A list of some of the best spots in America for ethnic guys.

[Good Gao]

We all know that if you aren't black or white in the US, you're kinda screwed when it comes to getting hot girls because as @Urbanyst would tell you, women are very picky about race and punish men from ethnic backgrounds that aren't white or black even if the guy is a cool guy. I blame part of it on American media which shows every race except for white (Hispanic and non-Hispanic) and black guys as sexually inferior.

A problem ethnic guys face is not only do hot white women in most parts of the US hate us but even ethnic women sell out hard and opt to go for any race except for their own. Asian American men face this issue all the time and even Hispanic men face this very problem.

But as an Asian Canadian guy who has stayed all over the US, these are some of the best spots in the country for an ethnic guy with his sh-t together. This is based on my own travel experiences, using Tinder Plus location spoof, and quite a bit of night game. Here are a few cities I can say are without question great for ethnic guys:

1. Miami, FL

For some reason, white and brown relations are good in Miami compared to the southwest states where they are terrible. A lot of this leads to Hispanic women in the city dating all races and white women in the area are some of the most open minded in the entire country. I've been approached by them as an Asian guy and I've met more than a handful of ethnic guys killing it there.

Arab, Asian, Indian, and Hispanic; all sorts of guys just slaying there. I have never seen so many ethnic guys in the city with hot girlfriends and pulling cute girls in general, any race can do well here but ethnic guys have no stigma attached to them.

The best part is, the women are some of the hottest in the entire country which means you get a lot of quality in the city. All my East Asian bros who are assimilated, get there now, the women are so open to Asian guys in the city it isn't even funny.

2. Seattle, WA

I have seen so many black, Asian, and to a degree even Indian guys with cute white girls in the city. Unfortunately the quality in the city sucks compared to Miami but there are some occasional gems to be found. While it is 10x more common to see Asian women with white men, it happens the other way around quite a bit often too.

Very underrated city but I was surprised at how open minded the women there were. You do find a decent amount of 7s although it is not too common to see a 9 or 10 there.

3. Minneapolis and a lot of the upper midwest in general.

Pretty sure my boy @Solomon can attest to this, I've had more success with white hbbs in this city than any other city in the country. Guess the Scandinavians are naturally less hostile than their Anglo or Southern European brothers which leads to a good bit of opportunity for cool guys of more exotic ethnic backgrounds to do well.

The upper midwest seems to be good for cool ethnic guys that love white girls but unlike Miami, it lacks the variety.

4. NYC under the right circumstances.

Meaning if you live in Manhattan, mainly game foreign girls, and occasionally go for girls fresh out of college who moved to the city from another part of the country and are disconnected from their college social circles. You must avoid any place outside of the city itself as Long Island and Jersey is where racism really takes place.

It is a fair city IMO, meaning that if you have the looks, money, and game then you can get hot girls no matter what your race is. The sheer amount of foreign women in the city makes it more or less irrelevant if American women are not interested in a brown or Asian guy.

Spots to avoid:

1. Arizona.

If you're anything other than white or black, avoid this state, no exceptions. I might still try to run game in Tempe this fall but I don't expect to succeed, arguably the most anti-ethnic state in the country.

2. California.

California girls hate all races except for white and black guys, generally see all foreigners as undesirable. Not only do white girls in the state hate Asians and brown races but Hispanic and Asian women there sell out hard by chasing white guys, avoid at all costs.

3. Majority of the south.

Florida and maybe Texas are good, rest of the region sucks for anyone who isn't white or in some states black. I've had an Asian and Indian friend that killed it in Charleston but I think they are more of an exception than the norm.

 

[darksprezzatura]

Great insight. Thanks for sharing.

 

[Solomon]

Great list but i disagree Arizona is lit, Tuscon is more your speed if your asian into spanish chicks, but yea Tempe/Scottsdale are golddigger central but the chicks are legit

 

[Good Gao]

Great list but i disagree Arizona is lit, Tuscon is more your speed if your asian into spanish chicks, but yea Tempe/Scottsdale are golddigger central but the chicks are legit

From what I have been told, if you are anything other than white or black, it is impossible to get hot white girls in Tempe, Tuscon, or Scottsdale. A user on here mentioned how he has gamed in Tempe for 2 years and gone out every week yet never seen hot white girls with anything other than a white or black guy.

I am going to go there in the fall myself but from what I have heard from many, it seems to be the worst place in the country for even the high value ethnic guys.

Maybe as an East Asian I get a pass but I could see an Indian, Filipino, and especially a brown Mexican guy struggling like hell given how the state has been in the news for its racism. Not just that but if you have that many hot white girls, that many Hispanic men, and they aren't dating each other while white men and latinas are; it's pretty obvious that it is a tough spot for ethnic guys.

