Since my most respected uncle don't acknowledgement me properly and acknowledges and respects everyone else in their job. I don't feel the need to respect him much.
Hi Juan. Wrong! Do respect ALL OF YOUR FAMILY. Including your uncle. I ate a dog on this, listen to me. I'll tell you a story or two at the end of this post, please do listen.
I want to know when I get a better paid job than my sister (although they will mistakenly think she is in a better paid job because she's a marketing manager) and I'm running a business, my uncle said my sister's rich, will he still call her rich? Even with the knowledge I'm doing financially well or will he still ignore me?
Something fishy here man. Inheritance is involved? I bet it is. It could be your grandparents inheritance, and even your parents inheritance.
Anyway, I promised you a story or two, so let's begin. Before 2010 I spend like 15 years in Miami with my mother and aunt, while my father (divorced when I was 7) was in Russia. On holidays I'd call him. Then in 2009, closer to new year, I called him, told him pap, I'm coming back, I'm fed up here. He began yelling at me, told me he has a new family. I didn't get his reaction until about a month later, when we find out that he has sold my mother's garage, which is located in a prime spot. I come to Russia in summer of 2010, and I meet him, he brought my passport over. He threw the passport at me, and told me to fvck off. No reason here, I didn't provoke anything like that. Then he told everyone else that I said fvck you to him, which I didn't. Eventually, because he did what he did, I sued him over his apartment, in which I was registered, I wanted half. I lost. From my interaction with him and with other family members from his side, in retrospect, it was obvious that they had a hand in all of it. Then in 2015 he died, I find out only two months later from 3rd persons. Nobody told me because of inheritance, by law I am allowed all of it, because he did not have a will. I did get apartment and car, I had to give land to family so there wouldn't be a lengthy court thingy. Plus I lost another garage, as it wasn't registered officially, plus my family cleaned his apartment, took everything, including the fridge. Turns out I am adopted, do you know what it is to find out you are adopted at age 35? The family, apparently my cousin, who is fsb, has found out that documents on me had mistakes, like my dad was in prison when I was adopted. Not that he didn't want to adopt me, because he had problems with sperm. But mistake is a mistake, in court it could have went either way. So two of my uncles, and there of my cousins, with whom I grew up, didn't bother to tell me that my father died.
Another story, this time from my mother's side family. We had this uncle, who has been doing opium since he was 17, then later he went on some synthetic sh1t, which eventually killed him at age 50 something. When I come here, I couldn't live with him under one roof. Every night he would have a party, get some b1tches, and do some drugs. He never had a job, so he'd ask me for money. Eventually I told him to fvck off, and left. My grandmother saw that I don't get along with him, and changed her will from my mother, to this uncle. Obviously, my uncle did some convincing, even married a young girl with two children, telling everyone that one of the sons is his. My grandma obviously believed him. Grandma died, left him a lot of land and house. I had to take it all back from him, won't tell you how it happened, but he did eventually sold some land, a small portion, and the rest of the land and house he wrote to my mother. The money of the land that he sold he shot into his arm in three days. 10 grand dollars went into his vein in 3 days. I did save the rest of land and the house! Of which I am proud.
Anyway, thing or two to learn here, is that you can not trust anyone, even your family. They could be lying to you all your life, you could be adopted. They could have special agenda behind your back. They could provoke you, they could manipulate you. Thing that you can be sure they want is the inheritance. Sounds terrible? Yes it is. People closest to you, uncles, brother of your father, does not give a fvck about his brother's son, just wants his brothers stuff. Uncle just wants to sell everything and get high. Be careful. Don't let anyone provoke you, and stay closer to people you love, that is your father, mother, and your grandparents. Stay even closer to people that can contest your love to your family, like your uncle.
