PatientOne
Don Juan
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I'm looking for thoughts and opinions.
In my Curious Situation thread, I discussed that I recently left my wife. She did not fight or beg to maintain the marriage, and took her rings off and gave them to me during the splitting up conversation. The cute woman that I also talked about has backed off on communication since the split became public knowledge. It is still there, just less so, which is fine.
However, my (ex)wife keeps posting on Facebook and sharing memes about mending her heart, being sad, becoming strong for whomever comes next, blah blah fr1ckin' blahbbity-blah.
It is not affecting my frame, per-se, but it is annoying me while also making think that I made the right decision. I spelled out the problems we were facing, more than once, and she ignored the issues while taking me for granted. It doesn't seem to bother her that I almost died, but she was comfortable in a marriage that became platonic.
She is around a lot, until remodels on her part of our building are done. I do not have an ETA. Should I call her out on these posts, or maintain radio silence? I have to talk to her everyday, right now, and perhaps maintaining silence about her b.s. will actually help me socially, especially if she starts seeing another man right off.
EDIT: I want to say, "While you are posting your feelings and memes, are you being honest with people on why we split?"
In my Curious Situation thread, I discussed that I recently left my wife. She did not fight or beg to maintain the marriage, and took her rings off and gave them to me during the splitting up conversation. The cute woman that I also talked about has backed off on communication since the split became public knowledge. It is still there, just less so, which is fine.
However, my (ex)wife keeps posting on Facebook and sharing memes about mending her heart, being sad, becoming strong for whomever comes next, blah blah fr1ckin' blahbbity-blah.
It is not affecting my frame, per-se, but it is annoying me while also making think that I made the right decision. I spelled out the problems we were facing, more than once, and she ignored the issues while taking me for granted. It doesn't seem to bother her that I almost died, but she was comfortable in a marriage that became platonic.
She is around a lot, until remodels on her part of our building are done. I do not have an ETA. Should I call her out on these posts, or maintain radio silence? I have to talk to her everyday, right now, and perhaps maintaining silence about her b.s. will actually help me socially, especially if she starts seeing another man right off.
EDIT: I want to say, "While you are posting your feelings and memes, are you being honest with people on why we split?"