We all know that if you aren't black or white in the US, you're kinda screwed when it comes to getting hot girls because as @Urbanyst would tell you, women are very picky about race and punish men from ethnic backgrounds that aren't white or black even if the guy is a cool guy. I blame part of it on American media which shows every race except for white (Hispanic and non-Hispanic) and black guys as sexually inferior.
A problem ethnic guys face is not only do hot white women in most parts of the US hate us but even ethnic women sell out hard and opt to go for any race except for their own. Asian American men face this issue all the time and even Hispanic men face this very problem.
But as an Asian Canadian guy who has stayed all over the US, these are some of the best spots in the country for an ethnic guy with his sh-t together. This is based on my own travel experiences, using Tinder Plus location spoof, and quite a bit of night game. Here are a few cities I can say are without question great for ethnic guys:
1. Miami, FL
For some reason, white and brown relations are good in Miami compared to the southwest states where they are terrible. A lot of this leads to Hispanic women in the city dating all races and white women in the area are some of the most open minded in the entire country. I've been approached by them as an Asian guy and I've met more than a handful of ethnic guys killing it there.
Arab, Asian, Indian, and Hispanic; all sorts of guys just slaying there. I have never seen so many ethnic guys in the city with hot girlfriends and pulling cute girls in general, any race can do well here but ethnic guys have no stigma attached to them.
The best part is, the women are some of the hottest in the entire country which means you get a lot of quality in the city. All my East Asian bros who are assimilated, get there now, the women are so open to Asian guys in the city it isn't even funny.
2. Seattle, WA
I have seen so many black, Asian, and to a degree even Indian guys with cute white girls in the city. Unfortunately the quality in the city sucks compared to Miami but there are some occasional gems to be found. While it is 10x more common to see Asian women with white men, it happens the other way around quite a bit often too.
Very underrated city but I was surprised at how open minded the women there were. You do find a decent amount of 7s although it is not too common to see a 9 or 10 there.
3. Minneapolis and a lot of the upper midwest in general.
Pretty sure my boy @Solomon can attest to this, I've had more success with white hbbs in this city than any other city in the country. Guess the Scandinavians are naturally less hostile than their Anglo or Southern European brothers which leads to a good bit of opportunity for cool guys of more exotic ethnic backgrounds to do well.
The upper midwest seems to be good for cool ethnic guys that love white girls but unlike Miami, it lacks the variety.
4. NYC under the right circumstances.
Meaning if you live in Manhattan, mainly game foreign girls, and occasionally go for girls fresh out of college who moved to the city from another part of the country and are disconnected from their college social circles. You must avoid any place outside of the city itself as Long Island and Jersey is where racism really takes place.
It is a fair city IMO, meaning that if you have the looks, money, and game then you can get hot girls no matter what your race is. The sheer amount of foreign women in the city makes it more or less irrelevant if American women are not interested in a brown or Asian guy.
Spots to avoid:
1. Arizona.
If you're anything other than white or black, avoid this state, no exceptions. I might still try to run game in Tempe this fall but I don't expect to succeed, arguably the most anti-ethnic state in the country.
2. California.
California girls hate all races except for white and black guys, generally see all foreigners as undesirable. Not only do white girls in the state hate Asians and brown races but Hispanic and Asian women there sell out hard by chasing white guys, avoid at all costs.
3. Majority of the south.
Florida and maybe Texas are good, rest of the region sucks for anyone who isn't white or in some states black. I've had an Asian and Indian friend that killed it in Charleston but I think they are more of an exception than the norm.
A problem ethnic guys face is not only do hot white women in most parts of the US hate us but even ethnic women sell out hard and opt to go for any race except for their own. Asian American men face this issue all the time and even Hispanic men face this very problem.
But as an Asian Canadian guy who has stayed all over the US, these are some of the best spots in the country for an ethnic guy with his sh-t together. This is based on my own travel experiences, using Tinder Plus location spoof, and quite a bit of night game. Here are a few cities I can say are without question great for ethnic guys:
1. Miami, FL
For some reason, white and brown relations are good in Miami compared to the southwest states where they are terrible. A lot of this leads to Hispanic women in the city dating all races and white women in the area are some of the most open minded in the entire country. I've been approached by them as an Asian guy and I've met more than a handful of ethnic guys killing it there.
Arab, Asian, Indian, and Hispanic; all sorts of guys just slaying there. I have never seen so many ethnic guys in the city with hot girlfriends and pulling cute girls in general, any race can do well here but ethnic guys have no stigma attached to them.
The best part is, the women are some of the hottest in the entire country which means you get a lot of quality in the city. All my East Asian bros who are assimilated, get there now, the women are so open to Asian guys in the city it isn't even funny.
2. Seattle, WA
I have seen so many black, Asian, and to a degree even Indian guys with cute white girls in the city. Unfortunately the quality in the city sucks compared to Miami but there are some occasional gems to be found. While it is 10x more common to see Asian women with white men, it happens the other way around quite a bit often too.
Very underrated city but I was surprised at how open minded the women there were. You do find a decent amount of 7s although it is not too common to see a 9 or 10 there.
3. Minneapolis and a lot of the upper midwest in general.
Pretty sure my boy @Solomon can attest to this, I've had more success with white hbbs in this city than any other city in the country. Guess the Scandinavians are naturally less hostile than their Anglo or Southern European brothers which leads to a good bit of opportunity for cool guys of more exotic ethnic backgrounds to do well.
The upper midwest seems to be good for cool ethnic guys that love white girls but unlike Miami, it lacks the variety.
4. NYC under the right circumstances.
Meaning if you live in Manhattan, mainly game foreign girls, and occasionally go for girls fresh out of college who moved to the city from another part of the country and are disconnected from their college social circles. You must avoid any place outside of the city itself as Long Island and Jersey is where racism really takes place.
It is a fair city IMO, meaning that if you have the looks, money, and game then you can get hot girls no matter what your race is. The sheer amount of foreign women in the city makes it more or less irrelevant if American women are not interested in a brown or Asian guy.
Spots to avoid:
1. Arizona.
If you're anything other than white or black, avoid this state, no exceptions. I might still try to run game in Tempe this fall but I don't expect to succeed, arguably the most anti-ethnic state in the country.
2. California.
California girls hate all races except for white and black guys, generally see all foreigners as undesirable. Not only do white girls in the state hate Asians and brown races but Hispanic and Asian women there sell out hard by chasing white guys, avoid at all costs.
3. Majority of the south.
Florida and maybe Texas are good, rest of the region sucks for anyone who isn't white or in some states black. I've had an Asian and Indian friend that killed it in Charleston but I think they are more of an exception than the norm.