I was in the process of replying to another post but i think this topic warrants its own area. Too many guys come here whining about how the women have "all the advantages now." BS. Read on...
If you THINK it's gotten harder and the deck is stacked against you, then IT IS... for YOU.
Keep in mind we mainly hear stores on SS about all the crazy, manipulative, BPD, NPD, women. Very few chime in with "I'm seeing a HB9 who's super cool and has a great attitude." Most who are in that situation don't come to this board or they leave once their problem is solved, or they get bored at some point. So, we're mainly left with whiners, pseudo SS "experts" and the like. There is a lot of good advice on here too. You just need to learn who the good posters are and who the morons and whiners are. Pretty clear in my mind.
Here is why MEN still dominate:
- It's a MAN's WORLD pure and simple. You can have literally whatever you want if you're willing to WORK for it. Men are taken more seriously than women in the professional world and still make more money and have the better jobs and own most successful business. It's yours for the taking.
- DOMINANT MEN STILL RULE. Women are simply pre-programmed to be attracted to strong, confident men. PERIOD. Just like we drool at the sight of a hot chick in a bikini. It's no different. Some women are very insecure and some are crazy and have other mental issues so they go the beta male orbiter route and play musical chairs with weak men. BUT when she meets an alpha or the rare DJ, she will immediately be attracted. So, to put it in NFL, terms if you're a DJ and you meet a hot chick, chances are she WILL be interested if you have any game at all. It's like getting a turnover at the 50-yard line. It's now your ball and you're calling the plays. Will you throw a pick, fumble, get sacked, or SCORE? The choice is 100% YOURS alone.
-Men have all the control because they do the ASKING. Sure, women will give signs, but it's up to the man to start the interaction. Think about it from a woman’s perspective: they have to sit and wait and hope and give off all sorts of signs in the HOPES that the guy will notice and ask them out. My guess is only 10% of all men even know what the f*ck the signs are. I'd still MUCH rather be in control of my own destiny and ask out who I want when I want rather than WAIT for some chick to ask me out.
-There are more resources, tools, and learning opportunities NOW than ever before. There is SO MUCH FREE information available to better and improve yourself (Tony Robbins, Brian Tracy) and from a dating perspective (Corey Wayne, Dave DeAngelo) that if you're not continually sharpening your game the same way Steph Curry and Mike Trout practice every day, consider yourself a lazy, beta male loser. You will be saying "yes sir or ma'am" your entire life. I live life for me on my own terms. I choose who I want with and around me. If they don't feel the same, fine, next batter up. No one wins them all. Plus, some women are un-dateable. I own my own business and answer to no one. I'm solely in control of my $, health, life, success and destiny. Are you? And I wasn't "born" with this knowledge. I WORKED hard to learn and earn. No short cuts. Sorry slackers. Success is a CHOICE. FAILURE is a choice too. But the choice is 100% YOURS.
-YOU and only YOU control your own destiny. Don't blame your BPD ex, your roommates, your ex-friends, or your parents. YOU are in sole charge of your success or failure. GO back to point #1. Now, what will you do with the tools and advantages you have as a MAN? Cry, whine, and ***** that someone wronged you? Welcome to L-I-F-E. Or, will you stand up for yourself (vs disrespectful females or anyone else) and grow a pair and TAKE what you want? Only YOU can decide and make it happen, or not. MEN have the testosterone and programming to make this happen. Women can do it, but have to work much much harder.
Now, who again has the ADVANTAGE?
Best,
Dash
Good thread...this is why I mostly emphasize frame building. Someone with a backbone, will ALWAYS have the advantage.
