Trying to get this Cougar who is seeing someone

[BeTheChange]

Lol. I don't beat women. And no I'm fine. Don't need more bathroom shots with you and your HB5... Anyway if you want to troll someone into a flame war you can find another target.

Your mental illness is getting boring now.

 

[Tenacity]

Lol. I don't beat women.

Why do you keep lying sir?

From your BPD Thread:

I did get physical, I won’t deny that and yes I was stupid, but these are the mistakes we make. I deserved it. All we can do is learn. I ended up getting a formal police caution, technically a criminal record,

Sounds like you beat a bytch and got arrested for it to me. But I digress.

And no I'm fine. Don't need more bathroom shots with you and your HB5....

Then why the fvck did you ask how my dating life was going lol? They are HB6 - HB7s to me, IDK where you get HB5 from but hey....to each their own lol.

 

[BeTheChange]

Grabbing someone by the arm is not the same as "beating". If I'd beat anyone I'd be in jail rather than simply getting a slap on the wrists. Try harder next time.

You're getting delusional and don't seem to understand the concept of a rhetorical question by the looks of things either. She's a hb5 mate but each to their own. Someone has to take care of the uglies.

 

[Tenacity]

Grabbing someone by the arm is not the same as "beating". If I'd beat anyone I'd be in jail rather than simply getting a slap on the wrists. Try harder next time.

Oh now you "grabbed the chick by the arm" lol? That's not what you said in your thread. You're just a liar dude.

You're getting delusional and don't seem to understand the concept of a rhetorical question by the looks of things either. She's a hb5 mate but each to their own. Someone has to take care of the uglies.

.....the girl I posted is a solid HB6 to me. Nice tits, nice a.ss, flat waist, and she has a cute face when she's all fixed up. But I am spinning some other chicks that I believe are solid HB8s, you asked how my dating life was going (no matter if you were serious in asking the question or not) so I'm happy to show you how it's going

 

[BeTheChange]

Post a direct quote with the link that contradicts I did anything other than grab her by the arm. There we go. Delusional. Have fun.

 

[Tenacity]

Post a direct quote with the link that contradicts I did anything other than grab her by the arm. There we go. Delusional. Have fun.

Lol, I already did.

 

[BeTheChange]

No, you really didn't. Lol...it's like talking to a 5 year old...with severe BPD and beta tendencies. I'm out.

 

[Tenacity]

No, you really didn't. Lol...it's like talking to a 5 year old...with severe BPD and beta tendencies. I'm out.

.....now you throw a childish temper tantrum and start name-calling? You and your extreme MGTOW/Spin Plates Forever crew do this every time you are called out on one of your one-dimensional posts.

To get back the the context of this thread, as I stated prior, BB's advice was much more reality-based because in the real world....there are no techniques. It's not what you say, it's who is saying it and it's how they say it.

- Fat, broke, Steve flirts with a woman..........she calls that sexual harassment.

- Well-dressed, athletic, out-going Ted flirts with a woman........she calls that a blessing from God.

It's not what you say.....it's who is saying it. BB's advice is that he already has fixed his attraction levels to the point of where the woman is attracted to him initially on sight. Any guy can implement this same level of attraction by just working on this looks, personality, finances, appearance, body language, etc.

 

[BeTheChange]

I value my time. Arguing with a troll who very possibly has severe mental issues isn't the best use of it. Happy to debate with anyone else though.

Posts like yours that deliberately caricature the other side or make up comments that weren't even said will simply be ignored. My advice works for me. Everyone else is free to ignore it or follow it based on its own merits.

 

[Tenacity]

I value my time. Arguing with a troll who very possibly has severe mental issues isn't the best use of it.

Lol, now he's a licensed Psychologist who apparently through a keyboard and a computer monitor, can diagnose if someone has a mental disorder. Sir would you like to PM a prescription for medication lol?

You said in October you were adding me to your Ignore List. Somehow, someway, I got the fvck off that list. Apparently, you LIED about adding me to the Ignore List...just like you just lied about beating women. It's just exactly what I've been saying about these extreme, one-dimensional, Poon King/MGTOW folks this entire time. They are LIARS, fake, phony, and full of shyt.

They are running away quality posters from this website, who aren't on this one-dimensional, extreme, red pill, spin plates forever bullshyt.......and I'm tired of it.

My advice works for me. Everyone else is free to ignore it or follow it based on its own merits.

Okay but that's not what you said before. When you chimed in disagreeing with BB's point of view (a point of view I agreed with), you specifically said that a guy following his point of view is a CLOWN and it would only work on warthogs, attention-starved women, and women approaching the wall.

You provided (yet again) a one-dimensional approach to this shyt (like you and Poon King always do)....then when somebody disagrees with the one-dimensional bullshyt...you start your dumb a.ss name-calling.

