Why MEN still dominate this game and have the ADVANTAGE

[Dash Riprock]

I was in the process of replying to another post but i think this topic warrants its own area. Too many guys come here whining about how the women have "all the advantages now." BS. Read on...

If you THINK it's gotten harder and the deck is stacked against you, then IT IS... for YOU.

Keep in mind we mainly hear stores on SS about all the crazy, manipulative, BPD, NPD, women. Very few chime in with "I'm seeing a HB9 who's super cool and has a great attitude." Most who are in that situation don't come to this board or they leave once their problem is solved, or they get bored at some point. So, we're mainly left with whiners, pseudo SS "experts" and the like. There is a lot of good advice on here too. You just need to learn who the good posters are and who the morons and whiners are. Pretty clear in my mind.

Here is why MEN still dominate:

- It's a MAN's WORLD pure and simple. You can have literally whatever you want if you're willing to WORK for it. Men are taken more seriously than women in the professional world and still make more money and have the better jobs and own most successful business. It's yours for the taking.

- DOMINANT MEN STILL RULE. Women are simply pre-programmed to be attracted to strong, confident men. PERIOD. Just like we drool at the sight of a hot chick in a bikini. It's no different. Some women are very insecure and some are crazy and have other mental issues so they go the beta male orbiter route and play musical chairs with weak men. BUT when she meets an alpha or the rare DJ, she will immediately be attracted. So, to put it in NFL, terms if you're a DJ and you meet a hot chick, chances are she WILL be interested if you have any game at all. It's like getting a turnover at the 50-yard line. It's now your ball and you're calling the plays. Will you throw a pick, fumble, get sacked, or SCORE? The choice is 100% YOURS alone.

-Men have all the control because they do the ASKING. Sure, women will give signs, but it's up to the man to start the interaction. Think about it from a woman’s perspective: they have to sit and wait and hope and give off all sorts of signs in the HOPES that the guy will notice and ask them out. My guess is only 10% of all men even know what the f*ck the signs are. I'd still MUCH rather be in control of my own destiny and ask out who I want when I want rather than WAIT for some chick to ask me out.

-There are more resources, tools, and learning opportunities NOW than ever before. There is SO MUCH FREE information available to better and improve yourself (Tony Robbins, Brian Tracy) and from a dating perspective (Corey Wayne, Dave DeAngelo) that if you're not continually sharpening your game the same way Steph Curry and Mike Trout practice every day, consider yourself a lazy, beta male loser. You will be saying "yes sir or ma'am" your entire life. I live life for me on my own terms. I choose who I want with and around me. If they don't feel the same, fine, next batter up. No one wins them all. Plus, some women are un-dateable. I own my own business and answer to no one. I'm solely in control of my $, health, life, success and destiny. Are you? And I wasn't "born" with this knowledge. I WORKED hard to learn and earn. No short cuts. Sorry slackers. Success is a CHOICE. FAILURE is a choice too. But the choice is 100% YOURS.

-YOU and only YOU control your own destiny. Don't blame your BPD ex, your roommates, your ex-friends, or your parents. YOU are in sole charge of your success or failure. GO back to point #1. Now, what will you do with the tools and advantages you have as a MAN? Cry, whine, and ***** that someone wronged you? Welcome to L-I-F-E. Or, will you stand up for yourself (vs disrespectful females or anyone else) and grow a pair and TAKE what you want? Only YOU can decide and make it happen, or not. MEN have the testosterone and programming to make this happen. Women can do it, but have to work much much harder.

Now, who again has the ADVANTAGE?

Best,

Dash

 

[RichardTheFrog]

And are you going to back this up by showing pictures of any hot girls you've had sex with for free?

 

[resilient]

Great post, Dash.

Inspiring stuff!

I'm a firm believer in getting better, not bitter.

Life improves in great strides when we take on our own responsibility in growing our self-awareness.

Recognizing strengths and weaknesses that need our focus and attention, along with the commitment to resolve differences by being proactive.

 

[Dash Riprock]

And are you going to back this up by showing pictures of any hot girls you've had sex with for free?

Why the f*uck would I do that? I don't need to validate myself to you or anyone else. Go your own way.

 

[logicallefty]

- It's a MAN's WORLD pure and simple. You can have literally whatever you want if you're willing to WORK for it. Men are taken more seriously than women in the professional world and still make more money and have the better jobs and own most successful business. It's yours for the taking.


