Someone else needed to hammer this point home, thanks @BeTheChange.
I used to be a hot guy in his 20's with no money. I would occasionally score really hot women but by age 30 they are coming over and saying "What kind of interest rate did you get on your second car?" and "What are your investments?" and they tell their friends "He's hot, but he's a bartender".
In my 30's I was neither here nor there so it was depressing. I was making about $85K salary which is hard to get and basically just chump change working poor. I got to live the life of a welfare mom with organic food basically, only I paid my own way instead of leeching of taxpayers.
Once I started earning $80 per hour ($160,000 per year), and started wearing a suit and tie, there was never a shortage of beautiful women who were available. Some of them wanted money, but they provide so much sex it builds your confidence to the point where equally hot women are interested in you in general. There is a "fake it till you make it" period, and then you realize women are just a commodity. For (good looking) men willing to pay for it (I do not pay for sex), sex costs about $300 (up to thousands otherwise), so women are happy with decent looking men who make about $600 per day. Hookers and wives both, the former being far more honest. Your girl won't leave you because she knows you make enough by lunch time to have a 19 year old going down on you. Actually, they say a man can be a 1 and marry a hot girl if he makes about $160,000 per year.
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All of that said, there is nothing that repulses me more than thinking that gorgeous women use me for expensive dinners and then dumpster dive with busboys in their spare time. That is always a real possibility when you date much younger women. While I think my current girlfriend is past that stage (mainly because they don't physically satisfy her) I still started working out 6 months ago, bringing my body fat from about 19% (still lean for a man in his 40's) to 12% (lean for a man in his 20's). I try to be as physically fit and strong as possible and this will be something I have to do for life. Nothing can inspire a man like a much younger woman, especially in his 40's. God designed us this way. A man my age can start a whole new family if he is strong.
In the past year I got a new car, kept my contract, got a new apartment, decorated it better, and had the best sex of my life. I owe a lot of that to my girlfriend inspiring me to try to impress her. I look around now and realize that instead of living in a crappy place and being sort of chubby I'm in a really nice place and I'm sort of lean. So even if she leaves me, finding another girl will be that much easier, as will going without one.
I used to be a hot guy in his 20's with no money. I would occasionally score really hot women but by age 30 they are coming over and saying "What kind of interest rate did you get on your second car?" and "What are your investments?" and they tell their friends "He's hot, but he's a bartender".
In my 30's I was neither here nor there so it was depressing. I was making about $85K salary which is hard to get and basically just chump change working poor. I got to live the life of a welfare mom with organic food basically, only I paid my own way instead of leeching of taxpayers.
Once I started earning $80 per hour ($160,000 per year), and started wearing a suit and tie, there was never a shortage of beautiful women who were available. Some of them wanted money, but they provide so much sex it builds your confidence to the point where equally hot women are interested in you in general. There is a "fake it till you make it" period, and then you realize women are just a commodity. For (good looking) men willing to pay for it (I do not pay for sex), sex costs about $300 (up to thousands otherwise), so women are happy with decent looking men who make about $600 per day. Hookers and wives both, the former being far more honest. Your girl won't leave you because she knows you make enough by lunch time to have a 19 year old going down on you. Actually, they say a man can be a 1 and marry a hot girl if he makes about $160,000 per year.
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All of that said, there is nothing that repulses me more than thinking that gorgeous women use me for expensive dinners and then dumpster dive with busboys in their spare time. That is always a real possibility when you date much younger women. While I think my current girlfriend is past that stage (mainly because they don't physically satisfy her) I still started working out 6 months ago, bringing my body fat from about 19% (still lean for a man in his 40's) to 12% (lean for a man in his 20's). I try to be as physically fit and strong as possible and this will be something I have to do for life. Nothing can inspire a man like a much younger woman, especially in his 40's. God designed us this way. A man my age can start a whole new family if he is strong.
In the past year I got a new car, kept my contract, got a new apartment, decorated it better, and had the best sex of my life. I owe a lot of that to my girlfriend inspiring me to try to impress her. I look around now and realize that instead of living in a crappy place and being sort of chubby I'm in a really nice place and I'm sort of lean. So even if she leaves me, finding another girl will be that much easier, as will going without one.
