and screaming at you, but you were like, "omg she's perfect, she's now dating material"....

 

[CMNILS87]

Huge update

My buddy and I went drinking downtown, and he ran in the HB7 rock chick and called me (I was meeting a dude real quick).

Grabbed her number weeks ago from her sister and tried to arrange a date. She rejected me. I took it with a smile on whatsapp and left it at that.

Now a week later:

My buddy and I were in town and he ran in her and called me (I was somewhere else real quick).

So I joined them.

Went in the pub and she directly approached me with a hug.

We talked a bit, had a beer or two and danced.

Went to a after party in a local pub (rich pub owner was with us). He knows my entrepeneur sister and wants to do business with her, I grabbed his phone number.

Anyway, I danced had fun with all the women there. Same group as last time. HB7 girl, her two sisters (one of the girls bf) and their mom.

We went to a after party and had big fun.

I was DRUNK, she was too. We made out a lot, tried to isolate her to f8ck her in the toilet or something but she kept stopping that. She wanted to grind cexually and make out though.

After that they all went to their moms house and I tried to join, jumping on the back of her cycle. Her sister did good words for me and did not c0ckbl0ck but she said you should go home were going to my moms..

Tried to get her to join me but she declined, she said well go out for dinner first, I don't have cex so quick.

In the pub she said things again like: I want a serious bf, I want to have children I said we would have beautiful children and she said yes I think we would.

She said, I find you attractive, your a good kisser. dududu but idk what it is..

Ill ask her out later today on text and see what happens..

tbc

She is one hell of a kisser, I bet she is crazy af in the bed.

Dude she's stringing you along. Step back and look at it like a 3rd party. She's a creature of the moment. She feels good around you and buzzed up and plays hard to get. She's only playing hard cause she's a sloot. She's totally absent during the rest of the time. She says she wants babies and a BF, but she's a ONS girl dude. This all stinks to high heaven, get out while you can and don't invest anything emotionally in this crazy

 

[TheGambino]

Dude she's stringing you along. Step back and look at it like a 3rd party. She's a creature of the moment. She feels good around you and buzzed up and plays hard to get. She's only playing hard cause she's a sloot. She's totally absent during the rest of the time. She says she wants babies and a BF, but she's a ONS girl dude. This all stinks to high heaven, get out while you can and don't invest anything emotionally in this crazy

True, she mentioned that she had lots of ONS in the past the first time we met. You got it right. Idgaf, I dont want babies lmao, I just want her as a fvckbuddy

 

[TheGambino]

Dude she's stringing you along. Step back and look at it like a 3rd party. She's a creature of the moment. She feels good around you and buzzed up and plays hard to get. She's only playing hard cause she's a sloot. She's totally absent during the rest of the time. She says she wants babies and a BF, but she's a ONS girl dude. This all stinks to high heaven, get out while you can and don't invest anything emotionally in this crazy

That I want a bf and crap lines are words to string a man along bro, I know that. She tries to make me her orbiter.

 

[TheGambino]

Update:

Me: Hey lets grab some food later?
Her: Sorry I have plans

Might be BPD, might have 100 options, might be in love with an alpha male that f8cks her occassionally, i dont know what it is but it's a next.

That's that. Deleted her number, never looking back, next, case closed.

 

[CMNILS87]

Update:

Me: Hey lets grab some food later?
Her: Sorry I have plans

Might be BPD, might have 100 options, might be in love with an alpha male that f8cks her occassionally, i dont know what it is but it's a next.

That's that. Deleted her number, never looking back, next, case closed.

Cmon now let's be real @TheGambino, If you only wanted a fuvk buddy, I doubt you would have wrote that novel that started this thread.... you were hoping this hot chick was different and she proved you wrong.

 

[TheGambino]

Cmon now let's be real @TheGambino, If you only wanted a fuvk buddy, I doubt you would have wrote that novel that started this thread.... you were hoping this hot chick was different and she proved you wrong.

Maybe yes.. I make a lot of threads, I encounter stuff with more girls that arent worth a post, but indeed she is fun, outgoing, beautiful and enjoying life for real. It's a shame I cant get her to date and cex but hey im used to girls shutting down so it doesn't phrase me too much.

I am no man anymore for a ltr. I'll have a main chick and side chicks, flings always, thats going to be my life.

 

[Glassguy]

Update:

Me: Hey lets grab some food later?
Her: Sorry I have plans

Might be BPD, might have 100 options, might be in love with an alpha male that f8cks her occassionally, i dont know what it is but it's a next.

That's that. Deleted her number, never looking back, next, case closed.

You gave her your number a long time ago. She never called. You ran into her again, heavy drinking and no sechs.

Then you ask her out and you got rejected.

Its easy to see that this chick likes to get hammered and make out (probably does it EVERY time she goes out) but wont give it up to you.

I would have played it differently. When I met up with my buddy at the place she was at, I would have socially said "hi" and then ignored her. She would either start investing or hit the bricks.

In a nutshell, which is maybe hard to see through your infatuation of wanting to fvck her, you were chasing and she knew it. As soon as she knew she could have you she had zero interest.

JMO

 

[Glassguy]

I will add this-

Anymore if I start talking to a chick, I rarely ask them out. I really dont need to because at the moment the schedule is tied up with other women and other things......I will chat, disappear. If they engage I will chat, then cut it short and disappear.