I've heard black guys clean up there like no one's business.

I am certainly going to go there for a visit and try to pick up some of that Zona blonde poosay but I am not getting my hopes up. Definitely seems like the worst place in the country to game as an ethnic dude.

 

[Solomon]

From what I have been told, if you are anything other than white or black, it is impossible to get hot white girls in Tempe, Tuscon, or Scottsdale. A user on here mentioned how he has gamed in Tempe for 2 years and gone out every week yet never seen hot white girls with anything other than a white or black guy.

I am going to go there in the fall myself but from what I have heard from many, it seems to be the worst place in the country for even the high value ethnic guys.

Maybe as an East Asian I get a pass but I could see an Indian, Filipino, and especially a brown Mexican guy struggling like hell given how the state has been in the news for its racism. Not just that but if you have that many hot white girls, that many Hispanic men, and they aren't dating each other while white men and latinas are; it's pretty obvious that it is a tough spot for ethnic guys.

I've heard black guys clean up there like no one's business.

I am certainly going to go there for a visit and try to pick up some of that Zona blonde poosay but I am not getting my hopes up. Definitely seems like the worst place in the country to game as an ethnic dude.

I got an Asian buddy who is cleaning up house in Tuscon with Spanish and white girls

In area's like that obviously you wanna be in shape but also having a niche always helps (he is a fitness guru who has an extensive social circle)

A lot of guys really underestimate the power of social circle and social proof. It gives you access to chicks you usually wouldn't have access too

 

[Urbanyst]

Here is how I would break it down. Best places for ethnic men.

If you are Asian or Indian:
*NYC
*Washington DC
*Honolulu
*San Francisco (maybe)

If you are Black:
*NYC
*Washington DC
*Philly
*LA
*Vegas
*Miami
*Denver
*Baltimore
*Atlanta

Asian men seem to do much better than Indian men everywhere. For some reason women believe Indian and Arab men have cooties. I don't know exactly why since they don't look all that different from a lot of Hispanic men and they usually have more MONEY.

This is just based on observation though. Don't take this as LAW. And it will vary from person to person of course.

 

[Dr. Reed]

Do you guys understand that white and black are both ethnicities, yes?

 

[skinnyguy]

All of these race threads can be negated with one post that says "I know this Indian guy who cleans up in Phoenix...."

 

[Urbanyst]

All of these race threads can be negated with one post that says "I know this Indian guy who cleans up in Phoenix...."

Race goes under the "looks" umbrella when it comes to dating factors. So people who say race doesn't matter are basically saying looks don't matter. And we all know that's bullsh*t.

Looks matter. MONEY matters. Age matters.

 

[MatureDJ]

Spots to avoid:

1. Arizona.

If you're anything other than white or black, avoid this state, no exceptions. I might still try to run game in Tempe this fall but I don't expect to succeed, arguably the most anti-ethnic state in the country.

2. California.

California girls hate all races except for white and black guys, generally see all foreigners as undesirable. Not only do white girls in the state hate Asians and brown races but Hispanic and Asian women there sell out hard by chasing white guys, avoid at all costs.

3. Majority of the south.

Florida and maybe Texas are good, rest of the region sucks for anyone who isn't white or in some states black. I've had an Asian and Indian friend that killed it in Charleston but I think they are more of an exception than the norm.

I am a white man and have spent time in all 3 of these places, actually living in the South for most of the time.

All I can remember about AZ and women was that walking around ASU one September afternoon (and yes, it is still blazing hot then!), I could not recall seeing more tight-bodied coeds wearing their little cropped shirts. I was working a ton of OT and basically only had Sunday off, and especially as I was transient at the time, and more interested in Eastern European women by then, I didn't go "sarging" there.

Southern CA is absolutely horrible for anyone that is not a Chad Thundercocks, but there are some cuties that have just gotten out of high school and haven't been spoiled (I think I came close to getting one's digits; this was when I in my early 20s, fresh out of college, so I wasn't a "creep"). That said, of course, there are a ton of Asian women. An office cubicle mate was Vietnamese and I went to a party at his house, and there were a ton of tight-bodied women there. They seemed to not show me any interest, but I could see a Vietnamese man doing well; it's easy to date in a community if all the women are slender.

As for the South, I have spent time in the 2 major cities of the Deep South. Atlanta had some nice lookers, at least at a few strip joints I would visit there, but being short, I could see that I was invisible to anything decent - and I went to a major technical school (grad) there that had VERY few women (and thus the strip joint between school and my place always seemed to call to me, LOL; nowadays there are a lot of Latinas and Asians (the town of Chamblee is called Chamblodia). Oh, and on the south side there are tons of black women, if that's your thing.

