Many of us have wondered what would happen if our significant other(s) found our membership here.
- First, there is nothing to be ashamed of. Where else can men be men and bounce ideas off other (mostly) men these days?
- Second, most of us watch what we write. As many of you know, there is perhaps no greater testament of my love for my current girl than my posts here. Not sure it would help but it wouldn't be a disaster. Maybe some women can chime in here.
That said, while I've long suspected my girlfriend might be a member here, some statistics I found just now make that quite unlikely.
Put it this way: it's not Facebook. Facebook is ranked #3 in the world (and US). The average visitor spends 1 minute and makes one post per day. Sosuave.net is ranked #157,000 (57,000 in the US). There aren't even any statistics on people finding it with a google search. That's probably good news. I'm trying to convert this to odds of their finding us but I'm not sure how.
http://www.alexa.com/siteinfo/sosuave.net
Note: if you say to the person you're dating "I'm on a dating forum talking about xyz" and she is curious enough she can find you with Google.
PS - My then-girlfriend in 2006 famously found my SS account and logged in to answer my question about having a pen!s that is too big for her, because I mentioned that I had posted a question online and she searched for it. She replied to my post and someone wrote "Keep you b!tch off the computer!" We didn't break up over it.
Have you ever had your girl find SS?