Believe it or not, most women will drop heavy hints to go out if they think you are not moving in that direction but they have high interest. Dont get me wrong, I am still flirty and playful with them.

Every one of them that pushes for the date (drinks) smash. Maybe not the first night. If it doesnt happen, I will repeat exactly what I did before. But every woman that pushes for a date with me smashes. Every. Single. One.

Why? Because in a weird way I made them invest much more than I did. I dont come across as thirsty and I damn sure dont have the time to chase a chick around with my tongue dragging the ground.

Last winter I was talking with a super hot chick. Very smart (Master's degree) and young. I made a move and she rejected me. That was that. Over a few months she would drop the occasional fb message on me and I would reply back but kept it simple.

Over the summer I was out on my boat and posted a few snaps of a boat party I was at. It was fun and the snaps did it justice.

Out of nowhere, she messages me "Looks like so much fun. When are you taking me out of the boat?" My response spun her head.

"We are doing another boat party next Saturday. If there is room you can jump in, as long as its just as friends".

Following weekend she went with us. Had a great time. Outside of the occasional playful touching, she was blowing up inside as she watched me have complete and utter control of myself (even drinking) around her.

Around dark I headed back in with my boat. I still didnt break frame. She said "is the party over...are we done drinking for the day? I have some good stuff back at my place." I said "Thats cool, but no hanky panky because I think you're cool to hang out with and dont want to make it weird".

She fvcked my brains out that night. She couldnt wait to get my c0ck in her mouth and every other hole in her body. She was on me like white on rice within 20 minutes of getting to her place. I continued fvcking her most of this summer.

Point of the story- Women will want you more when you are playful but they think they cant have you. You'll will never get anywhere chasing a woman. If you make them chase (and if they have high interest they WILL do just that) and give them some playful convo here and there, they will make it known that they want you.

 

[TheGambino]

I will add this-

Anymore if I start talking to a chick, I rarely ask them out. I really dont need to because at the moment the schedule is tied up with other women and other things......I will chat, disappear. If they engage I will chat, then cut it short and disappear.

Believe it or not, most women will drop heavy hints to go out if they think you are not moving in that direction but they have high interest. Dont get me wrong, I am still flirty and playful with them.

Every one of them that pushes for the date (drinks) smash. Maybe not the first night. If it doesnt happen, I will repeat exactly what I did before. But every woman that pushes for a date with me smashes. Every. Single. One.

Why? Because in a weird way I made them invest much more than I did. I dont come across as thirsty and I damn sure dont have the time to chase a chick around with my tongue dragging the ground.

Last winter I was talking with a super hot chick. Very smart (Master's degree) and young. I made a move and she rejected me. That was that. Over a few months she would drop the occasional fb message on me and I would reply back but kept it simple.

Over the summer I was out on my boat and posted a few snaps of a boat party I was at. It was fun and the snaps did it justice.

Out of nowhere, she messages me "Looks like so much fun. When are you taking me out of the boat?" My response spun her head.

"We are doing another boat party next Saturday. If there is room you can jump in, as long as its just as friends".

Following weekend she went with us. Had a great time. Outside of the occasional playful touching, she was blowing up inside as she watched me have complete and utter control of myself (even drinking) around her.

Around dark I headed back in with my boat. I still didnt break frame. She said "is the party over...are we done drinking for the day? I have some good stuff back at my place." I said "Thats cool, but no hanky panky because I think you're cool to hang out with and dont want to make it weird".

She fvcked my brains out that night. She couldnt wait to get my c0ck in her mouth and every other hole in her body. She was on me like white on rice within 20 minutes of getting to her place. I continued fvcking her most of this summer.

Point of the story- Women will want you more when you are playful but they think they cant have you. You'll will never get anywhere chasing a woman. If you make them chase (and if they have high interest they WILL do just that) and give them some playful convo here and there, they will make it known that they want you.

Okay okay, that’s game on a whole other level. I did the same thing with a feminist HB9 a while ago and indeed, it worked out, she started to chase and notice me again after a rejection that I took with a smile.

I understand the principles but I don't like playing that long as game always, im horney at that point, ill just go for the straight kill after a bit of warming up. If shes down to fauck lets go otherwise im moving on.

I'd rather be agressive and persistant then playing stupid games, like Judge Nismo always says: Would she play games with Brad Pitt ? Nah, I'm not Brad Pitt, I'm The Gambino and she should consider herself lucky that I can please her like a p0rnstar, fcking ho.

Yet again, I respect your approaches, thoughts and views always Classguy, I think you are one of the guys here that got his game tight af.

Though, I know the game like my pockets too now but I go for what I want always and in a DIRECT BOLD way, always. That makes former interested chicks back off sometimes, but yeah that's me. I got everything right expect the neediness sometimes and i'm man enough to admit that.

I used to hang out with two badboy mofos that f8ck the highest class b1tches in the region (models, instagram 1000000 follower girls, bad b1tches, make up youtube girls and go on) top notch girls.

I got a interesting thread about what happened with them a while ago, I cut contact but anyway we used to go to parties and they told me: ''Gambino you have tight game, you are the most confident guy I ever known but you are way too thirsty, girls don't like that, period''

They never ask girls out... They play your game, exactley your game, long a$$ no neediness games. They just fling a girl, never talk to her again then meet up randomly at a party and f8ck them when they starting to chase. I don't have the patience for that.

Sometimes my way pays out, sometimes not.