My Dyck Wouldn't Get Up - Questions

[SkrooU]

It's happened to me when I thought the chick was just expecting me to get hard with no build up or foreplay at all, like I'm a machine or something. The thing that sucks is once it doesn't get up, it's generally not getting up because now I'm under pressure to get it up.
Though I have learned that putting my finger inside her and slowly finger fvcking her and feeling her get wet generally helps for some reason, almost everytime. I just don't let her know why I'm doing it.

 

[Solomon]

**** happens

For me usually it's stress induce

Maca root+tribulus terrestirs=Harder than a Rock

also if you don't jerk off for a week or two watch your erections go to super saiyain levels

Nofap is real

 

[speed dawg]

Never have more than a couple drinks if fvcking is in the evening plans.

This is the ticket. I was never good at the drunk 2 am f*cks. 2 drinks to take the edge off and I'm ready to go.

If that's not it, then it's just in your mind.

 

[skinnyguy]

It's a catch -22 for me. I was drinking a lot with this girl, and if I hadn't drank a lot I probably wouldn't have gotten her into bed cause I'm more social when I'm drinking. But once we got back to my place...nothing. She was disappointed.

 

[BeExcellent]

Keep in mind a woman who likes you/cares about you is going to exhibit compassion under the circumstances. She should care more about you and be good to you in that moment.

She can (and will) enjoy the ride later. All sorts of things can cause it; alcohol, stress, performance anxiety, age, fatigue, etc. Just being in the present & building sexual tension can go a long way to building connection & sexual satisfaction. Johnson just took the night off. It happens. Morning usually a different story. Don't wring your hands over it. You'll be fine.

 

[speed dawg]

Keep in mind a woman who likes you/cares about you is going to exhibit compassion under the circumstances. She should care more about you and be good to you in that moment.

She can (and will) enjoy the ride later. All sorts of things can cause it; alcohol, stress, performance anxiety, age, fatigue, etc. Just being in the present & building sexual tension can go a long way to building connection & sexual satisfaction. Johnson just took the night off. It happens. Morning usually a different story. Don't wring your hands over it. You'll be fine.

This is true, and the more I think about it, MOST of the time it's probably performance anxiety. Sounds like from the OP he's been trying to get with this girl for a while so I'm guessing this is it, combined with the drinking and all. Just have to relax and go with it. Don't overthink it.

 

[Alvafe]

Keep in mind a woman who likes you/cares about you is going to exhibit compassion under the circumstances. She should care more about you and be good to you in that moment.

She can (and will) enjoy the ride later. All sorts of things can cause it; alcohol, stress, performance anxiety, age, fatigue, etc. Just being in the present & building sexual tension can go a long way to building connection & sexual satisfaction. Johnson just took the night off. It happens. Morning usually a different story. Don't wring your hands over it. You'll be fine.

more likely she will think or you don't find her hot enough to get hard, or is having someone else if is a LTR.

I had that once, the girl was not really that hot, but I was kinda new on the whole thing so I tried to pull her for a quick sex, I didn't get really rock hard and she was kinda pushing me a lot, in the end it was not really that good and good thing she don't ever called me again lol

long story short? I know what did happen back in that day anxiety with really nothing going on with her.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Hmmm.

Try not to drink more than 2-3 drinks if you gotta perform that night. Pay attention to your diet and keep working out. Maybe cut back on wanking a bit.

Most importantly, this is probably all in your head because you sound like you like this girl a bit. Add another plate or two to knock this one chick down a level.

Do you do kegel exercises? Regular practice with that strengthens erections and lowers refractory period. You can blow a load and often keep the erection after.

 

[Desdinova]

Viagra wears off in 3-4 hours.

I find it wears off around the 12 hour point. I can take it the night before, fvck the hell out of her, and then do it again in the morning.

I get sleepy-dik quite often which is why I have the v-pills. If I'm tired, exhausted, stressed or whatever, I won't perform worth a damn. She's caught me off guard a few times and I've been fine, so I know I'm not 100% non-functional

When it doesn't work, I just go down on her or finger her until I bring her to orgasm and she's happy. Treat it as if it's no big deal, and she'll do the same. If you act like you've got leprosy, she will too.

 

[Reyaj]

As we can see from the responses this happens to the best of us. The alcohol thing is funny though cause although it's known to cause performance issues, it usually helps me because it relaxes me and I think it makes me horny at times.. The bottom line though is that performance anxiety is all mental... The more you start thinking about it the more internal pressure you put on yourself to perform which ends up having the opposite effect.

I have to say I have never used any pills, so interested to see so much usage of them. Are there any side affects of using them? How soon after you take them do you notice you get hornier? Do you need a prescription? Educate me

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

Viagra takes about 30 minutes to kick in. Viagra doesn't make you horny. It gives you a stronger longer lasting erections once you're already aroused by restricting blood from leaving the penis during the erection. Common side effects are feeling lightheaded or getting a headache after use but in my experience the benifits outweigh the few mild side effects. You will need a prescription but they are easy to get. Just tell your doctor you can't get it up and he'll prescribe them to you.

 

[Tenacity]

The chick this thread is about came over yesterday evening and spent the night (she just left about 2 hours ago). I had no issues with my DYCK getting up this time . I think we had a good 5 fvck sessions, plus I ate her out a lot of times.

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

5!!!!! Well done...

 

[ubercat]

5 wow she s a ruggedized unit. It is amazing what they can take. Still sperm Wars etc kind of proved they were designed to be gang banged.

 

[Reyaj]

lol this happened to me quite a few times. One is my baby moms. I just can't get hard for her. Maybe its because I've smashed her for 2+ years but idk. I honestly dont care because I get hard with other girls easily.

Also I had trouble getting it up with a girl I met in Vegas. The pu$$y was too damn easy to get that I didn't really get hard until she sucked me off. Once I got it up I fked her as quick as I could and went to bed.

Please post in my "Are we meant to have one woman as life partner" thread. You get it...

Viagra takes about 30 minutes to kick in. Viagra doesn't make you horny. It gives you a stronger longer lasting erections once you're already aroused by restricting blood from leaving the penis during the erection. Common side effects are feeling lightheaded or getting a headache after use but in my experience the benifits outweigh the few mild side effects. You will need a prescription but they are easy to get. Just tell your doctor you can't get it up and he'll prescribe them to you.

Does it make you last longer? Does it make you get hard again quicker after you cvm? I don't really have issues getting erections unless I jack off too much.. Just want to see how this would benefit me.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Does it make you last longer? Does it make you get hard again quicker after you cvm?

Yes and yes, in my experience.

I just ordered again from alldaychemist - the speed of their shipping has improved.

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

Viagra has a desensitizing effect which may help you last longer. It will make you rock hard with only a slight amount of arousal. Once you take the pill it lasts for several hours so yes you should be good to go again as long as you get aroused enough.

 

[HeadLightsOn]

Are you on Tren or any other muscle building steriods? In this instance having too much booze will affect you, but being on the pills or juice will screw you long term. Regardless of what some idiots on this forum say.

 

[LiveFreeX]

Maybe youre just not into her. The dyck wants what it wants.

 

[MrWood]

your telling a 32yo to get Viagra? WTF

Im 50 and never tried it, never felt I needed to.

Bro, I urge you to not take or try anything like that, unless you have had serious erection issues... and you havent.