The most forbidden of fruit

[The LadyKiller]

A HB9 has been noticeably flirty with me for a few weeks now. Initially I didn't notice anything out of the ordinary, but my friends approached me and asked how I could be so oblivious to her signals. Honestly, I didn't think much of it because: a.) she's a coworker (not a deal breaker given my current environment, but also not ideal), and more importantly, b.) she's married (more of a deal breaker).

Things got a little more real this week when she made an excuse for us to swap numbers. The next day, she brought up the fact in front of a few others about how I now have her number and asked what else I would want. Luckily we were interrupted because my mind was drawing a blank.

I have no credible experience in this area. I rarely ever escalate things with a HB I know is in a relationship, and have never been in any such situation with someone wearing a ring. How would you guys handle it?

 

[lizardking82]

I would **** the **** out of her in her desk with the picture of her and her husband having their holidays in Mallorca where he apparently did not **** her hard enough facing you and possibly even *** partly in the pic and her tits.

 

[Billtx49]

If you are a moral man, it's a big no.
She's a coworker which is usually a no.
That's two no's, plus it looks like she picked you to cheat with. Why do you want advice? Do what your conscience will let you live with.

 

[lizardking82]

If you are a moral man, it's a big no.
She's a coworker which is usually a no.
That's two no's, plus she looks like a cheater. Why do you want advice?

Bill, with the avatar you're carrying, this advice doesn't go down well

 

[Urbanyst]

Married women come onto me more than any other type of woman.

Just shows you what marriage means to most women. To them its more like an insurance policy than a commitment lol.

I wouldn't want to sleep with a married woman though. Its not even a moral thing, its more about feeling like a side piece. I'll hook up with a girl with a boyfriend though. Boyfriends have more grey area. Sometimes she is about to dumb him, or she is in an open relationship. Marriage is different.

 

[Billtx49]

Bill, with the avatar you're carrying, this advice doesn't go down well

It says party with sluts, not party with married sluts…
We all have standards and limits of some type.

 

[wifehunter]

Forbidden fruit = curse

 

[Infern0]

I would say, and as much as people may sneer at this:

Karma does catch up to you. I did this sort of **** when i was younger and there was always bad things coming out of it.

Theres nothing wrong with having some morals and a bit of honour

 

[Bingo-Player]

A HB9 has been noticeably flirty with me for a few weeks now. Initially I didn't notice anything out of the ordinary, but my friends approached me and asked how I could be so oblivious to her signals. Honestly, I didn't think much of it because: a.) she's a coworker (not a deal breaker given my current environment, but also not ideal), and more importantly, b.) she's married (more of a deal breaker).

Things got a little more real this week when she made an excuse for us to swap numbers. The next day, she brought up the fact in front of a few others about how I now have her number and asked what else I would want. Luckily we were interrupted because my mind was drawing a blank.

I have no credible experience in this area. I rarely ever escalate things with a HB I know is in a relationship, and have never been in any such situation with someone wearing a ring. How would you guys handle it?

firstly it is unlikely you have a HB9 working with you , HB9 should be at supermodel level not office worker

secondly if a woman is prepared to throw away her marriage for a jump , alarm bells would be ringing for me

by all means if you just want to fvck then proceed but be cautious of the aftermath

 

[Trump]

Think it's a setup. She wants to see how far you'll go before she can blackmail you.

What married women, who sleeps with her 6'2 husband every night, who loves her husband to death, who takes weekend trips with him and friends, who took vows in front of 1000 people, flirts with her coworker in front of others with her ring on? There is an agenda at play and you fit right in.

Be very careful.

 

[The LadyKiller]

I feel similarly to a lot of you here. Having never seen this take place from a first-person perspective, the advice is valuable. This isn't someome I am pursuing. The only chance of anything even maybe taking place is if she does 100% of the pursuing. Like I said in the OP, I don't knowingly hit on taken women. She isn't one I would date regardless.

Think it's a setup. She wants to see how far you'll go before she can blackmail you.

What married women, who sleeps with her 6'2 husband every night, who loves her husband to death, who takes weekend trips with him and friends, who took vows in front of 1000 people, flirts with her coworker in front of others with her ring on? There is an agenda at play and you fit right in.

Be very careful.

I wonder what sort of agenda she'd have and if she could blackmail me with if this were the case. We work in different departments and neither of us ranks higher than the other. For what it's worth, she and her husband have different off days.

 

[Billtx49]

For what it's worth, she and her husband have different off days.

Perfect cheating set up for her then. Keep in mind this may not be the first time she's hit on a guy outside of her marriage.
Nothing like a day off getting your brains pumped out.…
My question to you is, do you two have the same day off?

 

[marmel75]

Married women come onto me more than any other type of woman.

Just shows you what marriage means to most women. To them its more like an insurance policy than a commitment lol.

I wouldn't want to sleep with a married woman though. Its not even a moral thing, its more about feeling like a side piece. I'll hook up with a girl with a boyfriend though. Boyfriends have more grey area. Sometimes she is about to dumb him, or she is in an open relationship. Marriage is different.

IF you married a woman who was in shape and then she gained 100 lbs and looked like a sweat hog would you not consider your options? I've seen these MILFs...in shape, workout, look good...flirting with me...then their husband comes home and he is 280lbs of fat, looks like a walrus and probably gets out of breath from 3 pumps, is down for count after 2 minutes before putting on his Oxygen mask and rolling over to go to sleep.