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By default this is true. But what happens is many or even most men commit collective sabotage to all of the good things that men have by default or work hard and have the skills to earn... How? By being too weak when it comes to p\/ssy and giving up too much in order to get it. This is the single #1 weakness of men as a whole. We have no self control when it comes to p\/ssy from hot women and women know this. So they use our weakness against us and take control and power away from us.

What would happen to women if no man ever had the desire to get laid again? If v@g currency's value became ZERO and thus the only women desirable to men were the ones who could legitimately earn their keep be it in jobs, at home, etc. Take a few minutes and give that some logical thought.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Why the f*uck would I do that? I don't need to validate myself to you or anyone else. Go your own way.

That's like writing a book called "Being a Millionaire is Easy" then not having any money.

 

[Dash Riprock]

That's like writing a book called "Being a Millionaire is Easy" then not having any money.

Once again, I'm not validating myself to you or anyone else. I don't need to. Take my advice or not. I couldn't give 2 s*its. Plus, any douche can pick something off the net and say "I dated this chick." WTF? F*cking lame.

By the way, your SS name "RichardTheFrog" says it all about how you see yourself...A FROG. How would you view me and my posts as "DashTheLoser?" Same thing. Is that really an attractive quality? Not tying to be a d*ck, but how you see yourself is exactly how others will see you. I would change it if I were you. It has affected you even at a subconscious level. I can tell by the spirit your posts are written in/as--very defeatest.

I've seen and known plenty of ugly guys with hot chicks, and they're not paying them for sex either.

 

[skinnyguy]

Yes and no. You talk about alphas in your post. Well that's only 10% of men. So yes, men have the advantage, if they are alpha and attractive. Which is a very small population.

 

[Dash Riprock]

Yes and no. You talk about alphas in your post. Well that's only 10% of men. So yes, men have the advantage, if they are alpha and attractive. Which is a very small population.

Alpha is a mindset not a birthright. ANY MAN can be an alpha if he puts in the work.

 

[bigneil]

Alpha is a mindset not a birthright. ANY MAN can be an alpha if he puts in the work.

Yes, sometimes 20-25 years work.

 

[Trump]

Keep in mind we mainly hear stores on SS about all the crazy, manipulative, BPD, NPD, women. Very few chime in with "I'm seeing a HB9 who's super cool and has a great attitude." Most who are in that situation don't come to this board or they leave once their problem is solved, or they get bored at some point. So, we're mainly left with whiners, pseudo SS "experts" and the like. There is a lot of good advice on here too. You just need to learn who the good posters are and who the morons and whiners are. Pretty clear in my mind.

1) Most men who are having sex with HB9 who's super cool are NOT on this board

2) we're mainly left with whiners, pseudo SS "experts" and the like.

Wondering bro, which one are you?

Here is why MEN still dominate:

- It's a MAN's WORLD pure and simple. You can have literally whatever you want if you're willing to WORK for it. Men are taken more seriously than women in the professional world and still make more money and have the better jobs and own most successful business. It's yours for the taking.

Not necessarily. Women are better realtors, lawyers, and negotiators. Pretty women is what makes Hollywood and other movies sell. Pretty women is what the economy runs on.

- DOMINANT MEN STILL RULE. Women are simply pre-programmed to be attracted to strong, confident men. PERIOD. Just like we drool at the sight of a hot chick in a bikini. It's no different. Some women are very insecure and some are crazy and have other mental issues so they go the beta male orbiter route and play musical chairs with weak men. BUT when she meets an alpha or the rare DJ, she will immediately be attracted. So, to put it in NFL, terms if you're a DJ and you meet a hot chick, chances are she WILL be interested if you have any game at all. It's like getting a turnover at the 50-yard line. It's now your ball and you're calling the plays. Will you throw a pick, fumble, get sacked, or SCORE? The choice is 100% YOURS alone.

Not sure what the point is here but OK.

-Men have all the control because they do the ASKING. Sure, women will give signs, but it's up to the man to start the interaction. Think about it from a woman’s perspective: they have to sit and wait and hope and give off all sorts of signs in the HOPES that the guy will notice and ask them out. My guess is only 10% of all men even know what the f*ck the signs are. I'd still MUCH rather be in control of my own destiny and ask out who I want when I want rather than WAIT for some chick to ask me out.

Disagree.

One of the Laws in the '48 Laws of Power' is 'make other people come to you.'

