What to do with women like this?

[Billtx49]

No it was her place. Used to be my place but I moved out and broke up with her and we got back together.

Wake up. It's her place now and there was another man there at 1am with her. You two are not 'back together'. You sir are on the way out and don't know it yet.

 

[sosousage]

lmao OP are you trolling

 

[RedScorpion]

This chick is going to kill me I feel....and I'm hoping I can find the strength to break away because I know she's not healthy.

This is the quote you need to tell yourself to remember. This thought process does not happen in healthy relationships (and it's good you already seem to recognize that). Your body is going "This is ****ed up".

Personally, I don't think the trade of getting laid is worth in exchange for total disrespect, violence, anger towards you, and most important - a constant mind****. Your mental health is not worth putting up with any chick. Plan your ejection, but do it methodically.

 

[marmel75]

This broad acts this way because it's probably a similar environment to which she grew up in. Time to re-evaluate your screening process and where you failed. From what you posted this sounds like it should be pretty easy.

No. She acts this way because he allows her to, because he is weak, lacks respect for himself and because of this she lacks respect for him. Any dude who respected himself would have left this chick long, long agao and wouldn't be posting stuff like this.

Get a grip dude. You are the beta pansy that your girl goes out and cheats on with other dudes and they lay there after fvcking and laugh about what a pansy you are. Get a fvcking clue.

 

[sosousage]

No. She acts this way because he allows her to, because he is weak, lacks respect for himself and because of this she lacks respect for him. Any dude who respected himself would have left this chick long, long agao and wouldn't be posting stuff like this.

Get a grip dude. You are the beta pansy that your girl goes out and cheats on with other dudes and they lay there after fvcking and laugh about what a pansy you are. Get a fvcking clue.

yeah this is extreme. i wonder where he got this girl from. LMAO the stuff she does is out of the question. why he was there in the night? alone? usually (in 90%) its about ****ing. but op defends her and says they didnt XDD

 

[marmel75]

yeah this is extreme. i wonder where he got this girl from. LMAO the stuff she does is out of the question. why he was there in the night? alone? usually (in 90%) its about ****ing. but op defends her and says they didnt XDD

OP would see them both naked in the bed but believe there was no penetration and that it happened because they were both drunk and they both thought it was their room, then try and defend it...unbelievable

 

[captain55]

Idk man still very very suspect. In my experience if I'm in a LTR with a girl and we break up for ANY reason, it usually means it's over for good even if you get back together.

Whatever problems caused the first breakup will eventually happen again and it's just a vicious cycle. Not worth the attack on your peace of mind.

If she's really that hot I'd try to keep her as a plate and just f*ck her on the side while you're looking for something new.

That's what I am doing. Her best friend actually tried to get at me the other night. Lol

 

[MrJack]

That's what I am doing. Her best friend actually tried to get at me the other night. Lol

That'd be some sweet revenge. Unless she's ugly lmao

 

[dude99]

It frustrates me to the core because I truly don't feel like she sees what she does wrong. I feel like I'm dating a child.

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This right here is your gut telling you to ditch the b!tch.

Always listen to your gut.

 

[captain55]

She doesn't respect you because she knows you are a weak male. She is with you for now until she finds something better and then will drop you like a bad habit incredibly coldly.

No idea why you allow this behaviour to go on. The issue is it has been going on for a long time, she knows who you really are so putting on an "act" won't work.

You need to dump this chick and learn how to respect yourself.

I've tried everything. Cut her off from dates and vacations completely, make her split every date 50/50 with me, come over **** her and then leave just to prove a point, told her I would make her a side chick if she doesn't change her ways. I would never treat a good woman with that kind of disrespect.i did it to prove a point....not because I like being an ******* to her

Your basically saying the only way she will respect me is if I leave her for good. Right now I'm just banging her...but I would be lying if I said I didn't wish she was a better person.

 

[marmel75]

I've tried everything. Cut her off from dates and vacations completely, make her split every date 50/50 with me, come over **** her and then leave just to prove a point, told her I would make her a side chick if she doesn't change her ways. I would never treat a good woman with that kind of disrespect.i did it to prove a point....not because I like being an ******* to her

Your basically saying the only way she will respect me is if I leave her for good. Right now I'm just banging her...but I would be lying if I said I didn't wish she was a better person.

You can't change who a person is. It's not your job. You should drop this chick like a bad habit, you are allowing yourself to basically be a slave to pvssy and willing to tolerate being treated like a piece of trash. F that. Self respect always comes before pvssy.

 

[Dash Riprock]

I wish you guys could experience 1/4 the pain and frustration I have with this woman. I'm thinking some slight bpd. Unlike most bpd's she actually has a sick side to her where she likes hurting people.

The only thing she hasn't done to me (yet) is cheated on me. Not because she's so great ...I just feel like I'm her best option and always handled my composure well in the relationship.

A tell-tale sign of a BPD is lack of empathy. I dated a BPD recently who said she wanted to fly back to Chicago to watch her mom suffer as she has cancer. Blamed her for everything. Sick.