They want to get fvcked long and deep and hard...and their husbands aren't up to the task and probably haven't been for many years. Is it really their fault or is it their husbands fault for not being able to take care of a very important need properly because they are a fat, out shape slob?

Let's be real about it....if their husband's were putting it down like Superman on them 3 times a week like they should be, they wouldn't be out looking.

 

[bigneil]

She already has 3 strikes: she is a coworker, she is married, and she is a cheater. It would be one thing if you didn't find out until you were already involved, but why get involved and allow feelings to develop to begin with? Because you are desperate? If you are the stud you are pretending to be, if HB9 colleagues who are married find you so irresistible they will risk their spouse, their career and their reputation, prove it by finding an unmarried HB9. A man who can win the love of any HB9 can get unlimited HB8's.

Furthermore, if you are seen by coworkers as sleeping with a married woman, they will flag you as unethical and thus untrustworthy and thus unprofessional.

 

[Building_and_Loan]

Think it's a setup. She wants to see how far you'll go before she can blackmail you.

What married women, who sleeps with her 6'2 husband every night, who loves her husband to death, who takes weekend trips with him and friends, who took vows in front of 1000 people, flirts with her coworker in front of others with her ring on? There is an agenda at play and you fit right in.

Be very careful.

Agreed. If said married coworker wanted to cheat, she wouldn't go broadcasting it to the world and your coworkers that you two swapped numbers. She would be keeping it on the down low as much as possible.

Something doesn't add up. Tread lightly here. To be honest, steer clear. Fvcking a coworker is rarely a good idea. Fvcking a married woman is almost never a good idea. This just has bad situation written all over it.

Get some other options.

 

[jimjam]

I fooled around with a married coworker when I was in my 20s. She was about 10 yrs older than me. I was abusing lots of drugs at the time and my judgement was obviously clouded. No one knew, as far as I know.

Had a similar situation err up around 3 years ago. I e=ed on the rational side this time. You must consider that whether he's out of shape, doesn't fvck her enough, whatever...most men who find out their wlife is cheating will take out their anger on YOU firstly, then her. Can you live wlth always looking over your shoulder? I decided that I couldn't.

Good luck

 

[Urbanyst]

IF you married a woman who was in shape and then she gained 100 lbs and looked like a sweat hog would you not consider your options? I've seen these MILFs...in shape, workout, look good...flirting with me...then their husband comes home and he is 280lbs of fat, looks like a walrus and probably gets out of breath from 3 pumps, is down for count after 2 minutes before putting on his Oxygen mask and rolling over to go to sleep.

They want to get fvcked long and deep and hard...and their husbands aren't up to the task and probably haven't been for many years. Is it really their fault or is it their husbands fault for not being able to take care of a very important need properly because they are a fat, out shape slob?

Let's be real about it....if their husband's were putting it down like Superman on them 3 times a week like they should be, they wouldn't be out looking.

Or maybe getting married is just stupid.

 

[AlphaNate]

Hey OP. Want some advice from someone that actually has banged several married chicks? Hit and split.

Married women are great because they have husbands to do all the husband-y ****. You just get to **** her.

The problem is that the longer you're spinning, the better chance you have of someone finding out that you don't want finding out. Smash a few times and get out.

 

[jimjam]

Here's my concern with banging married women, especially since my son was born:

Women like drama and they loveto talk. So

Married chick: Oh my god, Sandy, you'll never guess what I did.
Sandy: what? Tell me.
Married chick: Me and guy from work slep together. Don't say anything.
Sandy. Oh my god. Don't worry. Just neteen us.

Then, for whatever reason Sandy gets p!ssed at marriedchick and decides to get back at her. Sandy gets blasted at a party and "accidentally" spills the beans to husband. Two weeks later, the husbandgoes to your office and proceeds to beat the sh!t out of in front of the building. You're now out of a job and perhaps all your teeth.. And you're left with the task of explaining the whole thing to your kids, if you have any.

If you're cool woth this then by all means, hit and split. Be careful. Women are capable of astounding acts of cruelty and betrayal.

 

[Trump]

They want to get fvcked long and deep and hard...and their husbands aren't up to the task and probably haven't been for many years. Is it really their fault or is it their husbands fault for not being able to take care of a very important need properly because they are a fat, out shape slob?

Let's be real about it....if their husband's were putting it down like Superman on them 3 times a week like they should be, they wouldn't be out looking.

I don't know bro. I don't think sex is that important to women. They are more about their needs and place in society.

You don't think Brad Pitt smashed Angelina every night he could? She still filed for divorce and made life hell for him.

You don't think Scarlett Johanssons husbands smashed her every night they could? She still filed for divorce from BOTH of them.

You don't think Mel Gibson smashed his 30 year old wife every night he could? She still filed for divorce.

You don't think Alex Baldwin smashed Kim Basinger every night he could? She still filed for divorce.

Sex isnt as important for the woman as most people think. She has sex with him to get other stuff from him that are valuable (money, image, status, children) Once she has these items, she no longer has use for him. If she has an agenda, she is not going to stick around for "good sex." She can easily get that anywhere, especially if she looks good. Her AGENDA is what drives her.

Brutal.