Think about it: if you make other people COME to you, you are in control of the situation. If you have to go to them, THEY are in control of the situation.

-There are more resources, tools, and learning opportunities NOW than ever before. There is SO MUCH FREE information available to better and improve yourself (Tony Robbins, Brian Tracy) and from a dating perspective (Corey Wayne, Dave DeAngelo) that if you're not continually sharpening your game the same way Steph Curry and Mike Trout practice every day, consider yourself a lazy, beta male loser. You will be saying "yes sir or ma'am" your entire life. I live life for me on my own terms. I choose who I want with and around me. If they don't feel the same, fine, next batter up. No one wins them all. Plus, some women are un-dateable. I own my own business and answer to no one. I'm solely in control of my $, health, life, success and destiny. Are you? And I wasn't "born" with this knowledge. I WORKED hard to learn and earn. No short cuts. Sorry slackers. Success is a CHOICE. FAILURE is a choice too. But the choice is 100% YOURS.

Improving yourself and Success have NOTHING to do with women. NOTHING. Success and women is not a cause and effect issue.

-YOU and only YOU control your own destiny. Don't blame your BPD ex, your roommates, your ex-friends, or your parents. YOU are in sole charge of your success or failure. GO back to point #1. Now, what will you do with the tools and advantages you have as a MAN? Cry, whine, and ***** that someone wronged you? Welcome to L-I-F-E. Or, will you stand up for yourself (vs disrespectful females or anyone else) and grow a pair and TAKE what you want? Only YOU can decide and make it happen, or not. MEN have the testosterone and programming to make this happen. Women can do it, but have to work much much harder.

OK. But again, destiny has NOTHING to do with getting women.

 

[MrJack]

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Improving yourself and Success have NOTHING to do with women. NOTHING. Success and women is not a cause and effect issue.
.

I agree that it's not automatically cause and effect but come on man...

You can't say that improving yourself and becoming successful has NOTHING to do with getting women, that is complete nonsense.

 

[Dash Riprock]

1) Most men who are having sex with HB9 who's super cool are NOT on this board

2) we're mainly left with whiners, pseudo SS "experts" and the like.

Wondering bro, which one are you?



Not necessarily. Women are better realtors, lawyers, and negotiators. Pretty women is what makes Hollywood and other movies sell. Pretty women is what the economy runs on.



Not sure what the point is here but OK.



Disagree.

One of the Laws in the '48 Laws of Power' is 'make other people come to you.'

Think about it: if you make other people COME to you, you are in control of the situation. If you have to go to them, THEY are in control of the situation.



Improving yourself and Success have NOTHING to do with women. NOTHING. Success and women is not a cause and effect issue.



OK. But again, destiny has NOTHING to do with getting women.

I disagree with almost every perspective you have but this takes the cake: Improving yourself and Success have NOTHING to do with women.

Are you F'ing kidding me?! It has EVERYTHING to do with getting women! Losers that sit around and ***** and whine and DO NOTHING ABOUT IT are the real losers. Men who are continually in growth and development mode are just that, MEN, the rest are boys.

I literally burst out laughing at this: Not necessarily. Women are better realtors, lawyers, and negotiators. Pretty women is what makes Hollywood and other movies sell. Pretty women is what the economy runs on.

Dude, GET REAL. MEN own the Fortune 500, Washington, and almost every other leadership position of merit that matters--in the US and world. It's not by accident. I'm not talking about make-believe Hollywood BS. <still laughing>

if you make other people COME to you, you are in control of the situation. I think the big difference between you and me is I'm proactive, assertive, and a doer. I get s*it done. I go after what I want. NOT sit around and HOPE it comes to me.

 

[Trump]

Are you F'ing kidding me?! It has EVERYTHING to do with getting women! Losers that sit around and ***** and whine and DO NOTHING ABOUT IT are the real losers. Men who are continually in growth and development mode are just that, MEN, the rest are boys.

Yes I agree losers whine and do nothing. I agree men who improve are men. Those two issues have nothing to do with getting women.

How are they related? I get a better job, where is my woman? I get a six pack, where is my woman? I get better clothes, where is my woman?

It's not a cause and effect issue and you are not logically making the point. You are just saying "they are related, that's it."

I literally burst out laughing at this: Not necessarily. Women are better realtors, lawyers, and negotiators. Pretty women is what makes Hollywood and other movies sell. Pretty women is what the economy runs on.

