EmotionalGeek
Senior Don Juan
There is rather firm consensus in community that you do not pay for drinks in the club. I agree with that. I am not sure whether you should pay for first date when you ask girl out e.g. to caffe or not.
Do you try to indicate to her that you won't pay or just wait until she buys and pays and then buy your stuff?Depends on vibes I get from her, but usually not.
Imagine bill murray asking a girl if her wallet is too heavy to be lifted, basically the same tone of voice and face.Do you try to indicate to her that you won't pay or just wait until she buys and pays and then buy your stuff?
I found that most of the girls just like to walk in the park or some pretty street. What kind of activity do you take on dates?I don't do dinner first-dates. Not going to put $50 into someone's belly until they have slept with me more than once and they're worth keeping around. It's my way of making sure they're not just looking for a free meal. First dates for me are either an activity or something that doesn't cost much money, like ice cream or a drink at a dive bar. I always pay for these dates (even if ultimately I'm not attracted to them) unless she's a disrespectful twit whom I won't be calling again (or if I know she's not really attracted to me); though a women almost always offers to pay anyway. On a 2nd date they all usually offer to pay, and I let them. Then we usually just take turns paying for whatever.
I've noticed many women will not offer to pay if they don't seem interested in seeing me again. It's like they want to be compensated for having made a bad investment of their time. All the women who've offered to pay on a first date have all been the ones who've asked to see me again and who have slept with me.
It depends on how I've met them. Online? Usually it's an activity like ice skating, pool, bowling, batting cages, meeting at a lake or trail for a dog walk. The last one was a disaster though because she had diarreah on a hiking trail with her dog and kept having to go off in the woods. We hit it off well but i think she was so humiliated she ghosted me lol.I found that most of the girls just like to walk in the park or some pretty street. What kind of activity do you take on dates?