Women that (sometimes) *squirt* when they cvm

[LiveYourDream]

Disclaimer: The *squirt* I am referring to is not pee. Please don't perpetuate misinformation and suggest it is. Hopefully everyone here already knows better. If not, please go get yourself properly educated (elsewhere).

I've wanted to post for help with this for quite some time. I've felt self conscious and hesitant. As a woman it feels really intimate, personal and vulnerable for me. It is time for me to ask anyway. Here goes...

1. As a man, what do you think/feel about women squirting when they cvm?

2. I need help with something more specific too. I don't necessarily know in advance, if a man is one I'll squirt up a storm with, or one I'll never squirt at all with. How can I best approach that, considering there is such a wide spectrum of possibility of how my body may respond to sex with him (slippery wet all the way up tsunami), in combination with how he may feel about women squirting, and what is his comfort level may be with it? How and when is it best to bring it up? What do I say to him?

3. How can I approach it so he feels uninhibited and comfortable whether I squirt or not? I want that for myself too. I want to be fully vulnerable, authentic, and surrendered to the experience with him. I want to feel so uninhibited that I can completely let go, and cvm, however I cvm. (without any expectations or concerns).

Help... (hopefully, with all three)
Please...

 

[oOh Nasty]

At first, it's quite flattering. Being able to do such a thing is proof for him that you're giving your all.

After awhile though, it kind of gets in the way and sometimes the clean up is too much trouble.

Also, how do you decide whether a certain man is "one you'll squirt up a storm with" or not? I take it that if he's not able to make you squirt, he's probably not doing you properly, you aren't that attracted to him sexually, or there's another hangup somewhere in which you don't want to completely submit to him.

I don't think you can "decide" to squirt or not when the time comes.

I doubt there would be an issue in which you'd have to seriously approach him verbally about it. All of my male friends never ever had a problem with squirters, including me. If anything, it makes a mess and that's it. And who has time to think about that when you're busy squirting? Squirt juice is odorless and not really that disgusting.

 

[pierce_r]

It's pee. Sorry, but it is.

Basic college A&P (Anatomy & Physiology) will tell you that there is no gland anywhere in a woman's body that creates ejaculate. Look it up. (There is, however, the Skene gland, and a few small studies (see link below) suggest that it may create a very small amount of fluid that resides in the urethra during sex. A VERY small amount.

That said, repeated laboratory examinations of the "squirting" fluid show that it's almost entirely pee.

"Women who experience squirting are simply learning to release one set of muscles while contracting the bladder so they can release urine during orgasm."

Read the following studies, and FFS don't do it in my bed.

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https://www.newscientist.com/article/dn26772-female-ejaculation-comes-in-two-forms-scientists-find/

"Some women express liquid from their urethra when they climax. For some, this consists of a small amount of milky white fluid – this, technically, is the female ejaculate. Other women report “squirting” a much larger amount of fluid – enough to make it look like they’ve wet the bed.

"A few small studies have suggested the milky white fluid comes from Skene glands – tiny structures that drain into the urethra. Some in the medical community believe these glands are akin to the male prostate, although their size and shape differ greatly between women and their exact function is unknown."

"Even though the women had urinated just before stimulation began, a second scan – performed just before they climaxed – showed that their bladder had completely refilled. Each woman’s final scan showed an empty bladder, meaning the liquid squirted at orgasm almost certainly originated from the bladder."

http://www.sciencealert.com/here-s-where-female-ejaculation-comes-from-and-what-it-s-made-of

http://www.thesexmd.com/squirting-really/

http://blogs.discovermagazine.com/s...oof-female-ejaculation-just-pee/#.V0u46JErJhE

"CONCLUSIONS: The present data based on ultrasonographic bladder monitoring and biochemical analyses indicate that squirting is essentially the involuntary emission of urine during sexual activity, although a marginal contribution of prostatic secretions to the emitted fluid often exists.”