 

[Reyaj]

Always love the side tracking of threads to pissing contests lol

Anyway in case you all didn't comprehend or read the latest updates I made... this girl was really trying to meet me and was getting upset when I didn't respond fast enough (or what she deemed as fast enough) to her texts. I ended up flaking on her basically twice to hang out... For the hell of it I sent her a "Happy Thanksgiving" text yesterday, she responded positiviely and we made small talk. For the sake of this whole experiment... I'll try to meet up with her and get her into bed in a few weeks. I am busy all of next week so I'll have to shoot for the week after. I feel like when I start texting her she gets anxious for the meet, so maybe I'll wait till next week to iniaite contact.

The other pof girl who gave me a hand job (and 10 second BJ) did not respond to my Thanksgiving text. I think since I never really asked her out again she probably has some defense mechanism where she doesn't want to get hurt and sort of mentally nexts guys just like we do to girls.

 

[Reyaj]

So she's been texting and being nice. She had to recently go to the hospital, so I've asked her how she was feeling etc... I text this woman sparingly though. Maybe next week when I confirm she is over her health issue, I'll try and meet her. I already flaked on her twice when we were supposed to meet so I barely have one more shot.

 

[backbreaker]

You guys care more than I do because frankly I don't give a **** what anyone has to say bout my baby lol.


Someone else summed it up. If a girl is into you, there is nothing you can say that is going to be bad game. If a girl is not into you, there is you can say that is going to be good game.


Game is within the context of existing attraction.but there are no words or behavior that can turn a switch that is off, on

My wife and I had been eye ****ing each other for a week lol I knew she was checking me out and she knew I was checking her out so what is the point in playing a charade in which we acted like we weren't?


I have anexiry issues, im quiet, I dont like crowds of people and honestly im still do this day quite shy tho you'd never be able to tell. But I work out 5 days a week and have my entire adult life, I dress my ass off, im handsome and I make a lot of money,, I can go up to a woman and say goonie goo goo lol and she'd say im original lol.


At the end of the day this isnt a pissing contest. I have been here what....14 years now (damn lol). ,there is nothing the op is doing I have not once done, worse. You just see someone making the same mistakes you did, no one should have to go down the rabbit hole I wenr down chasing a broad who chose someone not me but strung me along for 6 ****ing years. Y.e.a.r.s. Thats 6 years I'll never get back. I ****ed over some good women behind that 6 year resentment. I missed a lot of opportunities. I suffered a lot of emotional damage behind that.


This women doesnt like you. Its that cut and dry. Not because every one here is smarter than you or is better. We've literally all been exactly where you are right now

More than anything you have to workbon building yourself up. Having someone in your life that daily reminds you that you are a backup plan is not acceptable


People never want to hold themselves accountable for anything. A year from now when she gets engaged to this dude, and cuts you off, you dont get the right to come here talking xhit about women, because you put yourself in this situation not her willingly on a daily basis.

 

[Reyaj]

Alright I totally fvcked up and you have every right to put me down and talk svhit... I am admitting this though... I got a little drunk yesterday and she told me one of her male friends just got divorced and moved in with her. I basically told her that disqualified any potential relationship we could ever have. She accused me of being insecure and I made a sarcastic comment about her being a home wrecker. She told me that neither he nor her have ever had romantic feelings towards each other and she was a good friend. She then said she has a lot of male friends I'd need to be cool with if I ever wanted to see her. I told her I better go listen to Spice Girls wannabe lol she replied back that she didn't know the song.

Anyway I shouldn't have gave a fvck since this girl was just going to be a potential lay to me. Damn alcohol lol I haven't texted her since. Again you have the right to kill me for this display of actions.

 

[backbreaker]

I met this girl who was married once and she put it on me so bad I let her move in during the week. She stayed 45 mins from work and was a bar tender and I lived literally down the street from her job.
That's the same line she gave him. I was ****ing the dog **** out of that womAn.


Lol for alk tge slack I took in this thread, literally, exactly what I told you was going to happen, happened.

The quicker you realize the game is not to get any woman to **** you, but realizing which ones are worth ****ing in the first place the better off you will be


T hi a woman is of low quality and will lead you by the nose for as long as you let her. She doesn't like you. At all. Whatsoever. She likes drama. She is a classic freak on the backbreaker women types chart. She values excitement and drama over responsibility and security. You having your **** together means absolutely nothing to her othe than her knowung youre worth keeping around in case **** hitsvths fan. Your her **** hits the fan guy. Thats why she is playing hot and cold with you, not because she has genuine feelings for you.

