It hasn't been 2 weeks. It's been 5 days. She just texted me to hang out tonight. I've ignored her.For me this would be disrespect on a level that I could not tolerate. Needing space is one thing, not reaching out for 2 weeks to your partner is another, dead relative or not. If that is the cause' for her behavior I still could not accept it. She is not the only person who has lost someone before. A day or 2 is understandable. She hasn't said anything to you in 2 weeks lol. What does she think your some retard that's going to wait around forever? Especially after 9 months? Dating is no longer casual at that point. Least she could do is let you know what's up.
This pisses me off that she did this to you.
Give her til the weekend. Prepare yourself emotionally.
This relationship is over.
You need to make this realization so she doesn't convince you otherwise. If she contacts you before Friday 5pm it doesn't matter. Either at Friday 5pm or if she contacts you before you text her this: "I'm picking up my stuff"
-You dont need to explain
-You dont need to talk about it
-You dont need to wait
-You dont need to have a sit down
You made your decision. If she's like most women she will go into panic mode, which you need to be strong enough to whether. Get your stuff and get out. There's nothing to talk about, 2 week spell says enough.
If shes a cold hearted bítch she will probably say something along the lines of: "Ok."
In which you still need to get your stuff and dip.
Take a week to recover and then hop right back in the sack. That's if you even need it, she gave you a 2 week headstart. Sorry man. Good luck.