 

[MrWood]

ive made women squirt, not all. I have created squirters as well. Never once did it look or smell like urine
I say about 50% of my partners could squirt or became squirtable. (not all squirt, some just wet up, and it is a thinner fluid than vaginal lube
My last ex didnt exactly squirt but her juices flowed freely, drippingly if I teased her breasts while she was standing
it was the consistency of male pre-come *vag lube

 

[LiveYourDream]

@pierce_r, I expected you'd feel the need to jump in here with your links to studies of an astounding 7 whole women, in a planet with billions. Let me cut and paste the perspective I shared with you last time, for others.

I know this is a side note in this thread, but let's not perpetuate this misunderstanding.

The fake female orgasms & fake squirting shown in porn, are sadly emulated by inexperienced women every day, who are unfamiliar with the real deal.

Their fake orgasms and fake squirting, DO NOT by default, make every other woman's orgasms and squirting, fake or simply piss.

What some call squirting is indeed just piss. That does not mean when a woman who genuinely squirts (female ejaculation) that what she squirts is piss too.

That would be like mistaking a woman's faked orgasms for the real deal and never realizing what it is to be with a woman, who really lets go and orgasms with her whole body and all that she is.

Some are not necessarily all.

Everyone has their preferences. I am not attempting to make you or anyone else here, care about something you don't.

I simply posted to clarify, so that men who do not have personal experience with women who actually squirt (not piss), would not mistake your comment for truth, as you implied it to be.

To answer your question, I did not realize your post had a link when I replied, so no I had no looked at it. I already knew your statement was in error. Out of curiosity, I did go check the link out ,since you specifically pointed it out. The "study" was based on 7 women. It a world of 3.5 billion plus woman, the researchers findings were based on the findings of just 7 women. I guarantee the findings of those 7 women and their sexual awareness and response is NOT representative of the physiology of women who actually DO squirt when they come (as opposed to piss as you and the "study" of 7 women suggest).

One more clarification, since you threw out some more misinformation. A woman experiencing a full body orgasm does not imply in any way that she squirts any fluid, of any kind, (let alone pisses all over the bed, as you stated). Just clarifying, so what you "believe" to be true about sex with women, is not mistaken by others to be factual.

If you are happy with women who simply fake orgasms, (or don't even have any) then so be it.

I wasn't looking to change that, just the potential spread of misinformation, for those that might be interested in the truth. That's all.

 

[jdb]

You want to be dominant in a way that isn't natural for you. From your op, it's clear you think more of the other person.

Having authentic sex is something that should be valued. You can't change your natural desire...are you trying to?

 

[MrWood]

to note, my squirters were before the porn squirt rage, (pre internet) and likely 80-90% of the girls never saw squirt porn

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Live your Dream,
Gosh what do you know about Pvussy compared to Pearce?...but he read it in a Magazine so he must be right...Well that's what I thought too,so I rang an old friend of mine...Some years ago My Wife and I used to have horny get togethers with this couple plus another...And as an aside to the moral police force here,the Western World has looked a bit wobbly since but hasn't quite collapsed LOL....So this Guys wife had a little party trick comprising the ejaculation of about a shot glass of fluid I would compare to the pre kum from my Cowpers Gland...Very slippery,and definitely not Urine...a novelty for us all,but the couple concerned eventually found it such a problem that she had to have both her Bartholins Glands surgically removed...Must say out of sixty hot and steamy lovers that is the only one...So maybe the studies did not use a broad enough study group?

 

[LiveYourDream]

It's pee. Sorry, but it is.

Clearly, you have personally never experienced the difference. Neither did the seven women being studied, that are supposedly suppose to, in you view, define reality moving forward, for the other 3 billion+ women on the planet.

 

[pierce_r]

Because science is different for those seven women? The other billions of women have some mystery gland that doesn't exist in those seven?

Or do you know something that doctors don't?

Go on; enlighten us.

This whole entitlement concept, the BS of "my ignorance is just as valid as your education" needs to be stopped. It's embarrassing. When people who study things for a living tell me something, and it's peer-reviewed, I tend to listen.

Find me a study by doctors saying it's something else.