As for New Orleans, there is a small community of Hondurans that have been around a while, but they are almost entirely fat. There are Mexicans moving in, but they are fat too, and their men are almost as violent as the black men in New Orleans. There is also a community of Asians, both Han Chinese and Indochinese. The attractive women of these groups tend to stay within their communities, but the fat ones are out and about (aren't they always?). One particular Chinaman there was a highly revered lawman, Harry Lee (who wore a cowboy hat everywhere!), and so I think that just from that acculturation, Asian men who have beefy frame like him (it turned into a a Buddha frame for him, LOL) can get some play. Of course, there are so many far women there of all races that it's rough. All that said, a (white) friend of mine is getting married to a half-Japanese woman who is culturally fully white (her mother was Japanese after WW2 and her father was a white American soldier there), and I think that his whiteness helped; of course just the woman herself is an ideosyncratic anecdote as there is no Japanese community there at all. And of course, there are ton of black women as well. And there is the French Quarter that is very touristy and basically is the dive-bar Ying to Las Vegas's slick nightclub Yang; there are lots of bachelorette parties from out-of-towners, as well as professionals in ton for conventions.

 

[Solomon]

I am a white man and have spent time in all 3 of these places, actually living in the South for most of the time.

All I can remember about AZ and women was that walking around ASU one September afternoon (and yes, it is still blazing hot then!), I could not recall seeing more tight-bodied coeds wearing their little cropped shirts. I was working a ton of OT and basically only had Sunday off, and especially as I was transient at the time, and more interested in Eastern European women by then, I didn't go "sarging" there.

Southern CA is absolutely horrible for anyone that is not a Chad Thundercocks, but there are some cuties that have just gotten out of high school and haven't been spoiled (I think I came close to getting one's digits; this was when I in my early 20s, fresh out of college, so I wasn't a "creep"). That said, of course, there are a ton of Asian women. An office cubicle mate was Vietnamese and I went to a party at his house, and there were a ton of tight-bodied women there. They seemed to not show me any interest, but I could see a Vietnamese man doing well; it's easy to date in a community if all the women are slender.

As for the South, I have spent time in the 2 major cities of the Deep South. Atlanta had some nice lookers, at least at a few strip joints I would visit there, but being short, I could see that I was invisible to anything decent - and I went to a major technical school (grad) there that had VERY few women (and thus the strip joint between school and my place always seemed to call to me, LOL; nowadays there are a lot of Latinas and Asians (the town of Chamblee is called Chamblodia). Oh, and on the south side there are tons of black women, if that's your thing.

As for New Orleans, there is a small community of Hondurans that have been around a while, but they are almost entirely fat. There are Mexicans moving in, but they are fat too, and their men are almost as violent as the black men in New Orleans. There is also a community of Asians, both Han Chinese and Indochinese. The attractive women of these groups tend to stay within their communities, but the fat ones are out and about (aren't they always?). One particular Chinaman there was a highly revered lawman, Harry Lee (who wore a cowboy hat everywhere!), and so I think that just from that acculturation, Asian men who have beefy frame like him (it turned into a a Buddha frame for him, LOL) can get some play. Of course, there are so many far women there of all races that it's rough. All that said, a (white) friend of mine is getting married to a half-Japanese woman who is culturally fully white (her mother was Japanese after WW2 and her father was a white American soldier there), and I think that his whiteness helped; of course just the woman herself is an ideosyncratic anecdote as there is no Japanese community there at all. And of course, there are ton of black women as well. And there is the French Quarter that is very touristy and basically is the dive-bar Ying to Las Vegas's slick nightclub Yang; there are lots of bachelorette parties from out-of-towners, as well as professionals in ton for conventions.

So which place did you have the most success? or is it another place?

 

[MatureDJ]

So which place did you have the most success? or is it another place?

I ended up having the most success in my hometown, New Orleans, because I had connections, that lead to other connections and information. I had found it very hard to break into any type of connections system away from there, aside from being abroad, where the dynamics are so changed that it's a whole 'nother world. However, I think that a Chad Thundercocks could find success almost everywhere.

 

[AJ84]

In Toronto love is literally colourblind. I have seen every type of blended couples. Lots of South Asian men with white women, Chinese and Korean men with white women is also increasing. Black and white both genders doesn't even register on anyone's radar. Chinese woman with a white man is not even noticeable here. Persian men / Indian men with white women and vice versa.

There are a lot of second generation ethnic groups here who grew up in ethnically diverse neighbourhoods with friends from all walks of life so it's not usually an issue unless their families are religious and the couple are from two very different religions.

 

[Good Gao]

Here is how I would break it down. Best places for ethnic men.

