Your negativity is self-defeating, as usual. You see a woman with an attitude, and then immediately take out all of your gripes about society on one person, which leads to a self-fulfilling prophecy.
I see a woman with an attitude as a woman that I have not charmed out of that attitude yet. Maybe in reality I can't charm every woman, but in my head I believe I can. I've been doing it all my life. I've dealt with b!tchy women of every race at courthouses and government buildings, and I almost always get what I want. They have that attitude because their life sucks, and if you make it suck more, then you are just going to get more attitude out of them. But if you brighten their day with your charm and positive attitude, then they will drop the act and behave like an actual person.
Just last week, I was picking up a door at a warehouse and I had the (white) woman who worked there start almost screaming at me immediately just for standing there and being a customer. And I looked at her and smiled, said nothing but 'yes ma'am' in the politest way possible. We had to walk to the back together, and by the time we got there, she was apologizing profusely and saying she was grumpy because she was hungry. Then the next time I was there, she was flirting with me, rubbing herself against me like a cat.