 

[jdb]

Clearly, you have personally never experienced the difference. Neither did the seven women being studied, that are supposedly suppose to, in you view, define reality moving forward, for the other 3 billion+ women on the planet.

This is where you expect dominant characteristics from men, but at the same time YOU try to control the relationship. Do you REALLY want the man to lead?

 

[LiveYourDream]

Never once did it look or smell like urine

There is quite a distinction between the two, in my personal experience as well.

 

[oOh Nasty]

Urine or not, I'd say that it has the same "disgust" level as cvm. I'm pretty sure if a woman actually plssed on you, you'd notice the smell of plss. I'm not saying that it's not scientifically and technically plss, but if a man's first inclination is not to run away in the same way he'd run away from actual plss or shlt, then it can't be as bad as presumed.

We're naturally programmed to stay away from things that disgust us because it can possibly compromise our health. If we're fvcking and see shlt come out, we're going to back the hell away. However, if we're fvcking and see squirt juice, we just keep going. I think that says a lot.

 

[Bible_Belt]

It is the liquid that is just about to become pee, before the body mixes it with waste as it is forced out during urination. But that final mixing does not occur during a squirting orgasm.

Guys always think it is some secret male technique that makes it happen, but it's a female skill, not a male one. A woman will feel like she needs to pee during a strong orgasm, and just let go.

It's summer in the Northern Hemisphere. Outdoor sex is squirt-friendly. If indoors, just warn the guy about his bed getting wet, and make him get you a towel to lay on.

 

[jdb]

It is the liquid that is just about to become pee, before the body mixes it with waste as it is forced out during urination. But that final mixing does not occur during a squirting orgasm.

Guys always think it is some secret male technique that makes it happen, but it's a female skill, not a male one. A woman will feel like she needs to pee during a strong orgasm, and just let go.

It's summer in the Northern Hemisphere. Outdoor sex is squirt-friendly. If indoors, just warn the guy about his bed getting wet, and make him get you a towel to lay on.

The gf knows when I want sex, she excuses herself to use the restroom beforehand Dr

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Pearce,
You put great faith in a Magazine...Today that Magazine devotes half its pages to Global warming and other environmental articles...I am Old enough to remember when it touted the imminence of a new ice Age..Pompedou on departing the Presidency of France,was asked what advice he could give a new President...He said avoid Fast Women and slow Horses and also never listen to experts...The most important of these three?...The advice from experts....I believe what I experience and see!

 

[Rainman4707]

Disclaimer: The *squirt* I am referring to is not pee. Please don't perpetuate misinformation and suggest it is. Hopefully everyone here already knows better. If not, please go get yourself properly educated (elsewhere).

I've wanted to post for help with this for quite some time. I've felt self conscious and hesitant. As a woman it feels really intimate, personal and vulnerable for me. It is time for me to ask anyway. Here goes...

1. As a man, what do you think/feel about women squirting when they cvm?

2. I need help with something more specific too. I don't necessarily know in advance, if a man is one I'll squirt up a storm with, or one I'll never squirt at all with. How can I best approach that, considering there is such a wide spectrum of possibility of how my body may respond to sex with him (slippery wet all the way up tsunami), in combination with how he may feel about women squirting, and what is his comfort level may be with it? How and when is it best to bring it up? What do I say to him?

3. How can I approach it so he feels uninhibited and comfortable whether I squirt or not? I want that for myself too. I want to be fully vulnerable, authentic, and surrendered to the experience with him. I want to feel so uninhibited that I can completely let go, and cvm, however I cvm. (without any expectations or concerns).

Help... (hopefully, with all three)
Please...

If my girl squirts or has any kind of orgasm, I feel good.

I think it's great if a woman squirts. We're having fun so I want her to enjoy herself my advice is don't worry about squirting. Were both in the bedroom to have fun. Just relax & have fun.

 

[CuddleJunkie]

Disclaimer: The *squirt* I am referring to is not pee. Please don't perpetuate misinformation and suggest it is. Hopefully everyone here already knows better. If not, please go get yourself properly educated (elsewhere).