If you are Asian or Indian:
*NYC
*Washington DC
*Honolulu
*San Francisco (maybe)

If you are Black:
*NYC
*Washington DC
*Philly
*LA
*Vegas
*Miami
*Denver
*Baltimore
*Atlanta

Asian men seem to do much better than Indian men everywhere. For some reason women believe Indian and Arab men have cooties. I don't know exactly why since they don't look all that different from a lot of Hispanic men and they usually have more MONEY.

This is just based on observation though. Don't take this as LAW. And it will vary from person to person of course.

San Fran for Indian and Asian guys? NO WAY.

NYC is the only city on your list that is legit for Asian and Indian men, other than that, all others suck.

I do agree that Indian and Arab men seem to have it the worst in the US as of right now, TBH, even the darker skinned Hispanic men who can be confused for Arab have it rough as I said in AZ it is rare to see them with hot white girls.

That being said, Asian and Indian men definitely need to go to Miami, their exotic value there and in the state of Florida is off the maps and the women are the hottest in the country. Met so many Asian and Indian guys with HBB white girls there, it was unreal, by so many I mean much more than usual.

Same goes for Texas and certain southern cities like Nashville.

Asian and especially brown guys of any kind can slay in the upper midwest, @Solomon can confirm that.

 

[Good Gao]

I got an Asian buddy who is cleaning up house in Tuscon with Spanish and white girls

In area's like that obviously you wanna be in shape but also having a niche always helps (he is a fitness guru who has an extensive social circle)

A lot of guys really underestimate the power of social circle and social proof. It gives you access to chicks you usually wouldn't have access too

Social circles are TOUGH to get into past college, this thread was more dedicated to online dating, night game, and cold approaches.

The issue with social circles is that a lot of the guys in it would not want extra men in there while a lot of the bonds tend to go way back. Past college, it is a tough process but we can start a thread on that to see how you can play that game.

I stand by what I say though, Arizona is ROUGH for brown guys of any kind, probably the worst state in the country.

 

[Good Gao]

Race goes under the "looks" umbrella when it comes to dating factors. So people who say race doesn't matter are basically saying looks don't matter. And we all know that's bullsh*t.

Looks matter. MONEY matters. Age matters.

Don't worry, he isn't getting quality anytime soon. He is actually trying to go to South America to score but little does he realize that latinas there are very conscious of skin tone and don't want a thing to do with a darker skinned guy, his Indianazz is screwed.

 

[Good Gao]

In Toronto love is literally colourblind. I have seen every type of blended couples. Lots of South Asian men with white women, Chinese and Korean men with white women is also increasing. Black and white both genders doesn't even register on anyone's radar. Chinese woman with a white man is not even noticeable here. Persian men / Indian men with white women and vice versa.

There are a lot of second generation ethnic groups here who grew up in ethnically diverse neighbourhoods with friends from all walks of life so it's not usually an issue unless their families are religious and the couple are from two very different religions.

As an Asian Canadian, I completely disagree with this.

Indian and Asian men can do well in Montreal but Toronto? Not the case!

 

[Urbanyst]

San Fran for Indian and Asian guys? NO WAY.

NYC is the only city on your list that is legit for Asian and Indian men, other than that, all others suck.

I do agree that Indian and Arab men seem to have it the worst in the US as of right now, TBH, even the darker skinned Hispanic men who can be confused for Arab have it rough as I said in AZ it is rare to see them with hot white girls.

That being said, Asian and Indian men definitely need to go to Miami, their exotic value there and in the state of Florida is off the maps and the women are the hottest in the country. Met so many Asian and Indian guys with HBB white girls there, it was unreal, by so many I mean much more than usual.

Same goes for Texas and certain southern cities like Nashville.

Asian and especially brown guys of any kind can slay in the upper midwest, @Solomon can confirm that.

Asian guys seem to do ok in DC too. I assumed San Francisco with all the Tech nerds would also be a good place for Indian and Asian men. Maybe not though.

 

[skinnyguy]

Asian guys seem to do ok in DC too. I assumed San Francisco with all the Tech nerds would also be a good place for Indian and Asian men. Maybe not though.

lol you're kidding right

Women associate Indian guys with FOBBY smelly nerds who work in tech. I was born in America, don't work in technology, and don't have an accent yet the women here think I'm a fobby nerd.

ALL the Asian girls in SF want white men. You should visit to see it with your own eyes

 

[skinnyguy]

Don't worry, he isn't getting quality anytime soon. He is actually trying to go to South America to score but little does he realize that latinas there are very conscious of skin tone and don't want a thing to do with a darker skinned guy, his Indianazz is screwed.

You're right I can't get Latinas. What's your point? Im not disagreeing with you at all here I'm being sincere