What you have to realize that your self worth is not tied to this womans opinion of you. See, you don't really like her. You're a,smart guy and you've seen too many red flags to not understand she is low quality. Your ego however is making you stick around because your ego takes it as a personal insult that this woman isnt into you. She, being a woman, knows this sub consciously. Its the chase that's keeping you around and she's just playing it up.

We spin plates to qualify women. The more plates you spin the less you're going to put up with. You don't want to **** all the women. Half the game uz knowing when to walk away


Walk away

 

[backbreaker]

Here is an.analogy. I was watching Alabama yesterday with their awesome defense. They have a scud missle at middle linebacker and vdefendive tackles that move like linebackers. One play flordia qb threw the ball 20 yards out of bounds and the sideline for Florida was happy. Because Alabama's defense is so nasty, not turning the ball over and giving up defensive touchdown is considered to be a win.

The next drive, qb throws an interception for a touchdown lol.


What im saying is, some women ****ing is a win. Some, marriage is a win. Some, literally making it out alive is a win lol. I had a woman once when I told her I was leaving for my now wife throwva vase at me, knock me unconcious and triggered seizure which I have a history of. Me making it out of that crazy bitches life with my life still in tact was a win. I sexed her. Quite often lol. It made things worse because she was bat **** crazy. She wanted me and would not take no for an answer

You, leaving right now with your finances in tact, notvknocking her up, because I assure you this is the one that will takebir there if that is what it takes to get what she wants, either making someone else jealous or securing your affection when she has no more options she'll do it, not being taken for half your ****, not being introduced to drugs, because whatever she's doing youre going to do because you're sprung and I assure you she has a plug all freaks do, or not pitting you against some dude and having them try to kill you for nothing.thats a win

You can walk away from all that right now. Let that be someone else's problem not yours

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Here is an.analogy. I was watching Alabama yesterday with their awesome defense. They have a scud missle at middle linebacker and vdefendive tackles that move like linebackers. One play flordia qb threw the ball 20 yards out of bounds and the sideline for Florida was happy. Because Alabama's defense is so nasty, not turning the ball over and giving up defensive touchdown is considered to be a win.

The next drive, qb throws an interception for a touchdown lol.


What im saying is, some women ****ing is a win. Some, marriage is a win. Some, literally making it out alive is a win lol. I had a woman once when I told her I was leaving for my now wife throwva vase at me, knock me unconcious and triggered seizure which I have a history of. Me making it out of that crazy bitches life with my life still in tact was a win. I sexed her. Quite often lol. It made things worse because she was bat **** crazy. She wanted me and would not take no for an answer

You, leaving right now with your finances in tact, notvknocking her up, because I assure you this is the one that will takebir there if that is what it takes to get what she wants, either making someone else jealous or securing your affection when she has no more options she'll do it, not being taken for half your ****, not being introduced to drugs, because whatever she's doing youre going to do because you're sprung and I assure you she has a plug all freaks do, or not pitting you against some dude and having them try to kill you for nothing.thats a win

You can walk away from all that right now. Let that be someone else's problem not yours

What does "she has a plug" mean? A drug supplier or something?

 

[backbreaker]

What does "she has a plug" mean? A drug supplier or something?

https://lmgtfy.com/?q=what+is+a+plug+slang

 

[Reyaj]

Hey BB I appreciate everything you said. I think like some others though you've gotten the wrong impression of my feelings towards this woman. I used to get defensive when people would do this but I realize we're only human and can only infer what we can based on what's written without really being in my shoes or knowing all the details arond it.

I realize she is of low quality and this whole thing was really an experiment to see if I could get the lay. She definitely was into me this 2nd time around, but as I've written I flaked on her twice. She still was being responsive and then mentioned that divorced guy that moved in... It actually was probably some sort of a shvit test which I admit I failed... but I failed it partially because I was drunk and partially because it felt better to call her out on her stupidity than continue seeking the lay. You are right though that maybe it's better I avoid her completely as she clearly isn't all there upstairs. I haven't texted her since the correspondence nor has she texted me. I bet if I wanted to I could text her Merry Christmas or some bs and potentially start it up again. It was funny because I forgot to mention she was trying to defend herself saying something "Remember I didn't want to meet you cause I was seeing someone" or some bs like that. Doesn't really matter.. I've treated this girl like someone at the bottom of my rotation, if she meant more to me I wouldn't have flaked on her on the two opportunities I had to meet her. If I'm bored and I end up randomly texting her, and I have nothing better to do than meet her (meaning nothing higher priority which I already have), then maybe it will happen. Other than that she is at the bottom of my list (barely even on it).

 

[Reyaj]

I messaged her the other day, she gave a little resistance mentioning that she was still living with that guy, I joked about her not letting things go... she still wants to meet. As has been the case she is far down on the back burner.