I've wanted to post for help with this for quite some time. I've felt self conscious and hesitant. As a woman it feels really intimate, personal and vulnerable for me. It is time for me to ask anyway. Here goes...

1. As a man, what do you think/feel about women squirting when they cvm?

2. I need help with something more specific too. I don't necessarily know in advance, if a man is one I'll squirt up a storm with, or one I'll never squirt at all with. How can I best approach that, considering there is such a wide spectrum of possibility of how my body may respond to sex with him (slippery wet all the way up tsunami), in combination with how he may feel about women squirting, and what is his comfort level may be with it? How and when is it best to bring it up? What do I say to him?

3. How can I approach it so he feels uninhibited and comfortable whether I squirt or not? I want that for myself too. I want to be fully vulnerable, authentic, and surrendered to the experience with him. I want to feel so uninhibited that I can completely let go, and cvm, however I cvm. (without any expectations or concerns).

Help... (hopefully, with all three)
Please...

1. I loved it.
2. Too complicated for me to answer. If you ask and he is unable to deliver, he'll feel bad. If you don't ask, he might never try.
3. This is the same question as 2.

Anyhow LiveYourDream, when I did it, I didn't even know what I was doing. Maybe just don't talk about wanting to squirt, but say that you love to be fingered hard, so he makes the moves but without the pressure of achieving a goal.

 

[grayclif]

@LiveYourDream. I think if you can have a conversation about masturbation you can slip in a few words about how you like to squirt.

Most guys may be very interested in this side of sex. When I make a girl squirt I feel I'm getting the job done right and she is fully comfortable with me doing whatever I feel like doing to her whoie having sex.

Maybe before or after sex ask your partner to masturbate with him or for him. And explain that sometimes when your really comfortable you squirt. Woud you like to help me... and then go from there.

I really think he'd be cool with it.

I must say though it does get the bed really wet. So make sure it's done at your place. He may not be too happy about having to worry about changing his sheets after freaky sex.

I just thought of something. You have to come out and tell him tho. Ultimately you will not be happy in your relationship unless he's helping you cvm the way you like to cvm.

 

[LiveYourDream]

1. I loved it.
2. Too complicated for me to answer. If you ask and he is unable to deliver, he'll feel bad. If you don't ask, he might never try.
3. This is the same question as 2.

Anyhow LiveYourDream, when I did it, I didn't even know what I was doing. Maybe just don't talk about wanting to squirt, but say that you love to be fingered hard, so he makes the moves but without the pressure of achieving a goal.

These feelings are what I want to avoid. My intent in initially bringing it up with him is NOT as a request for him to try to make me squirt. I am not bringing it up to make it a goal in any way. I don't want that pressure for him. I just want to enjoy being with him. My concern is about potentially squirting in front of, and on, an unsuspecting man. That amplifies with the concern that he could be a man who finds it repulsive. (How do I best respond if that were ever the case?)

I have no concerns whatsoever about a man purposely fingering me to make me squirt. It automatically conveys that he is clearly accepting of squirting and is more than happy to have me squirt right then. I can certainly enjoy that. I trust he will likely be quite pleased.

My concerns are beyond fingering. If I cvm really hard while he's eating my pvssy or his face is in the vicinity, he may get a wet face. He could love that or be horrified. It's so much more comfortable to be with and let go with a lover who I know is turned on by a woman cvmming so hard. Knowing he is ok with it (or even happy to get wet in the process), lets me relax and really be myself with him. That's what I want most. I feel like it's best for both of us, to know his preference in advance. Maybe he'd prefer to get a little altitude if he makes me cvm so hard while he's eating me out or maybe he has other ideas. Or if I cvm so I squirt while riding him hard, he will feel my squirt on him. I'd prefer to know/feel ahead of time that it's ok to do that with him. Most other positions, he's mostly going to feel my squirt on his c0ck and balls. That could be a turn on that amplifies the moment for him. Maybe not. I don't know.

I am not sure how to best approach it, in an easy going way, to find out in advance what he is comfortable with, again with the consideration that it may not even happen with him or perhaps quite the opposite.