Dude, GET REAL. MEN own the Fortune 500, Washington, and almost every other leadership position of merit that matters--in the US and world. It's not by accident. I'm not talking about make-believe Hollywood BS. <still laughing>

Germanys leader is a woman.
US's leader was almost a woman.

If I'm selling my house, its a woman. If I need a lawyer, it's a woman. The shrewdest business people I know are women. But hey, let's all admire Warren Buffet whose words don't match his actions.

if you make other people COME to you, you are in control of the situation. I think the big difference between you and me is I'm proactive, assertive, and a doer. I get s*it done. I go after what I want. NOT sit around and HOPE it comes to me.

OK. I don't know what that has to do with anything.

 

[Trump]

I agree that it's not automatically cause and effect but come on man...

You can't say that improving yourself and becoming successful has NOTHING to do with getting women, that is complete nonsense.

In my 20s I had very little money or assets, wasn't really in shape and had very little power. I had hot girls left and right wanting to sleep with me, be with me, marry me, come over to my place spend time with me.

Now in my later 30s, I have more assets I know what to do with, Im in shape, I have a lot of power and am in charge of a lot of people. It's very very difficult to get treated the same way, let alone meet.

Girls won't suddenly realize how awesome you are if you work on yourself. It's a good idea to work on yourself, but no girl is going to knock on your door, "hey you got a six pack, I want to sleep with you now."

They care about use more than anything.

 

[BeExcellent]

I'm happy to see this thread. I'm all for success and promotion of success habits & success thinking. In all facets of life.

But I can also understand what @Trump is seeing.

Here is why that is. Women give young men a pass in the 20s, especially the early 20s during higher education years because they evaluate men based on looks, personality and future POTENTIAL. A medical school student carries more weight than a fast food clerk for the obviously higher potential. Consider the discipline, devotion & rigor the medical student had to display to get where he is. This is why habits, ambition and self discipline are important foundational traits in a young man. Why good grades are better than bad grades...and so on.

As men get older 2 things happen simultaneously. One is that worthwhile women drop from the SMV because men choose them to marry, so the best girls are getting taken out of circulation, and two is that the remaining women (who are of lower quality as an average) are evaluating the remaining men on looks, personality and RESULTS (money/wealth/status/influence etc.) and for each year a man is older the more concrete his results need to be for the best available women to consider him worthy.

Markets are also local. Know why you see more hot chicks with average guys in SoCal? There are more hot girls there. Know why you see really hot guys with more average looking women in parts of the Midwest? Because there aren't enough really hot girls there for all the cute guys. In both cases men are choosing from the available pool of women.

But a man can always choose to be an outlier. I know a man who worked in the kitchen in a restaurant in college days. Never got his degree. He was dating a cousin of mine decades ago. He proposed to my cousin while he was working in that kitchen. My aunt & uncle ridiculed my cousin for taking him serious...they had financial means and a kitchen worker was beneath their daughter. My cousin listened to her parents and broke it off with him...I mean after all what has he got to offer?

Well he started his own restaurant. It grew and grew. He ran it brilliantly since he had worked every position in the business from the ground up. There are now over 100 of these restaurants in the US and on most any given day there is a wait to get seated at one. He sold out some years ago for millions & millions of dollars. He married a gorgeous woman 25+ years younger...and God bless him he always cared for my cousin. He calls her every year on her birthday & he is kind to her even though she dumped him all those years ago under pressure from her parents.

He was an outlier with a big dream nobody could see. Raw ambition & belief. My cousin, aunt & uncle couldn't see his potential.

There are no excuses for failure at life. There is no reason guys here can't do it. Just go & do.

Successful people develop successful mindsets on the journey. It is that successful mindset that overflows to positively effect every aspect of a successful person's life. That is how @Dash Riprock is saying success and success with women are related. I see the exact same thing with men. Great men are everywhere I go! Coincidence that I attract them? I don't think so.

 

[MrJack]

In my 20s I had very little money or assets, wasn't really in shape and had very little power. I had hot girls left and right wanting to sleep with me, be with me, marry me, come over to my place spend time with me.

Now in my later 30s, I have more assets I know what to do with, Im in shape, I have a lot of power and am in charge of a lot of people. It's very very difficult to get treated the same way, let alone meet.

