That's interesting. I've had a girl calling me, and I know I could take it somewhere if I wished. But I know she is just not right [even though she is young and cute]... she tells me she's depressed... and some other weird stuff. I think a lot of guys get trapped into these destructive kinds of relationships simply because they are desperate for sex.
I can't comment about guys getting trapped because they are desperate for sex , validation etc as I was already seeing a girl when I met CB ex before breaking it off with the previous girl. I suppose you could say I monkey branched from a relatively healthy girl who wanted my love to a cluster b head fuk.
I think for me it was falling hook line and sinker for the illusion of something that wasn't real.
The previous girl got too close and triggered my fear of intimacy and commitment etc.
Cluster b girl knew which of my buttons to press and how hard to press them. That girl had me suicidal after a few months.
If it wasn't for her then I wouldn't have understood what my life meant or why my parents did what they did etc. .
She showed me my wounds so I could heal from them. Now I am a hell of alot healthier.. ego (under control) codependancy (all but dead) validation seeking (gone) putting puss puss on a pedestal (never again)..
I am 1000 times the Man I was before I met her and regret nothing.
If anyone wants to choose to date one of these Women then go ahead..
If anyone wants to tell me that only 2% or whatever of the pop has bpd then ok.. sure whatever. ..
I don't need to prove anything or tell other how to live their lives so do what it is you have to do.
For those that believe no evidence is necessary.. For those thst don't no evidence is enough.. live and let live.. but I tell you this..
NEVER AGAIN!
Peace.