Ahh true, but a lot of times women want you to think that you at least somewhat care about them before they'll let you get it in. I think that's how you get rid of last minute resistance too because then they'll feel safe and comfortable around you. This is in my experience anyway.
If a third party observer declares him "fat and ugly" it's questionable whether he was alpha or simply fortunate.
People's conversation skills are certainly plummeting with the increased use of devices. Sometimes you just need to find the right triggers to get someone going though and make them comfortable enough to reveal information. It could begin with you revealing some snippet (small personal detail) about yourself, but then getting them to divulge much more through relational experience. Another way is just a direct personal question. Sometimes you get push back, but you have to just try again, or frame it in a positive light...
My woman has a brain that is her primary erogenous zone. I knew within her saying just a few syllables that she was an intellectual. By telling her a few things about herself (from astrology, body language and later handwriting analysis), I had her gushing. She later said she is primarily interested in smart men versus good looking men (and lucky for me). Keep an eye out for women who aren't into phones. They often dress in throwback clothing.
Why would you say that? I can usually tell if someone is bullsh!tting or not by how familiar their story seems, how it's structured, missing links, how they say it, their body language, how they are, and how other people think of that person. But why would you say that?
I watched Elliott Hulse and he talked about the word 'nice'. Niceness is essentially an act, whereas kindness comes from the core of a human. It's not justifying nice guy behavior, it's justifying a 'kind sociopath' type of behavior. There is a difference between b!tching and actually stressing or being upset over something. You can tell the difference. A lot of times people just want to talk to relieve some of the pain. They associate you with relief if you do it in the right way. But you need to know HOW to do it and WHEN. Because if you do it wrong, then they start to associate you with the bad and negative emotions they usually unload when you are around. What I am saying is to be the normal fun and lighthearted and playful type dude that you guys say will get you laid, BUT just don't be afraid to get a little sentimental every once in a while. That lets them open up to you and feel like you are a guy who can be caring, but actually still 'gets it' when it comes to women. Plus like I said, you figure out their inner workings which definitely can help in manipulation or even better, charm. You see the PERSON aspect of them so you know what turns them on not just as a woman, but as a person too.
Hey if the conversation is interesting and you are matching her energy by participating then have at it. If you feel yourself like some kind of psychiatrist listening to a patient then I would recommend aversion tactics.
So if you don't take the route that passes thru her mind on the way to what is under her panties, then what route do you take?
The route I take is faster paced. The route includes hormonal responses, arousal. Physical over verbal communication.
You didn't understand a thing of what I said.
I don't think anyone is suggesting that you should have deeper conversations with women; however, what is being said is that there are several things a woman will bring up that are not good things to discuss unless you are having regular sexual and she's emotionally invested. That's why politics, religion etc are not usually topics to talk about because while being charged is similar to a sexual state, you can be blown out because you take certain positions.
Well you don't talk about religion or politics or any of that to anyone really. Those are super touchy subjects lol. Those aren't exactly very EMOTIONAL topics either imo, just controversial.
It's not really the problems you should be paying attention to, it's WHY they are problems at all. Here's an example...
It's WHY, and how they deal with it. Then you gotta know WHY they dealt with it in that specific way. Because it let's you know their emotional standing towards everything and gives you a better idea how doing things would affect her emotional standing towards you.
And the guy probably got in his car and jacked off. We don't even know if he got her number or anything. Attention is worth very little to a man, where for women, it's everything.I was waiting for a train today.
A woman was nagging a man quite a bit on the platform. He was ignoring it.
The train arrived, and she finally said "are you listening to me?".
He replied, "yeah sure. Love you loads. See you later". And got on the train.
The guy was fat and ugly. The girl was a decent 6.
Alpha.
Eavesdropping on other people's sets is quite fun
Just my experience--but I've had years to watch the people who most readily & consistently talked about their problems. Those types generally aren't trying to do sh1t about it; but they'll use you to 1.) Validate their problems as being legitimate (by listening, sympathizing, etc.) or 2.) To garner your sympathy so that you enable their victimhood or 3.) To get you to call them out so that they can vindicate themselves as being even more of a victim.