Girls won't suddenly realize how awesome you are if you work on yourself. It's a good idea to work on yourself, but no girl is going to knock on your door, "hey you got a six pack, I want to sleep with you now."

They care about use more than anything.

If you work on yourself physically, emotionally, financially, etc that boosts your SMV which in turn attracts more women than if you were to play video games and eat potato chips all day. So again, you can't say it has NOTHING to do with getting women.

Idk man maybe you were humble in your 20's when you had nothing and now that you have a lot in your 30's you've become a big ole douchebag that nobody likes to be around and that's why youve experienced things the way you have.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

I was in the process of replying to another post but i think this topic warrants its own area. Too many guys come here whining about how the women have "all the advantages now." BS. Read on...

If you THINK it's gotten harder and the deck is stacked against you, then IT IS... for YOU.

Keep in mind we mainly hear stores on SS about all the crazy, manipulative, BPD, NPD, women. Very few chime in with "I'm seeing a HB9 who's super cool and has a great attitude." Most who are in that situation don't come to this board or they leave once their problem is solved, or they get bored at some point. So, we're mainly left with whiners, pseudo SS "experts" and the like. There is a lot of good advice on here too. You just need to learn who the good posters are and who the morons and whiners are. Pretty clear in my mind.

Here is why MEN still dominate:

- It's a MAN's WORLD pure and simple. You can have literally whatever you want if you're willing to WORK for it. Men are taken more seriously than women in the professional world and still make more money and have the better jobs and own most successful business. It's yours for the taking.

- DOMINANT MEN STILL RULE. Women are simply pre-programmed to be attracted to strong, confident men. PERIOD. Just like we drool at the sight of a hot chick in a bikini. It's no different. Some women are very insecure and some are crazy and have other mental issues so they go the beta male orbiter route and play musical chairs with weak men. BUT when she meets an alpha or the rare DJ, she will immediately be attracted. So, to put it in NFL, terms if you're a DJ and you meet a hot chick, chances are she WILL be interested if you have any game at all. It's like getting a turnover at the 50-yard line. It's now your ball and you're calling the plays. Will you throw a pick, fumble, get sacked, or SCORE? The choice is 100% YOURS alone.

-Men have all the control because they do the ASKING. Sure, women will give signs, but it's up to the man to start the interaction. Think about it from a woman’s perspective: they have to sit and wait and hope and give off all sorts of signs in the HOPES that the guy will notice and ask them out. My guess is only 10% of all men even know what the f*ck the signs are. I'd still MUCH rather be in control of my own destiny and ask out who I want when I want rather than WAIT for some chick to ask me out.

-There are more resources, tools, and learning opportunities NOW than ever before. There is SO MUCH FREE information available to better and improve yourself (Tony Robbins, Brian Tracy) and from a dating perspective (Corey Wayne, Dave DeAngelo) that if you're not continually sharpening your game the same way Steph Curry and Mike Trout practice every day, consider yourself a lazy, beta male loser. You will be saying "yes sir or ma'am" your entire life. I live life for me on my own terms. I choose who I want with and around me. If they don't feel the same, fine, next batter up. No one wins them all. Plus, some women are un-dateable. I own my own business and answer to no one. I'm solely in control of my $, health, life, success and destiny. Are you? And I wasn't "born" with this knowledge. I WORKED hard to learn and earn. No short cuts. Sorry slackers. Success is a CHOICE. FAILURE is a choice too. But the choice is 100% YOURS.

-YOU and only YOU control your own destiny. Don't blame your BPD ex, your roommates, your ex-friends, or your parents. YOU are in sole charge of your success or failure. GO back to point #1. Now, what will you do with the tools and advantages you have as a MAN? Cry, whine, and ***** that someone wronged you? Welcome to L-I-F-E. Or, will you stand up for yourself (vs disrespectful females or anyone else) and grow a pair and TAKE what you want? Only YOU can decide and make it happen, or not. MEN have the testosterone and programming to make this happen. Women can do it, but have to work much much harder.

Now, who again has the ADVANTAGE?

Best,

Dash

yeah, nature always trumps culture!

 

[TheGambino]

Hit the gym boys hit the gymmmmmm

 

[Red Legg]

By being too weak when it comes to p\/ssy and giving up too much in order to get it. This is the single #1 weakness of men as a whole. We have no self control when it comes to p\/ssy from hot women and women know this. So they use our weakness against us and take control and power away from us.

This is so true...control your sex drive and in turn it will control them.