Im glad to hear many older guys here talking how great it is for them and how it gets better, it gives me hope and makes me question the way I operate since Im not getting any of what they talk about.
Im your average guy and for my entire life I didnt get any attention from girls given to me "for free", I dont mean money but I mean to put some work or to take some discomfort.
What I notice around me is that while many girls dont feel anything wrong in dating older guys, they suffer the shaming coming from the girls who apparently have a problem with it.
Those same girls which are fine with their friends fvcking around and getting fat, ignite the shaming machine if they happen to date older guys or guys who dont fit certain criteria, like those who call out their sh1t for example.
Being women sheep minded creatures who think colletively, I believe this is a huge problem.
I got hot girls gaming them alone but had infinite problems getting normal girls if the influence of their friends was present.
If her friends are engaged with two guys, they want her to be engaged with the third friend of their boyfriends so they can somehow build a familiar herd they can control.