Advice on what to text this girl I banged last night in my car.

[Shootin4Dreams]

I met this girl after a concert I went to last night well, I saw her when I went to this bar and she was talking to some guy so I figured I would come back later. So when I went back she was with her friend so I thought I would give it a shot. She was interested right off the bat, had this nice white dress on, had a great shape, some blue stuff on her lips I made a joke about. We got along pretty well, vibed and she was leaning in close to me so when I mentioned about her lips I went in and kissed them and we would make out several times and I would be just holding her and grabbing her ass alot because she had a nice ass. We pretty much talked for a like a half hour and she wanted my number, so I wanted to try to pull her. I wasn't sure what to do she would not leave with me said she wanted to stay with her friends. So I invited her to come have a shot in my car and she was down. luckily I wasnt parked far and she wasnt too drunk where she would puke like the other girl lol. We had a shot and toasted and then i started making out and kissing her thighs and then put her panties a little bit where I could play with her *****. I pulled up her dress, the annoying part with my lights were on in my car and I could not figure out how to turn them off but I did not care really and just wanted to go for it so I got my condom luckily i had one and did it. Right after we were about down her friend called her said they had to go so she ended up having to leave.

I want to know what I could text this girl today? As I do want to keep seeing her and ****ing her and hang out. I finally have fixed my inner issues I have had with women, and I am not saying as much dumb **** anymore and just having fun and chill conversations getting to know her and enjoying the woman.

I do see alot of you people on here being negative about women....
If there is one piece of advice I can give, if you want to have fun with women and enjoy them YOU CANNOT be negative or be following that MGTOW crap because I was doing that and it ruined my brain and how I felt for a good while. Look women are going to do what they want to do, you have to just let it go, they will come and go out of your life and you have to just accept it. I learned to just have fun with the woman and enjoy her and just try to play the game do NOT take them serious if they want to leave they will, if they stay they stay. NEVER GET ATTACHED OR CARE about a woman JUST HAVE FUN WITH THEM and know what they want of course but don't let it get to your head. Only think about the fun times you will have with the female and enjoy her femininity.

 

[marmel75]

I'd text her something silly like "hey...I'm gonna need you to come over and detail my car...my seats are soaked!!! Naughty girl! "

 

[Shootin4Dreams]

Yeah she wont reply. What gets a girl to reply what is her deal even though we had sex a woman would still ignore you??

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Nothing. Let her text you and ask about it.

 

[grayclif]

Nothing. Enjoy it for what it was. If she wants more she'll reach out to you.

 

[CMNILS87]

Let her reply to you is good if she thinks it's a ONS. I don't see any problem with a, "I had a bunch of fun last night, let's hang again soon". Both ways have worked for me. If she was just looking for ****, she won't reply either way. If she does, game on.

 

[Shootin4Dreams]

Obviously i shoulda said let's keep in touch or i dont want this to be ons?? Cuz after we had sex it was kind of a peace out she had to go. Did i not make her emotionally feel right afterwards?

 

[devilkingx2]

Obviously i shoulda said let's keep in touch or i dont want this to be ons?? Cuz after we had sex it was kind of a peace out she had to go. Did i not make her emotionally feel right afterwards?

if she left in a hurry without you kicking her out then she likely thought it was an ONS and had to get back home to her boyfriend or sorority house or whatever.

 

[Julian]

yeah idk man..i used to be like u. i cant just enjoy a woman being a slut anymore aka fking random guy in his car at a bar...maybe the dude she was with earlier was her ltr bf she lives with who went home early because he had to work. idk bro good job an all that but i cant reward these wh0res. dont txt this slut.

 

[El Payaso]

Sounds like you're already getting attached...

 

[marmel75]

Sounds like you're already getting attached...

My thoughts...sometimes it's just what it is...she was horny and you presented yourself as a valid option...if it wasn't you it would have been someone else

 

[stevo]

Look women are going to do what they want to do, you have to just let it go, they will come and go out of your life and you have to just accept it. do NOT take them serious if they want to leave they will, if they stay they stay. NEVER GET ATTACHED OR CARE about a woman JUST HAVE FUN WITH THEM, don't let it get to your head.

Take your own advise.

There's nothing to text. Let her reach out to you if she wants. In the mean time keep spinning.

 

[dustmuffin]

Don't fixate on this one girl. She may have only wanted a ons. You texted her let her reply. If she dosent so what?

 

[Arcturus]

If she won't reply it means she wanted a night of fun and now feels like a slut every time she thinks of you or that night. She'd rather not see you and be reminded of it. Better to just move on. If you really want a reply, you can bait her with a text that is nearly impossible to ignore. "Wild night last night, ran into some friends and they knew you so well, can't believe we know so many people in common." She'll be dying to know who it was and what was said. When she replies say, "hey can't talk right now, about to walk into a meeting, but if you're free for drinks at ___, love to catch up and chat about it." When you meet up, just be like "oh I'm sorry I thought it was you, but it turns out it was another girl."

 

[Shootin4Dreams]

Should I not have sex with a woman the same night unless she comes home with me?

 

[marmel75]

Should I not have sex with a woman the same night unless she comes home with me?

Nah, she might not have come home with you...you need to understand that sometimes what it is is all it is and that they are just available for that period of time and nothing more.

It's nothing you did, it's not about you, it's just how it works sometimes. Maybe all she wanted was to get laid...she might have someone she is seeing, have a boyfriend, etc...you had her for that moment and peaked her interest enough for her to Fvck you...but sometimes that's all it is.

Now just keep doing the same thing you did and you'll be swimming in pvssy before you know it.

 

[marmel75]

I would hang up on u with this msg.

Of course you would reading it because you are thinking about it logically instead of the way you'd read it after you just banged a guy in the car

 

[devilkingx2]

Should I not have sex with a woman the same night unless she comes home with me?

if a woman wants to have sex the same night you meet she's not looking for a relationship unless she's really easy in general.

 

[RedBear]

If she won't reply it means she wanted a night of fun and now feels like a slut every time she thinks of you or that night. She'd rather not see you and be reminded of it. Better to just move on. If you really want a reply, you can bait her with a text that is nearly impossible to ignore. "Wild night last night, ran into some friends and they knew you so well, can't believe we know so many people in common." She'll be dying to know who it was and what was said. When she replies say, "hey can't talk right now, about to walk into a meeting, but if you're free for drinks at ___, love to catch up and chat about it." When you meet up, just be like "oh I'm sorry I thought it was you, but it turns out it was another girl."

This!
If you want to avoid this in the future let her invest into you and build intimacy before banging.

 

[womensview]

Of course you would reading it because you are thinking about it logically instead of the way you'd read it after you just banged a guy in the car

That has nothing to do with how I am reading it. The statement is what it is and I would not give him the time of day. If he actually wants to see her again he should actually invite her to an activity like dinner or an event. This shows he wants to spend time with her and get to know her as a person.