What to do here? Risk it or nah?

Glassguy

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It's a marathon, not a sprint. I'm all for letting things play out to smash down the road than blow it by jumping the gun.

If I ask a chick out and don't get a yes, I let it fizzle. They will either be back or not. Either way, it's ok. But I assure you the second you become too available, they are gone. Then it takes much more work to get their minds coming back around.

Let intentions be known and go from there. If you don't get a yes, walk. But don't push and burn a bridge. I would much rather have a woman wondering what's special about me that I won't chase (abundance) rather than her thinking she can text me at anytime and I will come running.
 

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It's a marathon, not a sprint. I'm all for letting things play out to smash down the road than blow it by jumping the gun.

If I ask a chick out and don't get a yes, I let it fizzle. They will either be back or not. Either way, it's ok. But I assure you the second you become too available, they are gone. Then it takes much more work to get their minds coming back around.

Let intentions be known and go from there. If you don't get a yes, walk. But don't push and burn a bridge. I would much rather have a woman wondering what's special about me that I won't chase (abundance) rather than her thinking she can text me at anytime and I will come running.
Ill go for This approach more, ill report What happens
 
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