Listen_to_Olly
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- Oct 6, 2016
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I've always prided myself on this, an amazing feeling to have. Nothing really feels that much better than to be at the top of a social hierarchy, especially as a guy. Knowing that it is you and an exclusive group of people at the top, hot girls being a part of that, and everyone else wanting to either be you or have your situation.
For your high school days, the game was pretty obvious. So many guys were trying to get laid and party, you knew who the cool kids were based on who the hot girls were hanging out with. A lot of these guys enjoyed getting laid at parties, drinking for the first time, having some amazing social gatherings, going on date with hot girls, and the whole package. All the while the "nerds" were staying in and were notified of their lower social status.
College was more or less the same, except for most universities in the United States it involved playing a sport or being in Greek Life. Still you had things like themed parties where hot girls would only call a certain group of guys over. You had the typical hierarchy still in place with certain groups of guys and hot girls at the top of it and everyone else down below.
Now lets get to the chaos known as the adult world, where you're no longer forced to see the same people over and over again.
What would make a guy high status and popular but most importantly, how would that hierarchy even look?
I mean if you're the typical accountant, doctor, or white collar professional you're working really hard and making a good amount of money. Now that being said, you still aren't having that much sex or anything.
Celebrities are the clear winners here but that isn't attainable for most guys.
Being at the top of a social hierarchy is what really made the game that much more enjoyable for me in my younger days. Now in the adult world, it seems like the social hierarchy might exist but it is more based on what neighborhood you live in, how your kids are doing, and that kind of ****.
The parties are gone, the debauchery is no longer there, or any of that. Maybe I am not seeing something but obviously, there must be a social hierarchy in the adult world that separates guys who are winners from guys who are losers. Not only that, winners must congregate towards other winners but how would that crowd even look like in your 30s and onwards?
Who would be the higher status or popular kids of the adult world?
For your high school days, the game was pretty obvious. So many guys were trying to get laid and party, you knew who the cool kids were based on who the hot girls were hanging out with. A lot of these guys enjoyed getting laid at parties, drinking for the first time, having some amazing social gatherings, going on date with hot girls, and the whole package. All the while the "nerds" were staying in and were notified of their lower social status.
College was more or less the same, except for most universities in the United States it involved playing a sport or being in Greek Life. Still you had things like themed parties where hot girls would only call a certain group of guys over. You had the typical hierarchy still in place with certain groups of guys and hot girls at the top of it and everyone else down below.
Now lets get to the chaos known as the adult world, where you're no longer forced to see the same people over and over again.
What would make a guy high status and popular but most importantly, how would that hierarchy even look?
I mean if you're the typical accountant, doctor, or white collar professional you're working really hard and making a good amount of money. Now that being said, you still aren't having that much sex or anything.
Celebrities are the clear winners here but that isn't attainable for most guys.
Being at the top of a social hierarchy is what really made the game that much more enjoyable for me in my younger days. Now in the adult world, it seems like the social hierarchy might exist but it is more based on what neighborhood you live in, how your kids are doing, and that kind of ****.
The parties are gone, the debauchery is no longer there, or any of that. Maybe I am not seeing something but obviously, there must be a social hierarchy in the adult world that separates guys who are winners from guys who are losers. Not only that, winners must congregate towards other winners but how would that crowd even look like in your 30s and onwards?
Who would be the higher status or popular kids of the adult world?