Trainwreck
Master Don Juan
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I've been long distance dating her for like 3 years and was literally at the other end of the country for half a year and I have never had this feeling before. Like it is that feeling you just know something is up, but you don't have any evidence to back up. She's 20 in college and I'm 23 with a real job, so there's a huge difference in maturity and personalities. She actually acts like she is 17 and I feel like I am becoming too old for her. I could write a whole another topic on this, but I just wanted to put this out here. It's to the point where I'm embarrassed to be with her and I'm hiding the relationship from my friends and family. I'm looking on Tinder and bumble to monkey branch, but so far it's been empty haha. Either way, here are 3 things I can think of to why I have this feeling.
1) She's in a sorority and she just got this little that is bad news. This girl is a mudshark(hangs around and screws black thugs), smokes weed, and has nothing going for her in life. Plus, I don't think this girl likes me because I'm the exact opposite of a black thug and she thinks i'm an *******. I know how easily girls can succumb to group think and peer pressure, so all it takes is for her to just go out hanging out with this girl on a weekend and she could be put in a situation in which she could cheat on me.
2) She seems kind of reluctant to visit me this weekend. Usually she would confirm plans the Monday of if she wanted to come see me or I come see her, but she didn't do it this week. In addition, she preferred to party last weekend rather than see me so I went to Atlanta lol. I'm supposed to go to her formal party thing next weekend, but I'm starting to have second doubts on going. The weekend before last weekend, she was reluctant to put out and the sex was horrible. I would not be surprised if she pulled the same stunt that weekend.
3) Hasn't texted me since noon today which is rare. This might be an overreaction though lol.
So guys what do yall think? Am I just being paranoid or do I have the right to feel this way based on the reasons I have posted.
I've been long distance dating her for like 3 years and was literally at the other end of the country for half a year and I have never had this feeling before. Like it is that feeling you just know something is up, but you don't have any evidence to back up. She's 20 in college and I'm 23 with a real job, so there's a huge difference in maturity and personalities. She actually acts like she is 17 and I feel like I am becoming too old for her. I could write a whole another topic on this, but I just wanted to put this out here. It's to the point where I'm embarrassed to be with her and I'm hiding the relationship from my friends and family. I'm looking on Tinder and bumble to monkey branch, but so far it's been empty haha. Either way, here are 3 things I can think of to why I have this feeling.
1) She's in a sorority and she just got this little that is bad news. This girl is a mudshark(hangs around and screws black thugs), smokes weed, and has nothing going for her in life. Plus, I don't think this girl likes me because I'm the exact opposite of a black thug and she thinks i'm an *******. I know how easily girls can succumb to group think and peer pressure, so all it takes is for her to just go out hanging out with this girl on a weekend and she could be put in a situation in which she could cheat on me.
2) She seems kind of reluctant to visit me this weekend. Usually she would confirm plans the Monday of if she wanted to come see me or I come see her, but she didn't do it this week. In addition, she preferred to party last weekend rather than see me so I went to Atlanta lol. I'm supposed to go to her formal party thing next weekend, but I'm starting to have second doubts on going. The weekend before last weekend, she was reluctant to put out and the sex was horrible. I would not be surprised if she pulled the same stunt that weekend.
3) Hasn't texted me since noon today which is rare. This might be an overreaction though lol.
So guys what do yall think? Am I just being paranoid or do I have the right to feel this way based on the reasons I have posted.