ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
So I got a girlfriend for the first time in like 4 years and we broke up several days ago (she initiated). I never really focused on women too much prior to this, except toying around with them here and there and trying some of the stuff you guys say every once in a while, but overall I was trying to focus on myself and just have fun and build a social network. Well anyway this girl literally threw herself to me when we first met. She was definitely not relationship material but I figured I might as well get some experience in with all of this 'cultivating' and 'preparing' I did for once I actually did get into a relationship. She was a 7, maybe a 7.5 on a good day when I first met her. 3 months later she is a 5, maybe a 5.5 lol.
But anyway, right before we separated she was being all whiny and being a drama queen and stuff so I do me and just ignore it and leave her to herself. She kept texting her friends that she is upset and that I should be there. I do my part and do ask what's up (not like a b!tch mind you, I keep it a bit lighthearted and try to have some fun with it and she does laugh too), but I told her "Look, I don't beg. It's just not me. I'm gonna ask one more time what's wrong or I'm gonna leave" and she tells me to just go. I don't beg. Fvck. That. So anyway I end up going back inside to go bowling with our friends and stuff (our circle went out bowling this specific night) and they're telling me how I need to be there for her more. I explain my red pill side in a socially acceptable way and they totally get my side but say that I need to be there for her more just a little bit. Well anyway I really didn't care too much about what they are thinking, I mean I was listening here and there just to be able to respond back to them, but in my mind I was thinking "What is more beneficial to me? What do I gain from this?" like the sociopath I am haha and all the time talking to them faking that I did care a little when I could care less whether the girl died the next day. Overall, I stuck with it just to see how things would play out, but one thing struck me, while we were talking about my now ex, one of her friends was saying "I get that you have pride but like come on, you gotta care a little bit. Forget about it just go to her" and she was pausing a little too at some parts, insinuating that I should 'forget my pride'.
I was appalled by this implication but I did not show it. It gets me wondering though, why would someone ever forget their pride? When would it ever come useful in real life situations? I could understand toning it down, but to give it up is outrageous.
But anyway, right before we separated she was being all whiny and being a drama queen and stuff so I do me and just ignore it and leave her to herself. She kept texting her friends that she is upset and that I should be there. I do my part and do ask what's up (not like a b!tch mind you, I keep it a bit lighthearted and try to have some fun with it and she does laugh too), but I told her "Look, I don't beg. It's just not me. I'm gonna ask one more time what's wrong or I'm gonna leave" and she tells me to just go. I don't beg. Fvck. That. So anyway I end up going back inside to go bowling with our friends and stuff (our circle went out bowling this specific night) and they're telling me how I need to be there for her more. I explain my red pill side in a socially acceptable way and they totally get my side but say that I need to be there for her more just a little bit. Well anyway I really didn't care too much about what they are thinking, I mean I was listening here and there just to be able to respond back to them, but in my mind I was thinking "What is more beneficial to me? What do I gain from this?" like the sociopath I am haha and all the time talking to them faking that I did care a little when I could care less whether the girl died the next day. Overall, I stuck with it just to see how things would play out, but one thing struck me, while we were talking about my now ex, one of her friends was saying "I get that you have pride but like come on, you gotta care a little bit. Forget about it just go to her" and she was pausing a little too at some parts, insinuating that I should 'forget my pride'.
I was appalled by this implication but I did not show it. It gets me wondering though, why would someone ever forget their pride? When would it ever come useful in real life situations? I could understand toning it down, but to give it up is outrageous.